Comments by Lurker_X (page 18)

Shazam to the rescue... Look up the article here from Sinclair called "Useful Apps for Strip Clubs"

Maybe Gen_z will have a sense from the 2007-2011 Era that the economy can unravel quickly and it is ultimately manipulate anyway. Perhaps it will leave them with a sense of perseverance, a bit like Gen-X who saw their parents and neighbors struggle through the awful 1980-1982 recession, and graduated during the early 1990s recession.

I have wondered at times if I was too brusque with a dancer several years ago at a club. She gravitated quickly to me on two occasions, from among the available PLs in the club. She seemed genuinely friendly, and was new at stripping. It is plausible she close-to-normal. But her double-peirced lips were too much of a turnoff for me, and I kept the conversations dull... Then left during her stage sets rather than make up an excuse to separate myself.

But you do need a Facebook profile to join Tinder... That has been a no-go for me. And I am Close to 50....not all that interested in age "appropriate" matches

He is probably on so many ignore lists now that most of do not notice

Eww. Marry a former porn actress? And your friends and family search for the recordings? :-p

Book Guy, my definition of extra would be anything she won't do on the floor... Kiss, pull aside her bottom for a peek. Doesn't have to be sexual but something she does not want every guy in the club to assume is available, or something she could fined for by the club and costs her income. ("Fines" are a shady way for a club to earn income from extras, in my opinion)

Looks staged to me. I have seen couples in public parks doing it before... One time a couple parked several spots away, they reclined the seats, and their SUV became a bouncy LUV box.

One of my go-to's was willing to tell me some fantasies about stuff she imagined me doing to her... I simply enjoyed it as 1-900 sex talk and didn't take it too literally. I like the afterglow of visiting a fun girl, and will have flashbacks of stuff we did together, as I grind through the workweek looking at files on my laptop. But I don't imagine either of us confessing deep feelings.

It's usually a good idea to sample several girls on the floor. Odds are, all of them will provide some degree of "better" in VIP. Out of those you pick a few good ones, then try VIP, and decide if VIP is worth it. At one of my clubs I am thinking of skipping VIP in the future, and stopping there more as a warm-up spot for laps and stage. I will explain this to a few of the dancers, encourage them to migrate to a club with fewer rules, or just OTC with me.

Gotta love the understated "really don't give a shit about the underlying problem" vibe in that text conversation!

Have the balls to simply discuss this stuff with her. Not to the point of saying your ear was on the door - but man up and explain why you could not perform and that you don't need the 3rd wheel around. If she will not see you alone then you have your answer, insofar as your real priority in her life.

... And yet another obligatory LarryFishKill whine in a 10 questions thread, lulz

Let's not dare JuiceBox to describe someone "beneath his minimum standards" Ewww.

You can get an "expedited passport" made in a week for an additional fee. I got mine through regular processing and it took 3 weeks.

Hmm. I'd be leaving the 75cents on beers and cokes, $1.75 on mixed drinks. I presume many guys who do not visit tuscl don't tip at all.

I kinda do feel like the stereotypes about Millennials do apply fairly well. At least the college educated urbanites I encounter at the office. But then I still encounter chain smoking, rednecky, high school dropout types at the small town strip clubs. It's kind of a strange feeling at times, to transition from one world to the other in the same day.

Well this thread went downhill quickly. What we'll be seeing soon is a transition away from boomer customers to Gen-X customers. Maybe that's another thing crimping the number of clubs. The population base of middle aged men willing to pay for play becomes lower and that supports fewer establishments. When I talk with mid 20s strippers about how they got into it, I am surprised a little at how easily they shrugged aside doubts and plunged in. I remember in college in the late 1980s how it seemed such a taboo thing for one of my buddy's girlfriends to be invited by another girl to consider working at *gasp* Hooters!

At my clubs, the "buy the lady a drink hustle" isn't really there. And at some of them, they do not want the dancers drinking until they have covered their house fee. I may offer when the waitress is in front of me and I'm getting one for myself. Sometimes I've been at the bar and a dancer *that I have bought dances from in the past* comes up and asks for a drink or a bite of food. If it's just once during the night, I will shrug it off and be congenial about it. And I agree with mark94, getting to hold a slightly tipsy dancer before her stage set is part of the overall fun of being there.

I stage tip if I "do not mind if the dancer remembers me and comes over". If I *want* a dancer it's normally easy to just ask her at some point during a visit. Most clubs in my area do some kind of promotion hourly, that makes dancers circulate around the floor.

Maybe if you lived in Imperial Beach and didn't consider the trip a hassle, visiting HK a couple of times a week like a local club, it'd make some sense to go to HK for basic titty-grabbing LDK finishes. Even so, I bet the any girl you take to VIP will be trying to upsell you on a room.

The principal trolls who burden up the message board with their topics remind of the the old USENET days, where everyone resorted to putting ASSC in the titles of their posts... there was so much Spam that people needed a way to find relevant and on-topic information through filters.