discussion comment
10 years ago
While in VIP with my CF (with whom I am very close), and 2 other girls getting a 3 girl lap dance, she says
"Are you gonna fuck these two bitches or what???"
And of course I did fuck them both, then she got mad and told me it hurt her.
discussion comment
10 years ago
Against my better judgement, I have given money to strippers many times. I have been paid back every time with OTC fun. These were girls I know pretty well and (again, against my better judgement) trusted to pay me back with OTC. One of them would spend all night with me and give it to me several times all night and in the morning too. Others were more of a quickie and they were gone. My advice to anyone is only do it if you can afford it, and make it clear that they are going to give you OTC in return. NEVER EVER expect to be paid back with money, it just doesnt happen. And it never ceases to amaze me how much money these girls make and they are still broke. They are terrible with money, they just cant seem to live within their means.
discussion comment
11 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
X2 on the gym shorts, the best LD apparel you can wear. A nice pair of silky basketball type shorts (with no underwear of course).
If I am going to a club where nicer dress code is expected, I go with my favorite pair of soft thin jeans (they get thinner every time I go) or thin cotton pants.
Always go with no underwear ever and no belt.
discussion comment
11 years ago
Some good points have been made here....I agree, craigslist would provide you with only spam and scam, so avoid that. And I also agree that this situation requires a larger sampling of potential girls. Strippers are the best kind of person for this job, many of them do it already. It may be best to find one that is inexperienced in the field of OTC services and break her in. That way she won’t have a bunch of set prices and rules etc... Bottom line is your friend is going to need to get out there and explore, try a few, find one that you like and that is really good at pretending she likes you. Once you find that one, stick with her, you will get better mileage out of one as opposed to switching it up again and again. Plus, like always, the sex keeps getting better if you stay with the same girl.
discussion comment
11 years ago
500 TO 1000 a month?? That seems awfully inexpensive, I doubt your friend will find anything he wants to be around regularly for that amount of money.
discussion comment
11 years ago
The all-nude no alcohol clubs that I have been to are definitely not as fun. They tend to attract a lot of 18-21 year old guys who are broke and have terrible strip club etiquette. The strippers in these places have usually been drinking in the back and like someone else said, it can be easy to sneak a little bottle in depending on the security.
The all nude BYOB clubs are great, I usually bring a bottle or two and few beers and share it all with the girls. There’s usually 2-5 girls hanging out at my table enjoying some drinks. It’s a great way to get to know all the girls without having to spend a bunch of time and money on any single one. Sometimes we just have a couple drinks and other times we all get bombed. Whatever happens, it usually makes for a great time in VIP when I am ready to head there.
discussion comment
11 years ago
B no question.... A is fun but B is better.
discussion comment
11 years ago
When it comes to ITC, as long as their breath doesn't stink and they move in for the kiss first, I am totally down for kissing but it doenst happen often. I've proably eaten more stripper pussy and ass during LD's than actual kissing on the lips. OTC its a whole different story.
discussion comment
11 years ago
in 15 years, this is what I have compiled...
Total Clubs: 45
Total States: 10
Outside US: 2 (mexico and Costa Rica)
Home State: CO
Favorite City/State: El Paso TX
discussion comment
11 years ago
I've taken my main ATF out to eat a lot, or sometimes just for a late night snack or ice cream. We have gone bowling, gone to play pool or gone to the casino too. She’s not a big drinker so usually not bars although we have hit a few. She offers to go to a strip club but we never have together. Sometime she will come swimming at my hotel pool when the weather is nice or the pool is indoor.
A lot of strippers don’t get to do much because they work all night and sleep all day and many of them are single mothers so all their time is taken up. I have found that many are really happy doing most anything because they just don’t get the opportunity to have a nice dinner or an enjoyable evening.
The ATF's who don't have kids, and/or work less nights and/or go out more often are less fun because so often its "just another night" to them.
The ones who work every night and take care of their kids during the day tend to be more enjoyable because they just don't get out to have fun very often outside of work.
That's been my experience, but every OTC date is a little different.
discussion comment
11 years ago
Without a phone number you will have no chance of finding out, so you have to get a number and have made some sort of contact before they disappear.
@canny is right, most of them will offer their numbers without having to ask, some will ask for yours. I have honestly never had to ask one of my favorites for their nuber, they usually just say "let me give you my number" and about 90% of them have answered text and calls from me. Contacting them soon after getting the number keeps you fresh in their minds.
If one leaves and won't respond to your texts/calls, its probably for good reason. Also, strippers lose/break their cell phones a lot, so they may have lost your number. In which case you may or may not get the "Who dis?..." response.
discussion comment
11 years ago
Find a club with a private VIP room with no cameras, you could probably pull it off there with no problems, provided you found the right stripper for the job. Otherwise you might be rushed or risk getting caught which could ruin the experience and get the stripper in trouble if you werent in the perfect setting.
I agree with a previous post, just find an escort (or stripper who does side work) and do it outside the club and you would have a much better experience IMO.
discussion comment
11 years ago
Benito Santiago. ha ha jk.
Used to get Chandler from Friends a lot but since the hair started fleeing I havent herad that in a while.
Now I hear Woody Harrelson sometimes.
discussion comment
11 years ago
I dont get the whole non-kissing thing (mostly when it comes to escorts, but including OTC sessions too, which is essentially escorting). Ive gotten bbbj, hj w/ spit, DATY, tittie fuck and everything else under the sun... but they dont kiss! LMAO! I think we can all thank that stupid Pretty Woman movie with Julia Roberts, thats where all this came from.
I have been kissed many times inside the club, mostly by latina chicks (who btw dont always have the freshest breath mostly due to poor dental care). I dont mind a little smokers breath, or some booze breath, but that stale rotten smell of decaying food between your teeth is nasty.
A lot of strippers I have kissed don't know how to kiss, shoving their tongue down your throat like its junior high. But I have found a few who are really good kissers and I stick to them. My ATF who is my go to OTC loves to kiss and is very good at it so thank you baby girl!
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10 years ago
Well sir, great story and you have inspired me to tell of my first OTC experience. It came from a girl I met only one night, she gave me her number, I called and she came to my hotel the next night. I was hoping for FS but didn't outright ask because she was really sweet and really hot and I didn’t want to scare her off by showing her the what a perv that I really am (which ended up being a good plan). She said she brought some outfits and she wanted to dance for me, so I gave her $300 to dance for me for 2 hours. The dancing turned into kissing and fooling around and full contact everything, she ended up giving me bbbj and spending about 4 hours with me doing anything but fucking. At the end of the night I asked her if we could have sex sometime in the future and she said she would think about it. She said she hadn't had sex in about 1.5 years since she had broken up with her ex (I assumed this to be SS, but whatever). Next time she came to my room, same thing, lots of kissing and fooling around and bbbj but no fucking. I thought it would never happen. Finally, the third time, it was New year’s eve and she’s at my room, on top of me grinding on my cock, and she’s visibly very horny, I said "I have a condom in my bag, can we have sex tonight?" She said yes and I almost fell off the bed. Anyway, we fucked, her pussy was so tight I believe that she may have been telling the truth about no sex for a year and a half. She said she really liked the sex and forgot how good it feels to get fucked. Now every time I see her, we usually hang out, get some food, smoke some cigs and then go to the room and fuck. Best thing is, that she always puts on a sexy outfit and gives me a long sexy lap dance slowly taking off everything before we get down to fucking. For whatever reason it makes it even better when we finally do fuck (good old foreplay I guess).
I’ve been seeing her for about a year now every 2-3 weeks and the sex just keeps getting better. Sometimes we hang out during the day and go out to eat or go swimming at the hotel and stuff like that at no extra cost. Only bad thing is that the SS started to set in about 6 months ago. She started showing up very late, and although she doesn't drink, she has been visibly fucked up on pills a few times. She has also hit me up for money several times but she always deducts the loan from the price of the next OTC meeting. After she was late a few times, I just decided I would go to a club and wait for her to show up at my hotel and call me. When she calls, I say I'll be right there babe, leave the club and go meet her at the hotel. That way I can stay entertained while she is taking forever to show up and she even has to wait for me sometimes. She’s a good find, she is always available on short notice, and has no problem ditching work to come see me and usually stays all night until around 5 or 6 AM. I told her I didn't want her to be taking pills when she comes to see me and since I said that, she appears to be sober when we meet up. She never gives me attitude and is one of the sweetest nicest girls I have ever met. She isn't the smartest girl and she talks too much, but who cares about that? This was my first OTC girl and I have not found one as good as her except a recent one that somehow became my GF. That was a huge mistake, one that I am currently dealing with but that’s a story for another day....