Trannys in the clubs.
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
From a recent review: "The tranny was there, offered me a dance. i was not paying attention, or I would have noticed it before accepting. it did inform me before starting, though, at which point I terminated. give it credit for that."
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AKRONOHIO
One thing I wonder, is if the courtesy "btw, I'm trans", to let guys know what they're getting into, is going to gradually go away. More and more, I see discussions where everyone seems to agree, "if a person identifies as a woman, then she is a woman, and under no obligation to let anyone know what genitalia she was born with, and it's none of anyone's business" -- that is, I wonder if the courtesy notification as a normative act will gradually disappear.
I think that most club owners and managers understand the risks involved in putting a trans on the roster - especially one who still has a frank and beans. That might fly in parts of CA, but I can't imagine that it would play almost anyplace else.
"she"it!
I can see and mostly agree with this for those who have *completed* the transition, or are not engaged in sex work. But for those who still have their male genitalia, and are acting as a sex worker, it’s a different story. If you’re a stripper or hooker who doesn’t want to reveal your genetic gender, wait until after you’re done transitioning.
Brilliant. I can't come up with anything that good.
GMD, I'm definitely not there. I'm not interested in having sex with someone who was born biologically a male, even if they surgically transitioned from penis to "vagina",take hormones, had other surgeries, and uses female pronouns now. It may not be anyone's business in the regular business world, but in sex work, I'm not even close to thinking that's ok.
Thing is, if she’s completely physically female now, looks completely female (without the hyper-sexualization many trans people in the sex trade adopt), acts female, and you can’t tell that she was ever *not* female, what difference does it make, and how are you going to find out if she decides to never tell you?
I’m not saying that her failure to disclose is acceptable behavior, mind, just wondering how you’ll know.
I’ve only met one person, not a stripper or hooker, who I *know* was completely transitioned from male to female. She’d chosen to let her breasts and body change naturally with the hormone treatment, rather than surgically altering herself (except for the obvious), which apparently results in a much more natural appearance. She’d also (from pics she had) *started* from a more androgynous appearance in the first place.
If she hadn’t told me, and backed it up with pics of her transition, I would never have known, and had she ever been in a club, I no doubt would have thought nothing of asking her to dance, or even blow me.
To be fair, she seems like an outlier, someone who really should have been born female in the first place, so all the surgeon did was just put things aright. Far more transsexuals decide they want the process to go more quickly than simple hormones will do the job, and the result is someone who looks like she was a man. I’m not likely to be attracted to such in the first place, so I’m not overly worried about it. :)