Paying Strippers Just For Being Beautiful
flagooner
Everything written by this member is a fact.
Am I in a minority here? I am white, I mean in another way.
I don't go to strip clubs to ogle beautiful women and pay them just because they are beautiful. I leave that to guys who like to make it rain.
I can see prettier girls in other venues, like the beach.
Don't get me wrong, I enjoy seeing the hottest ladies around. But I give my money to the ones that give me the most entertainment.
Do y'all think the hottest girls on shift deserve tips for just being outrageously gorgeous without providing anything else?
I don't go to strip clubs to ogle beautiful women and pay them just because they are beautiful. I leave that to guys who like to make it rain.
I can see prettier girls in other venues, like the beach.
Don't get me wrong, I enjoy seeing the hottest ladies around. But I give my money to the ones that give me the most entertainment.
Do y'all think the hottest girls on shift deserve tips for just being outrageously gorgeous without providing anything else?
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I think location has a lot to do with it as well. I find the strippers closer metro areas and upscale clubs have more GPS on average. Even the 7s and 8s. They are spoiled with the big $$$ and attitudes reflect that.
I stage tip rarely (don't like sitting at stage), but when I do, it's either because I want to ask her to join me later, or to tip her just because of how sexy she is on stage and how that makes me feel
If they effectively tease, or provide enjoyable company, or some other service... sure they deserve something for that. In considering strippers, if all other things are equal I would certainly go for the most attractive, but that talent alone is worthless in my opinion.
Using the same logic, intelligence can be seen as a "talent". But it too is worthless unless put to good use. I've never seen anyone paid for sitting on their ass completing the NYT Saturday edition crossword puzzle.
You played well today, a little unlucky not to win.
But if all the other strippers are more energetic, seductive, and "willing" the gorgeous dancer wouldn't get anything from me. She'd be on a par with the ugly stripper that gives UHM.
Thanks londonguy. I think today was more encouraging than frustrating. But yes it wouldn't have been unjust to take all 3 points home from the Bridge. CYOG!
SJG
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But in loose clubs where front room mileage is available, nothing wrong with handing a girl $20 when she sits down with you.
That way also, if things don't happen, likely another girl, a smarter one, will jump in to take her place.
SJG
SJG
Several clubs that I frequent don't have actual stage shows - so I don't stage tip in those clubs - but I do participate in the dollar parade every time it makes its way past me.
I'm not sure if that helps or hurts my argument!
I can see those who go to clubs for the conspicuous consumption/making it rain angle doing it more frequently.
'beauty' is first displayed by a walkby or stage appearance. then backed with attitude. i guess attitude could be also be personally. in the long run 'personally' is numero uno for repeat engagements.
there are a few other lovelies that i like... these are all 'works in progress'... (one nice thing about me being an old fart... nothing is serious.)
If you want to get to know her and get her into GFE mode, then making up excuses and handing her money will go a long way towards shifting her away from trying to sell dances, and instead to letting your lead it.
SJG
The dynamic that Nina is describing may not be popular in TUSCLville, but it's not completely alien. She's basically describing a hostess bar (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Host_and_h…) where people go solely to talk/flirt with very attractive women. It's primarily an East Asian thing, but not unheard of in America. Again, it's not what the average TUSCL user wants (and not what I'm into) but I have no doubt that there's plenty of guys who crave human interaction as much, if not more than, physical interaction. A strip club is not the most outlandish place to seek that out.
Ultimately, though, I will not pay dancers money for time spent chit chatting and being pretty. That said, if I'm not interested in a dancer, I politely let her know ASAP. Where I am, it's really rare for a dancer to expect a tip (except maybe a drink) for conversation.
Compare that to Atlantis in Ford Heights, IL, where a girl might take home 20 bucks from the main stage (topless only, seats almost 20) regardless of how hot she is. The norm seems to be not a single customer approaching the stage (at least during weekdays; weekends are a little bit better). There the girls tend to avoid the stage like the plague. The two satellite stages there seem to get a little more attention in terms of tipping; i guess guys trying to set up a dance or something. Of course even at topless clubs, you still have the occasional showoff that makes it rain (20, 50 or 100 singles).
It makes sense to me. The only reason i would tip at a topless stage (unless there was significant contact/interaction, i.e. groping or motorboating) would be to let a girl know i wanted to see her later. Otherwise i can just sit at the floor and see pretty much the same thing that you can see at the stage without spending/wasting money. The exception is the nice up close and personal views that a nude stage offers. Apparently many of the customers at these clubs feel the same way IME. i don't know if it's a different dynamic at other areas in the country.
Good discussion actually; it's been one of my observations that i've wondered about.
I think there's a variety of factors though that go into stage tipping. Along with nudity I think prices and mileage affect stage tipping as well. High priced low mileage clubs tend to have more stage tipping from my observations. Coincidentally these clubs also have higher quality dancers.
The topless factor was the only thing i could come up with. Even Club 390 and Club O with their relatively lower quality but similar high pricing/high mileage had better stage tipping with their optionally nude stages, although the stage setup at 390 isn't designed for high tipping (only one 3 minute song on weekends on a dinky stage with two spinning poles which most of the girls seem to like using and spent almost half the song on), although they do get on stage quite a bit (almost once per hour on weekends). Coincidentally, many of the girls didn't get naked for that one song, but the ones that did seemed to make the most, even more so if they were hot.
Most of the clubs with nude stages have pretty good talent though. i think most of the hot dancers recognize that they do well on a nude stage and stick around a bit longer. PoleKatz and Gold Club get around the non-tipping at topless stages by forcing customers to sit stage side by putting the regular tables directly at the stage so the dancers can "bother" customers for tips. A lot of customers still largely "ignore" the dancers. It's funny to see a hot dancer on stage and customers just talking to each other pretending that she's not there (or maybe they really don't notice her).