Friend Seeking an Arrangement

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Think Craigslist might be a good place to go?

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PM Dougster.

There are sugar daddy or sugar baby sites out there. Look on craigslist.

Yeah, check the sugar daddy/sugar baby sites. Or go out to the night clubs in your area and meet them in person.

He said he didn't want to go to clubs.

500 TO 1000 a month?? That seems awfully inexpensive, I doubt your friend will find anything he wants to be around regularly for that amount of money.

For that price, your "friend" can probably catch a "part time" girl, meaning *he* will be part time for *her*, though a college student who just wants some extra cash might be tempted.

As others have said, there are a number of sugar dating sites that will help. Note that different sites are better in different areas, so tell your "friend" not to be discouraged if one doesn't work.

craigslist is probably a poor choice these days, as filled with scammers as it is.

Good luck.

Whether the venue is massage parlors, strip clubs, or the online ad sites, there is no shortcut. You must participate, sample, and sort them out. And while you are engaged in that process, you will have some bad experiences, and you will be at higher risk. Luck also plays a part. But it starts by getting in the game.

It would definitely be a part time gig. Say only once a week at the most.

I was just wondering if having one particular girl as opposed to looking over and over would work out.

1 is enough IMHO.

Sounds like my monthly strip club budget for the same type of arrangement. And yes, it's a part time gig for the few SC friends I've made.

Sounds like my monthly strip club budget for the same type of arrangement. And yes, it's a part time gig for the few SC friends I've made.

Some good points have been made here....I agree, craigslist would provide you with only spam and scam, so avoid that. And I also agree that this situation requires a larger sampling of potential girls. Strippers are the best kind of person for this job, many of them do it already. It may be best to find one that is inexperienced in the field of OTC services and break her in. That way she won’t have a bunch of set prices and rules etc... Bottom line is your friend is going to need to get out there and explore, try a few, find one that you like and that is really good at pretending she likes you. Once you find that one, stick with her, you will get better mileage out of one as opposed to switching it up again and again. Plus, like always, the sex keeps getting better if you stay with the same girl.

@harrydave: Long time, no see. You back in the states now? Vacation or permanent?

I tried one of those sugar daddy sites a few years ago. Most of the women somehow think they can find a hot guy whose looking for a sugar baby who will decide to have a serious, committed relationship with them. That is, they the flip side of guys on Plenty Of Fish who send pictures of their penis to all the women who say they are looking for a long term relationship.

I did go on a date with one hot chick from one of these sites. Turned out she had the personality of Danny DeVito's mother in "Throw Mama From the Train".

Lol. $500-1000 month. Won't get you a decent sugar baby once a week. If you want to spend $500-1000 plan on a once a month girl. If you want to take care of someone and then be taken cared of. You need to think of $3500-8000 month. This means the girl has her free time to do her thing yet she's available for you 2,3, to 4 times week. Try seekingarrangement.com. But IMHO best place to find a sugar baby is in your favorite SC. The girls there know what you expect and they will let you know what they expect to make it a mutually beneficial relationship.

$500-1000 a month is strip club cash. He should a regular dancer who gives BJ's.

pincecone posted: "500 TO 1000 a month?? That seems awfully inexpensive, I doubt your friend will find anything he wants to be around regularly for that amount of money."

I have to agree with this. This guy might be better off just finding an escort that he can dial up a few times a month.

I say CL, or the backpages.