Dancers that do drugs ?
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Kinda inspired by rockstar666's recent thread about his ATF wanting him to score some mushrooms for her.
I've never done any illegal drugs in my life - never really had the desire nor much of a curiosity for it and actually scared of illegal drugs.
Now that I'm older (40s) I'm a bit more open-minded about some things and willing to at least entertain the idea that drugs can perhaps have some worthwhile benefits for some w/o it necessarily ruining their lives (e.g. Marijuana; etc) - I still don't really have much of a desire nor that strong a curiosity for it though.
Anyway - my dislike for illegal drugs means I'm usually turned-off by dancers that use drugs regularly - nowadays I'm a little more lenient w.r.t. dancers that smoke Marijuana b/c it seems to be pretty main-stream kinda like smoking cigarettes thus I kinda accept it (though I don't like cigarette smokers either but tolerate it ITC if I like the dancer) - but anyway if a dancer tells me of how she is into drugs that is often a turn-off for me although I won't turn her down for ITC action - but still it does turn me off.
How do drug-using dancers affect you:
a) turn-off
b) no effect
c) turn-on
As I mentioned it's a), turnoff, for me although it's not a deal-breaker ITC.
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Just kidding -I just wanted to throw-in a "fuck you Jackie"
And I'll throw one in there too: Fuck you Jackie...
Street drugs, alcohol, and psychiatric medications effect a person, even when they are out of their blood stream, because they have effected how their consciousness had developed.
Psychiatric medications should not be FDA approved, they should be relegated to the same category as street drugs, either to be outlawed or to be decriminalized but regulated.
Drugs, alcohol, psychiatric medications, motivationalism and self improvement, and Born Again Christianity all kind of go together.
SJG
Depends on what drugs they do if its not hsrd drugs they are usually fine.
Dancers doing actual drugs is a turn-off for me. Weed or mushrooms not at all.
No tattoos and does weed, she's okay with me. No tattoos and does no drugs, she's great with me.
Pretty much would have been visiting with a dancer for a while before the topic of drug use would come up. By that point I would pretty much know if I like them or not. In other words, if a dancer was doing hard drugs (i.e. not weed doesn't count) then I'm guessing I would have been turned off by their personality before the topic came up.
That said, have met a few dancers who to me were really cool, only to find out they smoke weed daily. I'm a little surprised at first, but weed isn't much of a big deal.
I'm similar to Papi in that I've never done illegal drugs before - even weed. Have had a couple of dancers genuinely perk up when I've mentioned this and say we should do it together sometime. I've just kind of laughed and the topic eventually changes, but a part of me might be semi-open to it. My roadblocks at the moment are: A) I'm still working on my first OTC B) Don't think I would want to be doing drugs with this person in my hotel room and can't imagine hanging with a dancer anywhere else at this time in my OTC exploits.
I'm confused now what my answer is. :-)
I'm fine with pot and hallucinogenics which I consider soft drugs. I haven't done them in many many years but love acid, x, shrooms and numerous others. I'm sure it's completely hypocritical but I have zero tolerance for hard drugs. If I found out a stripper we liked did hard drugs that would be the last time we had anything to do with her.
only thing that really bothers me is a dancer who reeks of cig smoke.....but that obviously doesn't qualify for this topic....but I wanted to mention it anyway
Like Chulo.....I've never done any illegal drugs either....not even weed
Anything else is a turnoff.
I've only known a couple of dancers that were into harder drugs and as long as they were maintaining themselves it doesn't bother me ITC. I have lost my favorite OTC girl to heroin.
If I find out she's doing heroin or meth, I'm immediately gone, all interest completely lost, boner completely deflated.
Illegal Drugs unnaturally cause a bug release of endorphins and mess you up. Especially the hard drugs. You can never feel as good as your first really big high from your first dose because the drugs reduce your bodies ability to release endorphins. That's why drug users get messed up trying to get another high and another and can't ever get back to where they started. They could try to up the dosage but then they risk their life. Many die. Meth users age decades in only a few years. Hard core drug use is bad if you want to live and retire one day. If you want to throw your life away, waste your body away, possibly do crime to steal money to afford the drugs some drug pusher keeps raising the price on you because you're hooked and need another fix, then that's what wrong with society and you're hurting everyone you know and everyone you stole from. It's best to not get started. Unfortunately, I doubt they teach this in school anymore.
There are two levels to this. I am down on excessive alcohol use but it isn't a deal-breaker. But given that drugs are illegal I just don't want to deal with them. If a particular drug were legalized (or decriminalized) I'd probably shift to my attitude toward alcohol, where I don't like it but feel it is every individual's choice.
But as is, I'll just say "not brilliant!" :(
LOL definitely yes.
for me, as I said, the dividing line is things like meth and heroin -- instant boner-killing cause for dismissal. Pot, who cares? I figure close to 100% of the girls do that
@ppwh
You said that weed and shrooms don't bother you because they are plants.
Do you feel the same way about cocaine (coca) and heroine (poppy)?
WRT OTC, What dancers do on their time is their own business. If I am paying for their time it is my business and I do not tolerate drugs. I do not search their bags but if I know they are addicted to serious stuff I avoid them. If I know they have it on them I tell them to get rid of it before we get together. if they bring it up, i tell them my concerns and let them decide if it is worth losing a good customer.
This probably is true for a large segment of the population, and maybe even for the entire population. But it is going to depend on just how you relate to people, and what sorts of people you are attracted to.
Usually alcohol, drugs, and tobacco go together. Often Born Again Christianity and psychiatric medications go with these too. It was certainly this for the Pentecostal Daughter Molester whom I helped put into San Quentin, and for the members of his church.
San Francisco does have a large number of politically conscious young white dancers. Huge improvement over the more red neck types of white dancers we have here in south bay. We get some of the San Francisco girls too. Often what they want is to shift to a softer core environment. "Because I don't like working in a brothel." "Adults can consent to that, but that is not a good way to run a strip club."
Maybe not zero experience with marijuana, but present long term abstinence from that and everything else is quite common.
Dancers put up with lots of stuff from strip club customers, but this does not mean that the girls really think like their customers do.
It does not take very long talking with a girl, or just watching how she conducts herself with other people to get an idea how she is wired up.
SJG
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So now that we know what turns you on, we can make sure that you are supplied with that, as clearly the women are secondary.
SJG
For the trolls that last word means "a lot."
Other's on TUSCL with lots of marijuana experience insist that it does not contribute anything. The appearance that it is like what Steve229 said, "makes you horny", or what mikeya02 said, "boner you can hang two wet towels on", is illusory.
Probably what it does do is help you relax. And the inability to relax is probably due to ongoing pains over real life situations.
So we need to learn to handle the problematic situations in our lives. Marijuana does not help with this.
And then we need to learn how to be in the present moment, and how to engage with and properly appreciate the beautiful women we might be with. Very hard to even imagine anyway that marijuana would help with this. And experienced TUSCL former marijuana users confirm this.
SJG
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