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6 years ago
@dc9428 - SJG brings up all the time how 100% of married guys who go to the strip club are either the scum of the earth or should immediately get a divorce. But there are edge cases where the SC can make logical sense as a temporary bandaid or for long term surrogacy.
@TrapBaby304 - Our theoretical guy could theoretically fuck his paralyzed wife for sexual release. But that wouldn't provide affectionate touch, some guys go to the strip club for that more than the sexual side.
@SJG - Please note I am not addressing you directly so there is no need to respond. If you did you wouldn't address my points anyway. You would just talk about how this invades your personal privacy. As always whether online or F2F I can easily out debate you.
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6 years ago
@general - I am with you. But killing the bathroom trolls would be good for ALL PLs not just those on tuscl.
The good of the many...?
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6 years ago
@TFP - You are exactly right. And even past pointing out the differences in preferences. It's pretty simple to come up with massive logical holes in his diatribes:
1. My ATF is totally willing to make out. I personally don't want to, but even if I did it would do NOTHING to "open her up" for FS. Because she is 120% gay and totally grossed out by penises.
2. So if a guys wife is paralyzed or otherwise incapable of physical intimacy. So he should either leave her or never experience affectionate touch again?
3. SJG talks about "treating women as civilians" but his fantasy is to walk into a SC and have a hot girl just start fucking him with "zero words exchanged". That is NOT how you treat civilians. That is a sex fantasy where you are treating the woman as a sexual object. It's pretty much the definition of objectification.
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6 years ago
Wow, that is a tough one.
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6 years ago
If I start seeing a dancer regularly after a few visits I just ask. If you want I can buy you a drink of I can just keep tipping you more.
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6 years ago
So how do those work?
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6 years ago
Wait... zoey101, you're in Texas? How did I miss this? Are you traveling or have you been here this whole time?
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6 years ago
@nicespice - Be honest... did you reverse search my number? Because I totally did for yours.
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6 years ago
@nicespice - MLP Friendship is Magic...?
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6 years ago
I am with nicespice. I am not above looking up social media of dancers I like. A lot of millenial dancers are all friends with each other on instagram so if you find one of them you can find a ton of them. However I would never do anything with what I find on social media. It is simply interesting to see what some of the dancers are like OTC. I think a lot of the backlash against the OP is from the tone of his post. Saying "what should I do with this information" sounds terribly creepy.
I will also say I sort of had the opposite experience as the OP. I totally expected my ATF to be lying about the facts of her life and her real name (which I didn't ask for BTW). But to my surprise after finding her social media everything she has ever told me is true. Definitely wasn't expecting that and I have been tipping better since.
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6 years ago
@zoey101 - I have definitely approached dancers before. But a lot of the time dancers at the clubs I frequent don't sit alone very often.
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6 years ago
Semi retired
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6 years ago
@jeffTuscl - I am the same way. I frequently am not as interested in someone on a first meeting but become more interested after a few visits.
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6 years ago
Right
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6 years ago
@Bbybunny - While there are some exceptions I think you pretty much hit the nail on the head.
I have been thinking more that a lot of the emotional toil in the SC whether on the PL or stripper side is a lot from deep adolescent insecurities. Dancers crying in the dressing room from a guy turning them down for a dance is pretty obvious. But even in this case a guy doesn't get approached by the hottest girl in the club (who doesn't have to hustle) and that makes him sad deep down which he manifests as anger.
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6 years ago
@Smalltowncpl - You should probably DM nicespice. She is pretty much a jedi master when it comes to trolling and could give you some tips for next time!
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6 years ago
@yahtzee74 - As far as what dollar amount matters that depends on the dancer and I would agree with others that it is probably more of a percentage. I know in my case I am not a big spender on any one visit but my ATF isn't a top earner. So about a third of her salary comes just from me.
One gauge as to how much your amount of money matters to a dancer. If she only works on days when you agree to show up then your amount of money is important to her.
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6 years ago
Customers come and go all the time. Unless you are long term or a significant portion of their income they don't care.
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6 years ago
@misterwonderful - No fap is a group of guys who decide to completely stop masturbating. Basically you are only allowed to orgasm from sex with a woman. They get really into it, there are all sorts of rules and difficulty levels. Some (but not all) of them are religious and anti-porn.
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6 years ago
I would agree with you subraman that is super skilled on the pole is almost a warning sign. But I tend to like strippers of the lazier variety.
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6 years ago
For me LDK has become my alternative/upgrade to looking at porn
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6 years ago
Earlier this year I spent a while doing no-fap. For me I had probably masturbated once a day for decades so it was a big change. I do think there are some positive benefits to a reduction in masturbation but after trying it I am not in favor of going to zero, an occasional fap is fine.
At this point for me I LDK a few times a week with strippers in addition to a regular sex life. Then I might look at porn a few times a month.
The main benefit for me seems to be rewiring my brain to seek sexual release from women instead of the instant gratification of porn.
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6 years ago
I would imagine a lot of the time that claimed $1000 is before house fees and tipout.
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6 years ago
@blahblahblah23 - I would agree with you that it does seem like some of them change their tune from one post to another.
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6 years ago
I would try papis thing but from a different number. But regardless she either has a new number or doesn't want to see you.