If you fuck women for money, do they sometimes cum, or is it pretty much all about you? Do you care about their orgasm? Do you work towards their pleasure? Of is it all about your dick since you're paying?
I know this has been discussed before but I don't think we've ever taken a vote or asked for everyone's views on the subject.
This is mostly for those who pay OTC since mutual sexual pleasure is more difficult ITC even if you want it.
For run of the mill extras girls like GingerBread and Video Girl, it was totally and completely about me. Always. I used them to fulfill my sexual fantasies, and as long as they weren't in pain I didn't much care what it felt like for them. My money, my pleasure. However, with the ones that I love, it was very different. I used to care deeply about my dream strippers' sexual pleasure. I got off on giving them orgasms. My favorite example is the time that I gave DS III (the youngest of the three) her first orgasm through oral sex after she told me that she couldn't cum that way. She had just never had an experienced man before me. I will never forget those special times.
What do you do with your girls? I mean women.
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last commentThe times I do extras are usually ITC - in the rare occasion I do OTC I do try to to get her off but don't sweat it if it doesn't happen and also not sure how important is is for fhem to get off - I assume some of them do wanna enjoy the experience but others probably just wanna get their $$$ and go about their biz
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I don't give two shots bout her
It's all about my dick
In the process she will always cum because I got some good thick dick
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Since I'm paying, my pleasure is foremost. If she cums, that's good, but I'm not going to any great lengths to make it happen. Given that, I have to say that I often give strippers an orgasm, but they usually spit it out.
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LMFAO
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Last lap dance I had she came so hard she squirted. Fun sex has to be mutual imo.
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Did LDK give you this dance ?
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I would say about 75% yes because I am mostly interested in GFE.
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I like to pleasure all my partners, but more often than not P4P girls are doing a job so they are looking to me for direction. But everyone is different.
My regular g/f is actually a poor bed partner; we have sex but she's more about my company than the sex. She's one and done while I like to fuck for hours. OTOH, my soul mate G/F is all about sex with me as well as the company; pity she lives 2000 miles away. I think we'll eventually get married though.
The escort g/f has wild skills but even though I don't pay her, sometimes it seems like she's doing a job instead of enjoying herself. And besides the sex, she can be annoying.
I don't have any P4P sex these days; it's just not needed...although I am planning on asking my CF at the club about OTC tomorrow. If she says yes, I may cut the escort loose.
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I pretty much echo jackslash -- my pleasure is the most important thing, but I think it's great if she enjoys it, too... and to the extent to which it pleases me to please her, I'm game. I do wonder the extent to which a good-hearted-but-misdirected interest in her orgasm basically just puts more pressure on her to fake an orgasm (which, despite all us guys who think we're making strippers orgasm constantly, I'd guess is what's going on most of the time)
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Well since it is pay for play... I for sure want to make sure I get mine. But I am one that I enjoy or can go longer when I know the woman is enjoying it. Or I can get multiple rounds off when I know the woman is enjoying it.
So if the encounter isn't the greatest..... I go and get mine and done.... if the encounter is fun, engaging (good chemistry), and she "seems" interested... I try to make her cum or she produces a good fake orgasm... ;-)
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Depends. On how much I want it at the time and if it's pay for time, then it'd be about me. If it's payment for services then yes. Best sex is mutual pleasure with chemistry. Maybe it's the ego thing again, knowing that I multiple orgasmed her is a turn on.
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I'm a lover not a fighter!
Yes I always try to get my partner off whether I'm paying for it or not. OTC it almost always happens because time is not a factor. ITC is a different story since I have only so much time. I have found the vast majority of women I have been with can orgasm through oral sex. There have been times where I've allotted so much time to get her off in VIP and if it doesn't happen then I finish off. After all if I didn't try to get her off, my VIP session would only be about 4 minutes long if we were just focusing on me!!!! lol kidding.
One other factor is when you do ITC the first few times with a new stripper (new to you) sometimes it's hard to tell if they've orgamsed or not. Some are blantant yelling "I'm gonna cum" but others may just give a little shiver and you may miss the sign.
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When a woman is orgasming her nipples will become rock hard and then soften. Female version of cock.
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^ Is that right?
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^^^ Yes, the skibum is correct.
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I've found my Asian partners always say, "Oh shit, oh shit" over and over when they cum. I've had a Thai, Filipino and Korean partner and all 3 did that. I don't recall girls of any other ethnicity that I've fucked doing that. Oh, and the nipple thing is common, but not 100%. Some girls are always at attention and some not so much.
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If they want pleasure they should pay.
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LOL
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Do I pleasure my whores? Absolutely. They cum, virtually always, and usually lots of times and various ways.
I'm gentle with them, learned how to do that. But what tires them out are their own muscle contractions.
SJG
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I've spent lots of money in AMPs, and got lots of education too.
SJG
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So many of them claim but I sorta have my doubts. For the most part I could care less in the throws of passion I suppose it's an ego boost but not enough of one for me to make a serious effort. Afterwards I could care less, I'm paying for my own pleasure.
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Generally my sexual activity with strippers has been all about me, but it has been dramatically different with my ATF since we starting seeing each other OTC last August and really ever since our first VIP last April. Our preferred activity since that first VIP has been 69, which almost always gets both of us off (multiple times in her case). On our most recent date -- from 9 last night until 3 this afternoon! -- we started at bedtime with her fellating me while I finger-banged her and then resumed this morning before brunch with a nice round of 69. I would say that giving her pleasure is just about as important as my own orgasms.
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ITC is generally the girl trying to cycle you in and out of a VIP room and there is money to be made, at least at the Detroit clubs I go to most, I get it, go along with it, take the quick release and go.
If I get a sexworker for an extended date (OTC, escorts etc.) I would much rather try to work on her pleasure as well. For me, its like renting a sports car or borrowing a guitar: You want to see what things are like when you kick it up a notch and test the limits. Sure, I'm paying, but why not get that little extra ounce of passion and loving by making it a two way affair? I don't expect her to orgasm because I realize she might look at it as being on the clock and quite probably isn't turned on by me, but sometimes bringing a positive attitude to the encounter can make for pleasant surprises for both parties. If I take time to pleasure her, that also helps me improve my game- so in my view I'm only cheating myself if I don't. Every experience in the saddle is just that- a chance to improve your riding skills and up your game. That just makes me feel more confident when the 'ride' is a Civie, and more ready to be up to the moment.
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"For me, its like renting a sports car or borrowing a guitar: You want to see what things are like when you kick it up a notch and test the limits"
Brilliant!!!
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** facepalm **
salon.com
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Wrong link
salon.com
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I've always felt that posts like @MyDeuce or @Smith paying for sex and coming here to brag about multiple orgasms with their hookers are the goofiest that TUSCL has to offer. Far goofier than making out with AMP workers.
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A very cynical article but mostly true we assume for sex workers. It think it's easier for non-extra dancers because that's more flirty foreplay and I would assume it's less stress than having to fuck a bunch of strangers every night.
My escort g/f is never getting sexual pleasure from her customers, which is why I wanted to meet her as a civvie and not as a customer. I've written on how that all came together for me, and I'm glad I didn't think that if I started as a customer I could transform her into a g/f. It would have NEVER happened.
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If I was paying them for sex, it's all about my pleasure. Who cares if they cum? It's my money.
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When I'm paying, it's about me, but if she nuts, that's awesome. A woman's orgasm is erotic as hell for me, so if it happens, it just adds to my pleasure.
The only time its absence bothers me is with the wife, the ATF, and the MILF.
The first she nutted on my face, she got the strangest look on her face when she looked at me. I asked her if she didn't expect an old, fat, ugly guy to be able to make her cum. She had the grace to be embarrassed a little and said, "Well, I wouldn't have put it exactly like that, but yeah." Apparently none of the guys her age bother to do it long enough to get her off more than once, or at all, whereas I kept going after the first one.
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^ Wow, you truly are a stud.
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Nah, it just takes me long enough to get "geared up" that taking an extra ten or fifteen minutes making sure she's getting some is nothing.
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