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7 years ago
Champ, Room Irvington NJ. Early to mid 2000"s
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7 years ago
I saw it, hilarious.
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7 years ago
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Cashman1234He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
Ive quit before. Gave it up a few years, not by intent entirely. Probably will take a few more breaks throughout the coming years. Feeling like one now, just not worth the while currently. Getting boring.
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7 years ago
+100 What Polly Ski & Papi said. It has gotten kinda routine and boring. I find myself people watching or watching whatever sport is on. Done most of my deviant sexual fantasies.
Also, currently have a wicked hot GF, the freakiest nastiest ever, so little motivation to go often.
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7 years ago
@Dirk
You have an inquisitive mind on this subject and post some good stuff. Might I suggest that in order to gain the insight you seem to desire into the minds of your subjects, you take a sojourn into the life and try dating one or two for a period. It will reveal you want to know.
Stripper economics: The girls have a decent amount of $$ come thru their hands daily. The by far biggest issue (and I'll defer to BJ on this for agreement) is the daily nature of this earning. Living day to day is the Worst financial problem to have. A girl I dated made regular bank but spent so much daily on living that she never saw most of that money. Then was usually strapped come end of month.
It really was not what most people here like to joke about girls spending frivolously, it was just not being able to budget on a monthly basis for her responsibilities as most people do.
Degrade them if that makes one feel better about oneself but they really aren't THAT much different from the Pop as a whole. A ton of women have money/spending issues the same.
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7 years ago
@Ski
I disagree. It's far cheaper and easier to run a dive/mid tier club in a smaller municipality than a large high end establishment in a large city, carrying a whole order of magnitude greater overhead.
Like your track analogy, the SC future might be in simulcasting. I already see it in a few clubs I know the management, who use IG Live frequently, much to my ire.
@BJ
Yes, the only girls I've known to move upward after dancing have been able to secure a beneficial relationship. There are 2 I know who did well who had good jobs and only used dancing as supplemental income.
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7 years ago
75% is actually pretty good. For me, it used to be, if I'm not taking her out of the club/after work, forget it. Same for a lot of the girls I've known also.
A little know fact: Most PLs are as flaky as dancers. You know how many guys come in the club claiming to want OTC only to flake out or they're broke? Girls develop a strong BS Radar too.
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7 years ago
I'm with Ishmael, This guy can't be real. Why would he post that here if he knows enough to be on here.
Even if he's a doe-eyed 21-40yo virgin, he can't be this gullible AND be on Tuscl for months.
So... no advice from me bud, come to Jerz, I have some stripper friends I'd like to introduce to you. They'd "Love you long time" for sure.
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7 years ago
@Dirk.
Agreed. Regulars do make up the greater spend, like most businesses. The girls aren't surviving off of the casual customer for sure.
I just don't see that much money circulating in the SC economy, and certainly not staying in the clubs bottom lines. Most spending mongers funnel most of their spend to the dancers, sure the clubs get some of this, but these girls are hustlers after all, they know how to work their biz environment.
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7 years ago
@lopaw Don't feel bad, there are a few of you here and there. I know and see a couple in the NE
@Dirk. I've known a couple SC owners and I think its far less money in the industry than that. A lot of what comes into the clubs isn't retained by the businesses, and non of the owners I know are independently wealthy. They do it more as side biz or just out of a love of bar ownership than anything.
Can't speak for the corporate clubs which I don't frequent often, but even there I don't see that much circulating, and they're carrying far higher operating costs. (Sort of a hobby of mine, watching the operations of any business I'm around.)
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7 years ago
Wow. Agree with what most have said, very good advice. Have had to remove myself from the SC world more than once also, like most things, moderation is the key. I think many people here have been thru this to some degree, I have, and have friends who have to an extreme.
I've personally dated seriously 2 dancers, only one I met in the club. Both were clean dancers not extras girls. Both were relatively sane for that environment. But still its a trial.
Take yourself out of it, allow time to recover in all ways, and try to build a Real Life. Only then, you can return to SCing for kicks and fun, and be stable enough to keep it in the proper category. Good Luck.
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7 years ago
@Papi Lol
For W/e reason I seem to attract those types. The ones who seem to really enjoy what they do. But be warned, careful what you ask for. Its one of the reasons I took up running again, it'll run you down if you can't handle it. They need it ALL the time...I know, a real problem
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7 years ago
Btw $2k month, you might want to use the term Sugar-Baby to her and see from there. Idk
Where you live but you're already supporting this girl and her family, you should have a key.
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7 years ago
I'll just second what everyone else has already said.
But let me add two points. Decide what you are looking for. SC's are great but not for finding a GF/real relationship. I think you can learn that from most people on here who at some point have been caught-up in the stripper web. That should give you clarity of purpose.
Secondly, you state the money is not an issue, but focus on the word Value. Would you pay $50k for a Corolla just because you can afford it? If you want her for a GF/SO, well she's worth everything you have. Just understand you're buying a GF then. If you want sex you absolutely have to factor value to not get taken advantage of.
Example, guy 1 pays $200 for sex with girl he's friendly with.
Guy 2 pays $500 for sex with same girl, gets basic sex, not very much fun with same girl, who thinks she has him around her finger. Additionally, she hits him up for more cash occasionally because she can and he lets her. Value.
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7 years ago
^^LMFAO Best one all day!!
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7 years ago
Hate to say it bro, but it's none of your business. Don't try to Mr Save-a-Ho
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7 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
Word Up. Some people act like the ho is their wife. Wondering "what would she think if I do....."
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7 years ago
@TFP-WORD
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
OMG That's unbelievable. Not a red cent.
If you're afraid to make a scene this ain't the hobby for you.
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7 years ago
@JohnTitor +100
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7 years ago
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Doces300You can run but you will only die tired
Wait wait wait... is this the same Doces who hit up the tall black girl how many hours in VIP raw-dog, and left with the battle scars after?
You're back on this bitch case again for the 1k? If I could reach thru the ether and slap you I would. C'mon Man, we're all pulling for you.
Don't get me wrong, I'm sure we've all done the dumb spending we've lived to regret, I guess you might as well get it over with, like was said, and be separated from your cash. Hopefully you'll get it out your system. As Brother Rick said, diminishing returns. Pussy or sex does not get better with price. It's not a Mercedes, C-E-S Class there's an improvement as you go up the price scale. Totally worth it. Not so with strippers.
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7 years ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
Central Fl to Mia, so about 250mi each way.
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7 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Lmao. In the words of Charles Barkley, "That's terrble just terrble"
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7 years ago
Lol. He had an appointment to fuck a bear back, get it