CF approved dancers.
Stognasty
Everywhere. Currently Phoenix
My CF has provided introductions and recommendations for a couple dancers that she thinks I would like if she is busy. I haven't asked for specifics but is it safe to assume they provide the same level of service? Or is he just trying to spread the wealth to her friends? Would you ask your favorite or do the investigating yourself? What's your experience with this behavior?
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On the upside, it's likely she won't steer you towards ROBs. On the downside, she's not going to steer you towards anyone she's threatened by, who provides better service than her, or more mileage for a lower price, etc.
Nope. It's possible, but I would never assume that.
"Would you ask your favorite or do the investigating yourself?"
You could do both.
My response was that it was pretty uncool but probably not the first time she has heard that. She said of course not and if the guy is cool then she will even give him names of dancers that will.
I would never ask her for recommendations. I'm sure that she would probably give me some but that is not saying that I would like her recommendations but if I did take them, I could probably forget any chance that I ever had of getting her to change her mind with me.
> Would you ask your favorite or do the investigating yourself?
Definitely do the investigating myself. The only ones I have ever taken recommendations from are those who know I'm not interested in them and have an idea of who I might be. When they guess right (and probably have talked me up to the one they recommended to me), I tip for the effort.