Is stripping/lap-dancing a skill ?
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
At first thought w/o thinking thru-it is that it's not really a skill - but then again I see the way some of the experienced dancers move/grind and it sometimes dawns on me many an avg non-stripper woman probably can't/does-not move like that (and often the difference is noticeable w/ a newbie dancer) - specifically in my case at times I'm at awe how some of those ebonies at the black-clubs can move their bods and move their hips in such sexually suggestive and sexually enjoyable ways.
Do you think the avg experienced stripper is at a different level sexually than the avg civvie chick, or more of it being individual to the woman?
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In terms of sexual level between avg stripper vs avg civie chick. In general think it would be equal at all levels with the exception of giving a dance which is advantage dancer. Sexual prowess in the actual bed is yet another skill and separate from LDing. If there is overlap it is because the stripper is multi-talented.
But again, in my particular case - some of those ebonies from whom and I greatly enjoy their LDs b/c of the way they move can also fuck really-good using very similar techniques/movements to when they give a high-mileage dance.
That's not to say there aren't lots of civies that have mad-skills in bed but IME the strippers I've had sex w/ on avg were better to much-better than the civies
This is a different question than what I thought you would ask. To the question I thought you would ask: yes, lap dancing is a skill, and yes, an average stripper will be 100x better at it than an average civilian.
I don't think sexual skill is related to this though. I'd guess at extras clubs, the girls DO get better at sex, and are better than an average civilian. But I don't think no-extras girls are particularly better than civilians just because the strippers know how to do lapdances. I think if there's any increase in sexual skill among non-extras strippers, it's strictly a factor of things like confidence, lack of inhibitions, impulsiveness, wildness, etc.
Now that you put it that way - I'm a very visual guy and for me it's all about the physical not some kinda of connection or convo - yet there are times I have enjoyed lap-dances big-time from a dancer that at first sight was not particularly my type but gave a chance to and I was unexpectedly wowed by their dances and the level to which I enjoyed them
As for any connection between being a stripper and being skilled at sex, I suppose that extras girls get very good at giving BJs and HJs. Otherwise I agree that great strippers can be lousy lays and mediocre strippers can be great in bed.
I think a key characteristic of a good lap dancer is her keen perception of your experience giving you what you want. This means while she may have some routine she is gonna improvise based on your response. Pretty much like what any good sex partner does.
To use a baseball metaphor, a rookie with a 100 mph fastball can strike out a decent percentage of batters but has to develop another couple of pitches to qualify for the majors.
It's simple enough to pick up a pen, no? Every person on this forum can sign a signature. But I doubt any of us are skilled calligraphers.
Correlation.. not directly. I'd say depends on how sexual she is personally.