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6 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Rolling Stones......but there are a fair amount of 1A's right behind them.
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6 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
+ 1 to TheeOSU.....lol
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6 years ago
How many of us when we were in school ever did the exercise where you stood in a circle with about 20 other kids and whispered a secret in the kids ear on the left? By the time the same message got back around to you was it really the same? Is it ever?
BTW I'll stand by my answer............it looks just fine to me 24 hours later......:--)
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6 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
From the last two times I was in Vegas what I noticed is they frequent the bars closer to the casino and that when I had on a sport coat/blazer it seemed to draw more attention.
Max is the poster who seemed to single out Caesars and the Hard Rock but I never did make it to either place.
I went the SB route but even with doing that I got hit on a couple of times in the Wynn and once in MGM.
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6 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
Win at something, blackjack, slots, roulette......trust me they will find you.
Or wear a dress jacket and sit at one of the better bars inside one of the casinos.
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6 years ago
Stripping is interwined with the RAP culture because both groups want it to be.
And I am not so sure at this point if 16 year old girls as opposed to girls 18 plus would matter. RAP and strip clubs, especially some of the larger chains of clubs like to push the envelope of acceptance ...it gives them that "gangster feel"
As I've said before there are some older Rap artist I can appreciate and a lesser amount of the newer ones but just about any clown who can throw up his middle finger and move his hands when he talks with a soundcloud account can call himself a musician these.days..........
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6 years ago
Judy--there are guys that do appreciate the effort.
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6 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
Zoey--I'd go on IG and follow a couple of the clubs and also from the IG it's pretty simple to click on the accounts of some of the dancers and the patrons.
Oddly I know a few dancers and female bartenders that work at the clubs in Vegas although I have never set foot in one.
My one ex is also working out there now ( not going to get into her situation publicly) but it does seem to be a lifestyle and maybe the one place were being a stripper doesn't seem to have much of a stigma--other nightclubs love to have them as free guest for one thing.
I went to Encore Beach Club last time I was out there and about ten women got in no charge, dressed to kill and were pretty much comped everything from what I could tell.
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6 years ago
Zoey-- I'm asking but it seems that dancers after a year or so get a good feel for who is cheap and who is not. I've also heard the comment when a newer dancer lands a guy from some of the more experienced women that they wish they had got to him earlier because the newbie wouldn't know how to get more out of him.
So is it true....after a bit can you tell who the time wasters are?
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6 years ago
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san_jose_guymoney was invented for handing to women, but buying dances is a chump's game
I personally stay at the Encore or Wynn when I go to Vegas.
I've been in a couple of the bars. With Vegas in general I take everything as being overhyped.
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6 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I actually thought he would hang around one more year but when the Cavs didn't go after an experienced point guard ( choosing to draft one instead) I was less certain.
I can't imagine the impact this will have on the night life in Cleveland downtown--since LeBrons return Cleveland was actually a fun place to go again.
As for the Lakers it will be interesting when the Ball clan starts mouthing off how much LeBron will take before he tells dad and junior to shove it. ( which in part is why I never thought he would go to LA)
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6 years ago
+1 to poledancer83. I brought this topic up some time back was told I had no idea what I was talking about but I've seen a few dancers get the blues to being outright depressed--as well as I have asked if the proverbial switch that a dancer is supposed to throw when she goes from her real life to the stage starts to blur as the months turn into years. and the switch is thrown back and forth week in week out.
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6 years ago
Scroll up at my initial comment and notice I'm looking at the neck/Adams Apple which almost never is considered when someone transitions from being a male to a female----there is a surgery but it leaves scar tissue and it is extremely rare when it is performed.
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6 years ago
should read "watch what you wish for".........
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6 years ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWwikNgKvQE.......watch what you wish for.
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6 years ago
I had to go wash out my eyes.............SC....mean trick to play on a guy before he was fully awake.
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6 years ago
You would think the club management would realize this wouldn't go over very well with many of the paying clients..............at least passing out small flashlights to help to Adams Apple checks in poorly lit corners of the club might be in order.
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6 years ago
Loyalty sadly seems to be an overrated trait these days in or outside clubs so it shouldn't be a surprise when it happens in our little corner of the world.
I'd avoid the club if there is another one nearby for a bit and see if that gets you a text or communication of some sort......not for long and not if there isn't some other place nearby of equal quality......and if not I'd go back and simply pay attention to any other dancers that might interest you. ( which is what I did when it happened to me some time back)
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6 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
I used to be a huge boxing fan........not much on the MMA stuff although more and more people seem to equate it to boxing more so than WBC or WBA sanctioned fights........I've met Laila Ali........she'd probably beat the snot out of most of us in the ring.......so I have a healthy respect for anyone in the shape it takes to get in the ring.
@twentyfive years ago I used to attend a lot of fights but its been a long time since anyone has my attention to go root for them.
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6 years ago
I've never been a big fan of Starbucks and seldom go in......last time I was in one was right about the time they were going through "can I have a discussion with you about race"....and then I pointed out my then girlfriend who is part AA, part Korean, and part Carribean........oddly it ended the conversation.
"Sure what would you like to talk about?" But first get my coffee.....
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6 years ago
My ex is working in a strip club in Vegas.......didn't bother to go see her when I was there.....
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6 years ago
I'm a leg and butt man.... so high heels are a definite plus and probably heels over platforms although I realize they are probably harder on her to dance.
What I care about in order of how it presents itself ( meaning as I walk in the door).......place needs to smell like something besides mold and or urine.
I look for a good selection of girls--from what I have observed that means between 12-20 minimum.
A friendly bartender
Music with an upbeat but not so loud that I can hear it with noise cancelling headphones.
On the girls....a smile goes a long way. Minimum or no tattoos. Long legs, small waist. If you are on stage actually a good dance routine. ( don't look bored)
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6 years ago
500 K is not a lot of house in LA, SF, or SJ ( California) but it doesn't go all that far in NYC or DC either.
Many of us older guys bought homes years ago when property was more reasonable --I had my mortgage burning party last year. My home is easily worth 3 times what the original purchase price was back in the late 80's.
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6 years ago
Actually that is exactly how it is defined if you look at the dictionary version
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/misogyny
Secondly I'm not going to go look nor am I disputing your claim but it is relevant unless that is you spoke out in the discussion and disputed what the other women stated on this site, especially if you read the conversation and were online when it was active.
Where I'm coming from and I'm no different than anyone else in this regard is that all of us come here with a lifetime of events and interactions that make us who we are, what we tend believe and how we react to triggers. If you are a male( and for now I'll keep race out of the conversation) it is becoming harder and harder, especially on line it seems not to be called out for having a hatred of something.
I tend to look at the people who come to a community such as this one as having the same mindset of the people who went West in the 1830's --we're certainly not conventional, we certainly are out there compared to the population in total, and we have our quirks but this is as I stated a place for guys to come and blow off steam and if they feel like it brag a bit, share their experiences and hopefully come away with a bit of knowledge or at least a laugh or two.
Somehow I'm missing how this conversation is accomplishing any of the above........and now I am done with my rant as Dennis Miller use to say on the good ole days of SNL.