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a month ago
It is all in your head. I had an ATF that would do anything ITC. She took 4 songs of determined effort to make it happen. I had another that could swallow the evidence as a finale. But some girls could reliably do it covered and one that was pretty good at it had to so a stage set before resuming.
I find i have to feel like she wants it.
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2 months ago
Re: @rod8432 approval comments: I think explaining the incident with the short stay hotel is hard to describe. Do not try to understand the situation as if the stripper is a logical rational creature. That was not the case.
In that moment, i decided to treat it like a "shit test" instead of making sense of nonsense. And it worked. But she was a mess.
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2 months ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Some people actually like pop music. It makes money somehow. Other people have good taste.
My taste is different because i like the more experienced dancers because to me moves matter more than looks.
Consider yourself as having been told "i'm ok, you're ok"
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2 months ago
If you want a marriage with a sex life, you dont have one. Whether you divorce or reconcile you dont get sex automagically, you still need to do shit to make your wife attracted and usually that means doing the same things you did in the first place.
You sound like youd rather dump your wife and marry the stripper. Up to you to decide if she wants more than just a path to citizeship.
Video recording? Sheesh. I dont get the imprrssion the marriage was well cared for. Sounds like the better choice of whom you grow old with. But its kinda fucked up now.
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2 months ago
Ask the big guy at the door. He will be happy to give you the answer you need.
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3 months ago
I made it there a few times before covid, and at the time my general impression was mileage was overpriced but hypothetocally available (and seldom used)
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3 months ago
You mean like what, if they ran out of cows to tip over?
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4 months ago
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ItsmytimeI’ve had enough and I can’t take it any more
A.remember strippers perform for money. Anything they say may be a lie.
B. Support single moms. They can ride longer if you grab em by the hips and take some of their weight off their leg muscles.
discussion comment
4 months ago
In my experience it may go different in extras clubs than nonextra clubs. In extras clubs dancers are trying to get to vip to make money. If they learn you arent they move on to find a one who is.
With that said, they are women. And each may be different. Some are introverts themselves. Just be okay with trying things and see what you like. And be be okay with passing and trying someone else.
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4 months ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
@wallanon lol... top 10 in no particular order of things to ask your maid if she would do to earn a little extra cash based on porn hub:
Get your hand stuck in the sink/garbage disposal
Roleplay as my bratty step sister who is a stripper bit mom or dad dont know
Step daughter wants to wear a too small bikini and mom says no but step daddy will bone her
"Fluff my pillows"
Finds porn/sex toys and starts using them
Accidentally spill something on clothes to have excuse to take them off
Walks in in you jerking off and helps
Hears you fucking, listens from the next room, touches herself then wants more when your woman showers after
The whole Casting couch thing.
I may watch too much porn.
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4 months ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
Are you looking for suggestoons about subtle ways to hint to her that you want her to bend over and get stuck in the dryer?
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4 months ago
I think you really have to unpack what the term addiction means. Dopamine triggers are a product of our natural systems that encourage basic life functiions. It isnt just sex drugs and rock and roll, it is eating and breathing...
The term addiction refers to when the pursuit becomes destructive. Do you neglect family to be a monger, do you rob bodegos or use violence to support the habit? Do you run up credit cards beyond responsible levels? Do ypu start to believe strippers might actually love you?
Just keep a grip on reality. What happens in a strip club is a performance. Enjoy it in the moment as if it was real, but remember after that it is jist a service.
Addi
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4 months ago
I felt the same way until i went to one dearborn club and experienced exactly what i was reading in reviews. It was like they travel in a pack. Some have the English and some use google translate on their phone
I declined because it was too unknown, but it felt like it had pitential and could be interesting. Also felt like it could end in miscommunication. Which happens often enough with girls that arent imports.
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4 months ago
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
Meh... a goodl pl would know better. Thats overpaying and driving up prices.
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4 months ago
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
@TheeOSU i tried to squish your avatar. Well played.
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4 months ago
Ill tell ya.... it may be 10 years ago but i never spent over 100 on a date, and i usually got laid hy date 2 or didnt have a second date. In my experience that makes the stripper math pretty close. But of course itc is easier to get than a first date.
I think your experience speaks to your goals.
Imo the best things in life arent the easy ones though. Any encounter with a stripper is a performance for money. Long term, it is eventually not satisfying.
discussion comment
4 months ago
A stripper during work hours is a performer. This is one of few simple universal truths about strippers. Degree may vary but if they want to make money they have to fulfill a role that isnt one they would naturally want and they do so in exchange for money.
The longer they do this the more is bottled up. But eventually nature wins and they implode in some dramatic fashion.
What is she thinking? How about will she make enough to pay tip out and have money left for herself. Who is my next mark. How do i get the taste kf ball sweat out of my mouth so i can get the next guys ball sweat? Tammy has herpes i gotta make sure i dont approach any guys she has touched. Do i have enough money so i can get home without blowing my uber driver again.
I do not think we want to know. Just accept the gift of whatever degree they play into our fantasies. Because they die a little every time if they arent alread dead inside. They care about your money. And in order to get it, they cant care about you.
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4 months ago
Max Hardcore can direct my story. I dont watch credits much in porn so i did a wikipedia for rn directors and his name sounded cool, and when i read he did the anal adventures of max hardcore in the 90s, well... how could i not?
I will star as myself and cast sydney sweeney as my step daughter. She gets stuck in a dryer and ass fucking her is the only way to gwt her put before she is smothered by her own boobs.
Maybe the point is there arent good movies anymore so i watch too much pornhub
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4 months ago
Here are my top things to not do if you want or like otc:
10. Skid marks
9. Meet at her place and leave skid marks
8. Cut your lip shaving
7. Daty, reopening the cut from #8
6. Wrong hole
5. Shower at hotel with wallet accessible
4. Ask how much without knowing
3. Let her know your real full name
2. Ask before your first itc dance
1. Run for president as a republican
Maybe some of this is from experience. Or maybe it's fictional.
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4 months ago
Write this down and bring it with you to make sure you read it word for word. Her response will probable by "wow", guaranteed word for word. Here it is:
Tell her you really care about her and you want her yo feel safe and your mom will be right upstairs and will rescue her if you do anything that makes her uncomfortable.
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5 months ago
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CJKent_bandThe truth hurts, but if you accept it, it will set you free
Bear in mind we also have plans for how to fight world war 4.
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5 months ago
Detroit means near detroit but not detroit, to bs clear.
To be complete that also includes BT's, Dreamgirls and Subi's
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5 months ago
Eye contact tells me they might actually engage instead of just go through motions.
Some of the memorable turnon moments for me are when she pulls her panties aside on stage and shows me her bare kitty.
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5 months ago
Well... you see, for me i have been to CF a couple times, and the appeal for me is that it is close enough that i could visit and invest less than an hour of my time. Minimum investment for my prefered clubs is 2 hours. When CF had afternoon shift it worked. I rarely have time in evenings.
Anyway just wanted to share that info. I dont swing by there enough to know if this is temporary. They were doing some kind of remodeling work. Some other guy was sitting there inside when i walked in. Given how little ive seen for customers in the past, that wasnt enough to tell me they werent open yet.
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5 months ago
If you go to the detroit area clubs outside detroit, this timeframe can be good.