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If only we had a seperate place to disuss politics...

Saying it i your first time can more likely than not increase your chances of getting taken advantage of. Dont know what area you are in but i leave my coat in the car so i dont need to tip or pay coat check. Take cash, set your budget beforehand, stick to it.5s and singles are useful so you dont need to make change and get pressured into overpaying because you got a dance for 30 but only have 50. On the other hand 20s and 50s are good for counting faster if your know you will spend it in vip. I favor dancers that come to me. I feel like if i go to them they think they can ask for more money. I am waiting for someone else, just hanging out, settling in... all generally acceptable ways to say no. With that said, i find cuban girls seem to not get the hint lately.

It is all in your head. I had an ATF that would do anything ITC. She took 4 songs of determined effort to make it happen. I had another that could swallow the evidence as a finale. But some girls could reliably do it covered and one that was pretty good at it had to so a stage set before resuming. I find i have to feel like she wants it.

Re: @rod8432 approval comments: I think explaining the incident with the short stay hotel is hard to describe. Do not try to understand the situation as if the stripper is a logical rational creature. That was not the case. In that moment, i decided to treat it like a "shit test" instead of making sense of nonsense. And it worked. But she was a mess.

Some people actually like pop music. It makes money somehow. Other people have good taste. My taste is different because i like the more experienced dancers because to me moves matter more than looks. Consider yourself as having been told "i'm ok, you're ok"