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8 years ago
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gammanu95My casual drinking is your alcohol poisoning.
lowpaw, you pinpointed why warm bodies are better than Astroglide.
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8 years ago
TF dot is right!
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8 years ago
One thing I've noticed though: The longer I've been clubbing and especially reading threads here and learning about other's experiences, the easier it's been to have my way with dancers. Not any PARTICULAR dancer mind you, but because I know the hustle and dancers know that I know the hustle, everything becomes very easy. No OTC? Fine, I'll find a girl who will if that's what I want. No extras to what the club will allow? Fine, I'll find a dancer who will. Or if I like you, I'm not going to spend money on empty promises. This was not always the case!
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8 years ago
Not EVERY stripper is crazy and has issues....but good luck. Your brief encounter is how it's going to be 99% of the time. But there's a good point to be made here: if you don't fall in love and just want stripper sex, it will work out fine. You'll have to dump her eventually but until you meet your future wife, there's nothing wrong in fucking P4P women.
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8 years ago
I like my bikini/topless club a lot because the prices are low and the right girl gets the job done for very little money compared to the nude clubs. Unless you want a BJ or FS, because they don't happen ITC.
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8 years ago
I've found my Asian partners always say, "Oh shit, oh shit" over and over when they cum. I've had a Thai, Filipino and Korean partner and all 3 did that. I don't recall girls of any other ethnicity that I've fucked doing that. Oh, and the nipple thing is common, but not 100%. Some girls are always at attention and some not so much.
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8 years ago
Larry...you've never dated a stripper. I know that there are exceptions, but the VAST majority are major flakes who will just let you down time and time again. Banging a hot girl is a wonderful thing for sure, but like the old joke goes with P4P, you're paying them to leave.
I'm 'dating' an escort at the moment, and to her credit she has never missed a date or asked me for money. I do take her out and pay of course. But I see the dancer pattern in her...she blames everyone but herself for why she's a sex worker, and she never listens to anyone's advice. There's no growth with her at all, even after meeting ME! LOL But you take my point...these women really aren't what men who can afford to pay them want in a significant other. Just because I don't pay the escort, it doesn't mean it's a real relationship, because I have found out it isn't.
For those of you who dated, married and had kids with a dancer and are still a happy couple, I congratulate you! You are the exceptions who won the lottery.
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8 years ago
I had a regular that used the bitchy approach and she was a lot of fun. She always tried to get me to LDK from her VERY aggressive grind but I never did. She'd start screaming at me out of frustration too! LOL Luckily she was available for OTC, where she could make me cum very easily.
She once asked me if I thought people were afraid of her...well YES, some must have been!! We were close though and had an 'understanding'. She never scared me in the slightest. She intimidated a lot of other dancers too though! LOL I miss that girl...we're still FB friends and she has had a steady B/F since she quit dancing so I don't see her anymore. Oh well.
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8 years ago
This guy is bad news; while I don't see the strip club visit a gross violation of his probation, he should really be more respectful of his situation. He's 19 years old and seems to have some "musical" success...he should appreciate that! Surely he can import girls...
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8 years ago
I saw this before too. I believe my comment was that there's something fishy here. Dancers don't have to be coerced to go out with wealthy customers. There are plenty of dancers who would jump at the chance.
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8 years ago
I like to pleasure all my partners, but more often than not P4P girls are doing a job so they are looking to me for direction. But everyone is different.
My regular g/f is actually a poor bed partner; we have sex but she's more about my company than the sex. She's one and done while I like to fuck for hours. OTOH, my soul mate G/F is all about sex with me as well as the company; pity she lives 2000 miles away. I think we'll eventually get married though.
The escort g/f has wild skills but even though I don't pay her, sometimes it seems like she's doing a job instead of enjoying herself. And besides the sex, she can be annoying.
I don't have any P4P sex these days; it's just not needed...although I am planning on asking my CF at the club about OTC tomorrow. If she says yes, I may cut the escort loose.
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8 years ago
16 hours? Except for my retired ATF, 2 hours is plenty.
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8 years ago
Having a cool ride is cool. I'm a Lotus guy myself.
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8 years ago
I've not seen what you describe...but the current political climate is to put strip clubs in industrial parks. If you want them in strip malls, you will have to overcome political opposition from both parties.
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8 years ago
Funny, I knew my wife was pregnant with both my kids before she did the pee test. I could just tell.
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8 years ago
Oh my...I'll need to bookmark this page!!!
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8 years ago
jack, you made me laugh!
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8 years ago
SC, nice catch!!! I love how back then, it was a "kiss", not fucking. But everyone knew what it meant.
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8 years ago
Ah, flagooner....yes that point was indeed lost on me.
But she wasn't hustling me intentionally because she never even hinted that OTC would be available, and I did ask several times over the years. I saw her through a divorce and 2 B/F's so there was no implied promise she'd ever be available either. That's why I don't feel hustled...she was an ATF as far as ITC...but I still hold my ex-ATF as the standard since she did OTC and dates with me.
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8 years ago
If it costs $30 an hour, the girl makes $15-20?
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8 years ago
For 3K I can fly to Thailand and back, stay a week, and fuck the most beautiful and friendly women in the world.
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8 years ago
No argument from me! LOL But sometimes the friendship is worth the money even if sex never happens. And she WAS my one and only LDK....
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8 years ago
Subraman: I'm well aware I have an addictive personality and that clubbing is one of them. Luckily my addictions are under control, but bit's a fine line to even think that. I don't do coke because after having done it, I know it would become an addiction. I do still drink and smoke pot....and fuck girls, but I also pay my bills.
Clubbing is an addiction; no doubt about it. I've had gaps in my attendance when I've had a steady g/f and I consider that a good thing. I like to think it means I value real relationships over the P4P ones. In fact, I have a g/f 2000 miles from me that's considering moving to Chicago. If she does, I'll quit clubbing because she'll be my 2nd wife.
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8 years ago
One. After I got snipped, there was one girl I was dating (non sex worker) who apparently became pregnant around the same time I was fucking her. I got a letter of paternity claim from some lawyer but as both she and her baby were black, it was obvious I wasn't the father, snipping not withstanding. I never had to do a DNA test.