Comments by lick-that (page 6)

I kinda agree with you. I'd say about 75% of the time. I'm not a real drinker but it does add to the experience. Sometimes I just drink water depending on the location and time of night. Fun can be had without alcohol though.

@Red DAMN. What do you do there for 5 hours? Frankly I'm bored after 1-2 hours. I've seen guys like you Who I leave and come back much later to pick a girl up, and they're still there. But I assume they're just the local drunks. Please, break down a 5 hour visit for our benefit.

Matter of fact let me start a thread

Reminds me of the vid of the idiot pumping gas, see's a spider next to his tank, and tries to shoo it with his lighter, with the obvious consequences. Look it up on YouTube.

Clubs are closed mostly

@Cash GF Basically. But casual. Yeah I want it to last as long as I can, that's why I don't want the complications.

@ K I've spoken to her since, but kept it brief. It's just lkind of hanging in the air still. If she doesn't bring it up or repeat it, I won't.

Well can't argue with consensus. Have the itch though

@Cash If this keep up, light snow, might try to make Paterson tonight. Never been to Johnnys, could tonight be decent. Or Xcape or Sunrise

Warren Really? 2 and nothing sticking yet. Fingers crossed

I rarely go to her club, stripper boyfriend I am not. I get the other bs texts all the time from other girls so it doesn't affect me. This girl man I don't know. I don't want to lead her on, but I don't want to clip her wings and possibly break it off either.

@Max . WOW quite a story those Bro. I'm seeing "Seeing her". But it doesn't take away that she does what she does, if that makes sense. I don't want that kind of relationship. Been there Done that.

@Papi Like 10 years. I'm certainly no newb. I've Ihad long term with a stripper before(1+ year). I see her extensively outside the club. Way past P4P. Just don't want to go back down that road. I guess I should know better, Any woman is going to want something as time gems by.

@Papi & Subra We go at it quite a bit, and communicate a lot too. Not like it's a Club only kinda thing, that's why I'm a little wary of playing along. I'vedone the casual I love U thing when both parties know it's just words, somehow I think one night be serious. I wouldn't bring it to this esteemed panel if it wasn't.

Sights has been closed a while now. There similar private after-hours around NJ but you need to be down to know the info.

Good on you for being disturbed enough by this incident to have some self-reflection. Apparently the M.O. is to be upset then go back to your previous life activities as memory fades until the next time, and we all know unfortunately, there will be a next time. Many of us probably went through a period in our lives when we could have gone either way if we did not have some support structure around us, some of these young men may not have that, so any help they can get to not feel so marginalized is a plus. Sometimes just a little love or show of concern for you can keep you from evil thoughts and acting them out. Sounds corny but it's true. Boys have it tougher in many ways than we did growing up. Many ways easier too I know. One thing for certain we cant lock up our way out of this, although we do need to bring back mental confinement. This ridiculous idea of simply medicating and release is not working.

@Papi LMAO I think I know the girl you're referring to. She used to be in NJ but I heard she moved to Fl. Used to rack up in the club surprisingly. Good personality and great on stage too.

@BJ That's one of my Fav episodes. Hilarious

Do you care what they think of you?

@DrEvil Good One. Lol

Dude Dude Dude... Stop yourself before you end up With the Fishes. Here's the deal (As told by them), They all have abusive BFs. All have abusive childhoods. All have been molested or otherwise abused. All have a deadbeat Baby Daddy. All have scum of the earth friends. Choose to believe what parts you wish, but NEVER EVER swallow, hook line and sinker, the whole tale. But if you do, it really isn't your problem now is it. That's when you separate the PL into just plain ole Pathetic and a Loser. Surely you know this, being an upstanding member of this fine institution.

Makes sense. I thought FL once I saw the headline, just from personal experience. We does it better..lol

OMG I count 40!! What am I going to do with the rest of my life now? I'm too young to this much a PL already, but I started Really early though. Lol. Time to work on a bucket list...

@Pyroxl Bro the best advice you can get is to stop discriminating and categorizing civie women by rating #. SC, fine, but not IRL. Next, from personal experience, treat your 4-5's as 9-10's, and the 9-10's as 4-5's. Really, try it!! WOrks wonders. You'll get the best out of the regular girls, and intrigue the stunners. Both will like you more than most others guys in their life. Give it a try.

@Anon Good one