Comments by lick-that (page 12)

As the song says "It ain't trickin if you got it", so if you ain't got it then it must be... I ball when I can. Not trying to impress anyone. So do it if I have it, but I can have a good time on $50 too. Get your Pimp game up, don't need to break the bank every time to do it.

@ Sub. Larry. Cash: All make valid points. My point is, I don't want to be in a P2P relationship with ANYONE, stripper or civil, long term. Why would you want that? I understand that as men we Always end up paying in some fashion for sex, financially or otherwise, (bleeding ears come to mind). But I think, and this may be controversial, that them in my life is more valuable to them than vice-versa. I know its cocky but look at them and look at us? I'll pay you to get to know you 2/3 times but beyond that, I'm doing you a favor. Like Papi said, some are looking to attach onto a normal functioning "healthy host". Know your worth in all things, and you'll be viewed as more than an ATM/crisis solver, and also avoid a lot of the SS bc she'll want to keep U and value you. Church over. Amen!!

@Papi. I currently have one of those "seeking to attach themselves" types now. Debating whether to maintain it or release back. She's ever so sincere but the instability and dingbat drama is lurking in the background, trying not to surface.

@Larry. Okay, well you started out with "Date, fuck and hang out", so therefore the need for clarification. As to the regular argument, of course ITC it makes a diff extras or not. But OTC no, I wouldn't continue a P2P for too long. Leads to dependency and all the negatives Papi refers to.

IDK IDK. Your argument belies your premise. Which was "If you want to date a stripper, fuck a stripper for free". Seems you are arguing based on ITC/OTC extras, and not on actually carrying on a relationship of some kind separate from the club. Ive "been" with 2 dancers, the first I didn't meet at the club. Her I had no problem being around her working, the second I stayed away from the club she worked at. Neither of them I spent $$$ to get with. But I will have to be the contrarian and say I agree that if you want a regular good thing OTC IME, 2-3 times is the most I have paid OTC before transitioning to another type of arrangement. It would seem preferable to P2P with NSA, but that grows old really quick and leads IME to the ATM viewpoint as mentioned earlier. My 2 cents..

Time n place for everything. But on a regular night... Dive for sure. But even these come in diff degrees, so its not one general category.

Sideline went paid subscription yesterday so I need a new service. Anyone can recommend a free app with MMS/ picture texting to save me a search on Play store would be appreciated.

Yeah Vics is something else. This was maybe C Room or Slicks, don't quote me on that.

@Shailynn Good one. Sounds like most strippers I know. They're either slow or Slow.

NJ. Maybe 8-10years ago. Girls would crawl along to counter for tips.

Screwed up his and his families livelihood for that nasty looking Ho. I'm sorry, but she's not it. That's catch n release right there. I don't mind slumming myself, but as we all know, "go down to the gutter, but don't get comfortable..."

As I commented in a previous discussion, Nothing Uncovered ITC. That's now, I have once or twice in my earlier years clubbing. I have seen girls working the bar, stop and spread to receive from monger after monger at barside... unbelievable.

To each his own I guess... Kissing anyone!! I have just met period, worst an on-duty stripper in an extras club?? You're taking your life in your own hands brother. You don't know what or who she has done prior to you. That's like kissing a hooker you just picked up off the street. Keep everything covered in the club..Period!

Well besides a pic, video and bio, there isn't much else to add for advertising purposes. Unless they do a live IG/FB as a Amsterdam style Glass Window, to attract customers. That would be good for us when deciding what club to hit. Would reduce the hit or miss aspect of SCclubbing.

@Poledancer83 I'm surprised at the amount of people who do it in the SC on all sides:.dancers, staff and customers. Social media gone crazy. Everyone going live. I wonder who's watching?? Some just think it's cool to be seen/tagged there. Nothing wrong but the way I know it, what goes on there stays there. Some are the opposite. @Papi. Some clubs do that, show a roster for the shift, which is nice if you're a regular there I suppose.

Agree it's awkward. What bugs me more is Managers and Custys taking pics and videos in the SC. If management wants to show n post up pics and vids, do so away from your patrons. Saw a few heated exchanges about people being recorded (customers) without their consent. Btw, I approve of your Avatar wholeheartedly. Would like to give it a personal stamp of approval?

Those who actually enjoy doing it as a sexual/turn-on I find do it best. I had a stripper GF who would go home most nights horny as hell after work from the club. Just the act and the lack of actual sex during work would leave her horny. But she was a nymph anyway, so maybe that doesn't apply. Correlation.. not directly. I'd say depends on how sexual she is personally.

Need details... What type of Club you like? What type of girls you like? Looking for extras ITC? OTC? What type of club experience? Are you mobile? How far you want to travel?

@Poledancer. Excellent topic for this board. Have to agree with you on the attention part. That's a reason I tend to at least tip everyone something, unless the are out of line. Drinking? In that environment some kind of buzz is required and you need to build up a tolerance, so you can still function financially. We've all seen newbies falling out and being taken advantaged of in clubs. IME its WAY better for a girl to get out within 2-3 years even if she went hard during that time, the psychological damage alone is enough. Hanging around the biz on a steady basis beyond that leads her down that dark path few return from. @DDiggler, good write up the way out for them, hit largely on the head. I've been that guy to take her out the life before, but unless she is willing to make a TOTAL break from it, and still has enough humanity left in her, its a fools errand. Woe be the PL who marries an experienced stripper no matter what level she's on. They all wind up in the gutter dives at some point in their career. And that follows her like she's been sprayed by multiple skunks simultaneously. Impossible to get away from. Most of us can spot it out in the wild immediately.

Mia Tampa Houston. Atl becoming too commercial, as is Mia to an extent. LA is decent but not as gritty as I like it. Haven't been to Pnx or Detroit, they sound like a great wknd trip, Pnx might be too far for my East coast Ass for a SC trip. Would rather go all that way for Vegas instead. NY NJ PHL have died a slow painful death.

Ive been at this over many years, NY NJ PA FL CA and Caribbean. Quality is regional to a point. FL CA quality hasn't declined that much, though it has, NY NJ has declined shockingly! There are girls dancing who have absolutely no biz dancing for money, and I have told a few exactly that, that you should be paying me to talk to you. (Side note, Ive driven by some Ho Stro's and wondered the same. Who are these tricks picking up these dredges and paying them) It is only partly due to the economy, there's a reason why its the oldest profession, always in demand. Generally speaking, be it 9-5 or street money, there's less discretionary money floating around than pre-recession. We used to party and each would drop 500-1k and take bitches out OTC after. Younger dudes I find it's more for show, though some do get down with it. Also just plainly more women in the Biz. It has lost any stigma attached so a lot of girls who wouldn't have before now dance. Even if they have a job, just to make ends meet. I'm not talking theory, I know a lot of strippers, having had 2 GFs in the biz. But one of the biggest reasons has to be social media. You can IG every single bitch in every club. GF used to show me her DMs, its insane. You don't do extras, good luck. Also everybody fucks, directly or indirectly. ITC or OTC or Regulars/clients/friends. Girls make the distinction but to anyone else its all the same.

Its good to keep the others interested. And fav will always have friends who come around to say hi. Only one I buy drinks for is CF tho, that's wasting $$. So maybe 80/20..

Well from personal experience, there's no way she's gonna be cool with you doing more with them or fucking them outright. She's a woman after all. That said, my chick brings girls over for me that she's cool with or likes also. Encourages me to play with them as long as all understand who's who and what's what. If she initiates it its no problem, just don't be a rube and think because it was cool when she did it, then you can continue other times without at least her acknowledgement in the future. Don't get carried away, (I'm assuming she's one you would like get all you can get with and not some random you just started messing with). Strippers can be great for that openness.

Speedy recovery Papi. All the best.