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8 years ago
I'm all for natural everything. It doesn't have to be perfect....that's one of the beauties of natural. Anything fake/enhanced is an automatic deal breaker for me when it comes to dancers.
Suppose I can overlook fake nails.....:-)
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8 years ago
Ah, thanks sharkhunter. Went to my profile and checked hide banner adds.
Can't wait to try tuscl out in public again on my phone!
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8 years ago
Was at the dealership today having my car serviced and was browsing tuscl on my phone to pass time. Only thing that had me self conscious was some of the cam adds off to the side, and the stick figures "doing it" at the bottom of the page. Had to kind of keep my phone hidden whenever someone would walk by. :-)
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8 years ago
"IMO best to go w/ an independent girl rather than one that works at a parlor but that just an assumption on my part since I really have not partaken."
Agree with this. Guess this is why my thinking is if she does massages away from the parlor, she in a sense has just become an independent girl - if that makes sense. That's at least a start.
Don't think I can do the Craigslist, sleazy parlor, ect, thing. Just too many risks for my taste.
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8 years ago
Agree beguiled. Definitely don't want to be creepy or "that guy". Am totally cool with massages being just massages.
Was just curious of your thoughts and any experiences.
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8 years ago
All of this was just a curiosity thing, that's all. I am perfectly content on getting massages only. That said, when you have a pretty girl rubbing on parts of your for an hour, there are certain things and thoughts that kind of creep into your head - both big head and little head. Like the only feeling better than this incredible massage would be, well, you know....
Think I'll give it 2-3 weeks and then send her a text asking about a massage again. I'll just follow her lead regarding where. If at the salon, I can casually bring up if she ever does work elsewhere in a harmless way.
Think I agree the chances are 0% of anything extra happening during a massage while at the salon - especially since this is a big chain salon. The only way anything in addition to a massage could possibly happen is if the massage were to take place outside of the salon in which case there wouldn't be "rules." At this point it would just be her professionalism that is in the say. :-) However, even if away from the salon I would definitely wait for hints or suggestions that something else might be available at the end of the massage.
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8 years ago
Thanks Subraman.
So do you think contacting her directly to schedule means she would be willing to do a massage outside of the salon - i.e her place or mine?
Her salon profile says she is a LMT - licensed massage therapist with the state medical board. Not exactly sure what that means but it sounds nice.
I'm a cool guy - so would genuinely not want to upset someone by asking. Then again, a part of me wonders if the question has been brought up with her before given the nature of her profession. All it takes is from some dude every now and then to have asked. :-)
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8 years ago
From the discussion forum, Papi-Chulo seems like a cool dude. Jacklash and some others too. Nina seems like a cool girl.
There have been a handful of people I've had PM discussions with who seem like cool people.
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8 years ago
Debating this question right now as I continue to work on my first OTC experience.
Have a couple of candidates in mind. The topic has come up both are down. Haven't discussed the details yet - i.e. price, how many times that price includes, ect - but guess my starting point is going to be $300 which includes "doing it" a couple of times. Would be willing to go to $350-$400. Beyond that, may have to pause.
The above prices wouldn't include things like if we went out to get something to eat/drink - those things would be on me.
Anyway, to your question, guess my limit would be $400.
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8 years ago
Funny stories IronFox22 and a21985.
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8 years ago
Thanks guys. After reading your thoughts, think I feel better and can brush it off as a harmless question on her part.
My worst fear was somehow my room at the hotel being tracked down since she knew my full name and knows I have money on me and something bad somehow happens, but that's probably pretty far fetched; especially since I stay at nice hotels when in Detroit.
On this last visit which was the third time hanging out with her, this girl told me where she lives - down to the name of the street. Since I'm out of state I obviously don't remember or know the streets or would know where they are but probably just a sign of her openness while talking. Her asking my last night was probably just a question out of curiosity that any girl/guy would ask each other after hanging out a few times.
While I do like this dancer - both because she is hot to me and because I like her personality - I can tell she has some "street game" to her. Guess this was another reason why after thinking for a bit the last name question had me concerned, but after thinking about it after your comments I think it was probably nothing - especially since I visit from out of state.
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8 years ago
"....I imagine that's like having to pee real bad and trying to stop right after you started."
Don't agree with this analogy at all comparing having to pee really bad vs. being 30 seconds away from busting a nut. And if you have to pee really bad it doesn't just go away unless you actually pee. If you are horny and worked up, you can stop and the urge subside/go away without any sort of discomfort. Just kind of an "arg" feeling.
Actually, the more I'm thinking about this, the more pathetic it pretty much is. I like strip clubbing every now and then, enjoy reading comments on this website regarding strip clubs, ect, but when one spends 24/7/365 talking about strip clubs then their lives are probably pretty warped. And it shows.
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8 years ago
If this situation were to happen to me I would stop whatever I was doing in VIP.
If a girl is crying there is obviously something going on that for me is bigger than busting a nut. A person is obviously in some sort of distress if crying.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
When getting a dancers number I just give them my phone and let them enter. Some will type in their stage name, real name, or both. Some will also put after their name the club which is kind of nice. Being single don't have to worry about anyone else seeing my list of contacts, although I will sometimes edit the contact info to make it look like just any other contact just in case, and use some sort of code - P Penthouse or C Coliseum to designate where I know them from.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Before heading on a SC trip - such as this Thursday and Friday in Detroit - I have with me what I have to spend for the couple of days. I usually over budget to ensure I will have plenty for my visit. A great thing about Detroit is the nearby casino for which I always make a visit. For me this is fun for the following reasons: 1. The rush of Gambling with a few hundred dollars is fun for me 2. It gives a break from the clubs 3. I have the potential to win back some / all of my strip club spending!
Regarding dancers, if I meet one I really like I am in most cases going to get their number.
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8 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Lets just say if the Cavs don't win it after getting this close, I might cancel my trip to Detroit next week.
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8 years ago
Sorry for my there/their mix-up. :)
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8 years ago
Good point lopaw. Have had a number of dancers tell me when they see a featured dancer or promotional/theme night at the club (say, a guest DJ, ect) they will specifically avoid working those nights.
For example, when a guest DJ, have been told the DJ's friends will populate the club and are there just to listen to the music and support their buddy, and are not their for the dancers.
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8 years ago
I would.
I will also never again try and hit my favorite club in Detroit around Christmas time (i.e. 2-3 weeks before) as it was a madhouse, even during the day.
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8 years ago
Another thing I've recently discovered is there can be an additional shift of dancers arrive around 9:30 - 10:00 at night. If you are at a club as this time is approaching and are thinking of bailing, it might be worth it to hang around for a few more minutes.
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8 years ago
Regarding Flight Club, have read enough good things and like the club layout that I'm sure I'll give them a try again - perhaps as early as next week when in town.
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8 years ago
As an out of state visitor, have been wildly disappointed my 2 visits to Flight Club.
Penthouse and the newly discovered for me Coliseum are significant steps up in the dancer quality - IMO
That said, totally agree with the hit or miss comments. Have visited Penthouse before and the dancer quality was subpar.
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8 years ago
Yes, the dancers will have them. And have been told you can get from the bathroom trolls.
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8 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Answer for me would be no.
As Limp Bizkit said: it's all about the....
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8 years ago
Old people problems.