So this is the 1st time I will be going by myself to the strip club I usually go with a buddy or 2 but no one is down any advice on what not to do and what to do solo tripping
Bringing cash instead of credit is good advice. But other than that, I don't see what the big mystery is. Don't piss on the floor or something, and you should be OK.
Saying it i your first time can more likely than not increase your chances of getting taken advantage of. Dont know what area you are in but i leave my coat in the car so i dont need to tip or pay coat check.
Take cash, set your budget beforehand, stick to it.5s and singles are useful so you dont need to make change and get pressured into overpaying because you got a dance for 30 but only have 50. On the other hand 20s and 50s are good for counting faster if your know you will spend it in vip.
I favor dancers that come to me. I feel like if i go to them they think they can ask for more money.
I am waiting for someone else, just hanging out, settling in... all generally acceptable ways to say no. With that said, i find cuban girls seem to not get the hint lately.
Don't drink too much. If you're alone you won't have any one around to stop you from making dumb decisions if you get drunk. Of course, if you only bring as much money as you are willing to spend and leave the ATM and credit cards at home then you've limited your financial risk.
Don't wear jeans. Only use cash. Check if a drink minimum is actually enforced before buying. If you have a 420 vape, every pothead stripper in the building will love you. Always test drive with LDs before VIP. If she stick shifts on the floor, she'll probably do more.
1. Make a budget. 100, 200, doesn't matter. What does matter is sticking to the budget. You the one having fun and not the atm. Speaking of which...
2. Get cash from your personal bank prior to going to the club. The atm from said clubs will charge you at least a $10 fee. This goes double for those with an SO who has a joint account or access to your statements.
3. Please avoid saying it's your first time to a dancer(s) in said club. Even if it is, speak with the bouncer(s), and the bartender(s) prior to the dancer(s). That easy picking for the dancers to take advantage of you, which leads to
4. Ask for the price of a LD VIP or massage BEFORE you commit to it. My friend and I had this experience before which leads to some (not all) dancers will taking extra cash from us because we were newcomers.
5. The strongest word is "NO". Why? It's because you are a customer not a donator. If she's not to your liking, say "NO" and don't waste each other's time. You will have plenty of dancers asking for their service. Your options come between them and your wallet. Do not be the guy who agrees to a service from every single dancer because she has huge tits and ass. Choose your type, she how she is with some small talk and take it from there.
6. Be on your best behavior. I'm being deadazz. Alcohol will be involved and you may get carried away when a half naked chick is in front of you. Some girls allow this, some don't.
7. LEAVE whether your spent your budget or the place is not to your liking. The more you stay, the greater the pressure to pay.
8. For the love of God, don't be a daily customer AT ALL. I made a recent visit 2 months ago to a a club I know. It was a slow night with 6 dancers. Three talking in a corner. One is talking to me and says there little to no guys around besides me. I point a guy (mid to late 40s) on the other side of the club with the other 2 girls with champagne bottle sitting on a bucket of ice. The dancer says he come here every day. Bruh... those bottle goes for $100 - $400. The club is open every day. If he does go all the time, you do the math. Don't be that guy.
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Don’t feel pressured into anything, the girls are going to try to hustle you so play defense.
Don’t bring credit cards if you can’t control your drinking or desires lol.
Be cool and pick your type, don’t be settling on the 6-7s brother shoot for the moon!
Strip clubbing is inherently a solo activity. Just bring only what you're willing to spend (no ATM), talk to the girls, and go with your gut.
Take cash, set your budget beforehand, stick to it.5s and singles are useful so you dont need to make change and get pressured into overpaying because you got a dance for 30 but only have 50. On the other hand 20s and 50s are good for counting faster if your know you will spend it in vip.
I favor dancers that come to me. I feel like if i go to them they think they can ask for more money.
I am waiting for someone else, just hanging out, settling in... all generally acceptable ways to say no. With that said, i find cuban girls seem to not get the hint lately.
Many have given good advice above this post. Mine is, if you plan on drinking take a cab or Uber.
Good luck man!
2. Get cash from your personal bank prior to going to the club. The atm from said clubs will charge you at least a $10 fee. This goes double for those with an SO who has a joint account or access to your statements.
3. Please avoid saying it's your first time to a dancer(s) in said club. Even if it is, speak with the bouncer(s), and the bartender(s) prior to the dancer(s). That easy picking for the dancers to take advantage of you, which leads to
4. Ask for the price of a LD VIP or massage BEFORE you commit to it. My friend and I had this experience before which leads to some (not all) dancers will taking extra cash from us because we were newcomers.
5. The strongest word is "NO". Why? It's because you are a customer not a donator. If she's not to your liking, say "NO" and don't waste each other's time. You will have plenty of dancers asking for their service. Your options come between them and your wallet. Do not be the guy who agrees to a service from every single dancer because she has huge tits and ass. Choose your type, she how she is with some small talk and take it from there.
6. Be on your best behavior. I'm being deadazz. Alcohol will be involved and you may get carried away when a half naked chick is in front of you. Some girls allow this, some don't.
7. LEAVE whether your spent your budget or the place is not to your liking. The more you stay, the greater the pressure to pay.
8. For the love of God, don't be a daily customer AT ALL. I made a recent visit 2 months ago to a a club I know. It was a slow night with 6 dancers. Three talking in a corner. One is talking to me and says there little to no guys around besides me. I point a guy (mid to late 40s) on the other side of the club with the other 2 girls with champagne bottle sitting on a bucket of ice. The dancer says he come here every day. Bruh... those bottle goes for $100 - $400. The club is open every day. If he does go all the time, you do the math. Don't be that guy.