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6 years ago
When I see situations like this escalate I always wonder what came first the stripping or the lack of truthfulness and ability to con.
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6 years ago
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I've posted that sentiment multiple times Papi....I do go with no expectations and with money I can afford to lose with no emotional attachment--and it's why you don't see me get irate when things do not pan out.......doesn't mean I will not point out the absurdity of certain situations or warn others......
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6 years ago
5 & 6.....Sorry max.
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6 years ago
@Bbybunny--I don't ask. I can't speak for the other guys but as a rule I don't ask questions on a subject outside of the club life unless the dancer brings it up.
Which for me is why I find it amusing at times.
I agree with Nina most times I can tell if I'm having smoke blown at me or not. Most times I let it pass unless I feel there is an agenda with it that includes taking advantage of someone. Then I press.
I'll give you an example--the last club I went to was in Northeast Ohio....... I hadn't been there for close to a year because the one girl I liked and I was a regular client did enroll in Nursing School and cut back her times to one day a week ( I believed her) and about that time I got back together with a girl I had dated in the past .
When I was there a girl who I had never seen before ( but I had been going to this club often for a year before I stopped) told me she had been working there for three years. I'd never seen her. She then proceeds to tell me she is starting school --it's May--not a time most schools in that area are starting up new semesters. She then tells me she is moving to Chicago. When I ask why she tells me the winters are too much for her in the Cleveland area.......( because we all know Chicago winters are like winters in Miami) I about spit my drink out from trying not to laugh..........
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6 years ago
One of the questions I asked when I first started to go back to clubs and came her as a community member does the ability to separate real life from club life become harder and harder for strippers as months turn into years and the years pass.
I've phrased it a couple of different ways but never really seen a response. From what I have observed and painfully first hand in one case the answer is yes.
At first I doubt any of the women really understand what they are going to need to do to make a living but as the reality sets in part of the process besides becoming self medicated is to prepare themselves mentally to deal with the choices they need to make.
Subraman makes a good point. Somewhere in the thought process it shifts from I really don't belong here to I'm only doing this for X to I'm top shelf.
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6 years ago
I should send the link to my ex..........except I don't want to deal with the response.
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6 years ago
E--the officials who attended the Helen Keller school of officiating.
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6 years ago
"exactly what I thought! She’s probably not studying to be a welder. She’s just watched Flashdance a lot! Lol!"
Also known as the I don't consider it stripping, I am a good dancer and I enjoy honing my skills as a professional dancer line.....
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6 years ago
I hear becoming a nurse (school) over the past 18 months as the most common and then I start asking questions about biology and chemistry...........blank stares for the most part.....
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6 years ago
I expect the Cavs will win tonight in a close game...........admittedly I have been wrong more than once during this years playoffs. The next game is the one I feel the Cavs are at risk of losing.
GS takes one of two and heads back home and it's over.
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6 years ago
Liwet--thanks as well......not sure how private those dances would be at poolside but it all fits what was sent to me....
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6 years ago
I know I make a few of the ladies cringe on this board when I say this but she is one of a dozen or so females of the second generation of Internet Celebs that are famous for being famous........meaning somehow they have a look or a quirk or something that drew people to follow their IG or Twitter accounts and from that have a cult following........with her background being a dancer and hip/hop promoting the coolness of being a dancer....( check the videos) it came together for her and she sprung up quickly.
Talent doesn't matter and neither does what most of us would consider common sense......I don't begrudge her at all--from what I understand she had a hard life and she got a break and ran with it.......but the legions of people who somehow are thinking they should live their lives and treat others by the lyrics of her raps and that makes them her is a different matter.
Subraman made a comment about he believes if you put it out there on social media there is nothing wrong with us looking at it....although some would say we shouldn't....but I am in the same camp as him and always have been.......there are about as I said a dozen IG profiles I look for when I check out a girl.......and if there are more than 3-5 of them more times than not I have a stripper/sexworker/wanna be......
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6 years ago
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Jascoimr.wonderful to single moms and college age girls...
Take the train in Canada from Toronto to Vancouver ---Fall. And then I would spend some time in British Columbia.
I normally would consider Hawaii.....right now not so much.
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6 years ago
My ex was of mixed race and she had legs and a butt that could and did stop traffic and I kid you not a 22 inch waist. I give her credit when it was due. She has some AA features but she is not thick.
To the best of my knowledge she worked at three different clubs and couldn't make a go of it long term at any of them. She's back in Vegas and from what I have heard working as a stripper again although she swore to me she would never go back.
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6 years ago
Thanks guys. I was 1) curious 2) someone sent me a video yesterday which is what peaked my interest.
Vegas is always a bit different than the rest of the USA--plenty of cities have pool party places and rooftop pools anymore -- Vegas always promotes loud music, everyone screaming, and of course alcohol with topless women and VIP seating as necessities for a great time. Some fall for it.....for me I prefer something a little more laid back but then as shailynn stated I'm over 50.
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6 years ago
Most of the time when I go it is a last minute decision so time of year means very little to me although I tend to be less busy in the Spring and Summer with work and other commitments.
From a dancers point of view ( at least what I have been told by a few that I knew/know outside of the clubs) the slow season starts in April and gets progressively slower until July and doesn't pick back up until the middle to end of September. This comes from girls I know that work or worked in Ohio, PA, Maryland, Michigan, and Las Vegas.
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6 years ago
https://deadspin.com/nba-l2m-report-the-refs-made-a-big-dumb-mess-of-the-en-1826508265
And I still think because I was right on top of the floor the piss poor calls extend back to Game 6 of the Celtics series.
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6 years ago
What I have seen is ones I know with their profile up for a day or two and then it is gone never to be seen again. I'm not sure if that means they found a guy or realized SS might not cut it on SA.
I've been talking to one recently who right in her name has "pole dancer ( name) ....so I would guess there isn't any doubt with her.
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6 years ago
You would think "game recognize game", "honor among thieves".....I've generally found this not to be the case......most scammers seem to be the most susceptible to being scammed by others
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6 years ago
Kids, Grandkids, Music, cooking, tennis--I'd say golf but my game doesn't resemble the sport as it was intended, hiking, photography and travel.
When I have time reading as well.
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6 years ago
Last night really didn't change my mind about anything in terms of Game 4 being the key on if this series is over quickly or not.
twentyfive did you see the "official" NBA report about the quality of officiating in Game 1?
Curry was unreal last night. Regardless if I am a Cavs fan or not I respect his level of play--same with KT.
I still don't thing LeBron is going anywhere but only time will tell.
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6 years ago
For the most part I have been pretty lucky compared to what I hear from other guys but I've had worse behavior from ex-girlfriends over the years than I have from SA.
Probably the worst thing is the expectations not being met........which in turn is a waste of time and money--or the guilt trip of asking for more once you have seen them a time or two because of issues in their life.
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6 years ago
@ twentyfive --you can remove the word borderline.
@RandomMember from what I have seen out of Merkel the past five years she isn't the leader of much of anything --she happens to sit in a chair of authority but a leader requires showing leadership.
@BurhlingtonHoFactory you better come up with a better example than Pelosi if you want anyone with a logical mind to ever be enticed to vote for a female---that's the liberal equal to Palin.....and both of them show their ignorance to politics every time they open their mouths.
@flagooner----Barney the Purple Dinosaur was a popular kids TV figure..........if we are voting for an AA as was the liberal cry simply because is AA and then we were to vote for Hillary simply because she was a woman and we had to show the world we are progressive minded what's next? We've never had a purple dinosaur as president either.....same liberal logic.........
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6 years ago
Supposedly this was the exchange between Curry and James under the basket:
so Steph said "you couldn't let me have that one?" jokingly to LeBron after LeBron pinned his shot at the end of the game, and LeBron responded "get the f*ck out of my face."
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6 years ago
If the Fed and some of the states ( NJ being one of them) can figure out how to tax prostitution it will become legal.....until then NFW.