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9 years ago
I actually miss the real LMN's stories
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Baby Dolls (Dallas, TX) - 2012 - Used boxing PPV as an excuse to go to a strip club
Cabaret Royale (Dallas, TX) - 2012 - A dancer showed me her pussy. I was hooked.
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9 years ago
@JohnSmith69 - Sometimes reality surpasses fiction.
I have no complaints about her dances. I am getting what I'm paying for. I will just accept the fact that she is not the type of dancer that will spend any time hanging out for free. That won't make me stop seeing her, but I will definitely see her less frequently.
Eventually, someone better will come along and I will forget about her. Just like it happened with my previous favorite.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Dancer95 makes a good point.
Papi, you have lived in Dallas so you are very familiar with the Northwest Hwy strip club corridor. Bucks opened there more than a year ago. The place is spanking brand new. Built from the ground up. Huge parking lot. They have drink specials going on all day, everyday , except for Friday and Saturday. I am talking about $1 domestics/$2 import beer. The only time it's popping is on Tuesday when the special is $2 mixed drinks. There are more hot dancers there on Tuesday but they come from other clubs. The rest of the days, it's just the plain jane home crew.
Baby Dolls, down the road only has drink specials the third Wednesday of every month. All the dancers want to work there because it's busier and the clientele tends to be white collar.
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9 years ago
Thanks Papi. I accept it for what it is. I think it will be better to spend the minimum $200 to avoid drama, but I will see her less frequently. Before, I would go up to twice a week. I used to like her a lot more back then. I think I can manage seeing her twice a month now. This discussion did help open my eyes.
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9 years ago
@Ranukam - trust me, I know. I'm just telling it like it is. Very few PLs have her phone number. She only volunteers it to men that spend thousands on her in VIP. I had to ask for it so it was more difficult to get. It beats going to the SC not knowing if she's working
VIP here is $650 and the dancers time is separate.
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9 years ago
Thanks Papi and Chandler. Your advice makes a lot of sense. She's just that kind of dancer, all business. What I'm going to do is cut my spending on her to $100. i know she's going to be mad. Maybe to the point of refusing to do the dances or talk to me again. I say this because she gave me her phone number on the condition that I spend at least $200 on her. All hell could break lose, pray for me, LOL.
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9 years ago
@rh48hr - If I see her give better mileage to others, it would crush me. I think I would be done with her for good. I had an incident where I arrived at the club and I thought she was in the dressing room getting ready. I went up the stairs to the second floor of the strip club and bam!, there she was. She was straddling a guy in a bar stool and it looked like a very passionate make out session. I only saw a couple of seconds of it because I immediately turned around and went down the stairs. I was bummed out and thought about heading for the exit. I stuck around instead and she came down moments later. She noticed that I was upset and asked what was wrong. I told her that I saw her upstairs. She said she did it only because a waitress told her the guy had money. She was trying to entice him to get a VIP room. In the end the guy was looking for extras in VIP, so she declined. I understand that this is what she does for a living. It's not that I feel like she is my girlfriend. She is selling a service and I can't stand getting inferior service. I let this one go because I understand that men with more money will get better treatment from the dancer.
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9 years ago
@ATACdawg - I've been sampling. I purposefully went on a day that my CF does not work, to get dances from a cutie that I had on my radar from previous visits. The dances were disappointing and I did not feel chemistry with her. She started grinding hard from the get go and that's all she did. I hate it when dancers do that. Lapdanceking would love her though. Grinding on a limp dick is painful! I like how my CF arouses me first with teasing and dancing seductively. The grinding comes on the second song when she knows any man with a heart beat will be hard as a rock.
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9 years ago
@Ranukam - I've never seen her giving dances to others nor do I want to, so I won't be able to test that theory
@JS69 - You are a lucky guy for having a DS, even though it comes at a high price. But at least you're happy.
@Lopaw - Exactly. That's how I feel. Unappreciated and taken for granted.
@Rech - Yes. We have our ups and downs, lol.
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9 years ago
I've known my CF for 8 months. She never compliments me or initiates a kiss. I guess she wants to keep it real.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
What's more expensive, addiction to drugs or strippers?
I'm thinking strippers.
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9 years ago
I though hookers were on birth control?
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9 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
I guess it depends on the shift. At Baby Dolls-Dallas, the vast majority of the dancers in the night shift are under 25. I'm mid thirties but I still go for the under 25 dancers. They just look better.
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9 years ago
Joe,
Listen to Papi. It does not get clearer than this:
"you don’t hire a dancer (by spending $$$ on her) to be your girlfriend – does not work"
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9 years ago
JohnSmith on point!
Joe, the only thing I will add is that you will realize on your own that this is going nowhere. Advice is good, but you will come to your senses by experiencing it.
I could not fathom the thought of not seeing my CF every week. Recently, I spent $800 on her. Big mistake. She now expects this kind of spending from me. It's hard for men to say no to a beautiful woman:-) I am OK spending $200 a week, but not $800. I am kind of glad this happened though, it has made me realize that she is out to suck me dry and I'm talking about money because she doesn't do extras. Now, it does not matter if I don't see her weekly and I don't text her anymore. Sure, I'm a little sad, but at the end of the day we are nothing more than walking ATMs to them so why give a fuck.
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9 years ago
Thanks Player for being the voice of reason. Sometimes I get carried away and spend too much money on the CF. I tell her to help me rein in my spending by not pushing for more dances, but that has not worked too well :-)
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9 years ago
Wait a minute, what kind of woman fucks for $100?
I think I would rather spend $100 in dances from a young, hot stripper and choke the chicken later when I get home :-)
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9 years ago
Holy shit! Lots of good advice here. Player's words are sobering.
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9 years ago
Here's mine, which happened last week. It's stupid and pathetic.
I go in with $200 in my wallet to spend on my CF. After two dances, I ask if she is going to remove one of her two panties as it's customary. She says no because her inner panty moves around too much. I should have stopped the dances there, but I did not want to be an ass about it. So I get my $200 worth of dances with two pairs of panties on. Afterwards, she says, I can dance with one pair if you get another 10 dances. I don't bite, so she drops to 5 dances. I agree and she runs off to do her stage set. I go to the club ATM and withdraw another $200 just in case I'm in for a treat of finally seeing her pussy.
I grab her as soon as she gets off her last stage. We go to the dance area and she quickly strips to one panty. She starts dancing and I recognize the thong as nothing special. It's the same one she has danced in many times before! It hardly moves around. I spent another $200 and not even a hint of pussy. Oh well, she played me. Beautiful women have a way of making men stupid. I still like her though :-)
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9 years ago
I commend guys like Papi, Subraman, JamesSD, Chandler, etc for showing beginner PLs the ropes with tough love and excellent advice.
I lost interest in my first favorite dancer because of the same shit that you describe. I wished I had moved on sooner though, I put up with it for about a year, lol. Hey, she was attractive, had a nice pussy and not afraid to show it off in a topless only club. I stopped getting dances from her and she asked if "there was another bitch" I said no and that was the truth. It took another 6 months of searching to find my current favorite. We've had ups and downs but that's to be expected. They are women after all. I have no expectations of OTC though.
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9 years ago
"Is she your CF just because she looks good? The way you describe it, it seems like you should get a lot more value for your money"
@Ranukam - I think I'm just comfortable with her. I'm attracted to her physically, she does not rip me off with song counts and her dances are pretty good. Other dancers have ripped me off with songs or have given me air dances. Why spend money in the unknown?
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9 years ago
One, My CF.
No tats, no piercings, and no dyed hair.
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9 years ago
Looks is my main requirement to be a CF. As long as I am attracted to her I can put up with not getting high mileage.
I've only had two favorites. My CF is a 9. She is tallish and slim. Beautiful face; firm, natural C-cups and a cute ass.
I compliment her all the time but she does not reciprocate. I guess it's fine with me. It's SS anyway.
In regards to mileage, she gives a good grind. I think lapdanceking would LDK, but not me. She does not kiss, flash pussy, stick shift or allow any touching below the belt. Ass is OK.
She still manages to sell VIP rooms, though. I guess some guys are willing to pay for conversation and lap dances with no expectations of extras in VIP
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9 years ago
Baby Dolls Dallas
Approximately $150, 350 and 650 for the booth or room and includes a bottle. Dancers time is additional $400-500 for an hour of conversation, lap dances and sipping champagne. I have not partaken because I would rather have $400 worth of straight dances. I don't want the bottle and I don't want to pay for conversation