Do you pleasure your whores?
JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
If you fuck women for money, do they sometimes cum, or is it pretty much all about you? Do you care about their orgasm? Do you work towards their pleasure? Of is it all about your dick since you're paying?
I know this has been discussed before but I don't think we've ever taken a vote or asked for everyone's views on the subject.
This is mostly for those who pay OTC since mutual sexual pleasure is more difficult ITC even if you want it.
For run of the mill extras girls like GingerBread and Video Girl, it was totally and completely about me. Always. I used them to fulfill my sexual fantasies, and as long as they weren't in pain I didn't much care what it felt like for them. My money, my pleasure. However, with the ones that I love, it was very different. I used to care deeply about my dream strippers' sexual pleasure. I got off on giving them orgasms. My favorite example is the time that I gave DS III (the youngest of the three) her first orgasm through oral sex after she told me that she couldn't cum that way. She had just never had an experienced man before me. I will never forget those special times.
What do you do with your girls? I mean women.
I know this has been discussed before but I don't think we've ever taken a vote or asked for everyone's views on the subject.
This is mostly for those who pay OTC since mutual sexual pleasure is more difficult ITC even if you want it.
For run of the mill extras girls like GingerBread and Video Girl, it was totally and completely about me. Always. I used them to fulfill my sexual fantasies, and as long as they weren't in pain I didn't much care what it felt like for them. My money, my pleasure. However, with the ones that I love, it was very different. I used to care deeply about my dream strippers' sexual pleasure. I got off on giving them orgasms. My favorite example is the time that I gave DS III (the youngest of the three) her first orgasm through oral sex after she told me that she couldn't cum that way. She had just never had an experienced man before me. I will never forget those special times.
What do you do with your girls? I mean women.
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It's all about my dick
In the process she will always cum because I got some good thick dick
My regular g/f is actually a poor bed partner; we have sex but she's more about my company than the sex. She's one and done while I like to fuck for hours. OTOH, my soul mate G/F is all about sex with me as well as the company; pity she lives 2000 miles away. I think we'll eventually get married though.
The escort g/f has wild skills but even though I don't pay her, sometimes it seems like she's doing a job instead of enjoying herself. And besides the sex, she can be annoying.
I don't have any P4P sex these days; it's just not needed...although I am planning on asking my CF at the club about OTC tomorrow. If she says yes, I may cut the escort loose.
So if the encounter isn't the greatest..... I go and get mine and done.... if the encounter is fun, engaging (good chemistry), and she "seems" interested... I try to make her cum or she produces a good fake orgasm... ;-)
Yes I always try to get my partner off whether I'm paying for it or not. OTC it almost always happens because time is not a factor. ITC is a different story since I have only so much time. I have found the vast majority of women I have been with can orgasm through oral sex. There have been times where I've allotted so much time to get her off in VIP and if it doesn't happen then I finish off. After all if I didn't try to get her off, my VIP session would only be about 4 minutes long if we were just focusing on me!!!! lol kidding.
One other factor is when you do ITC the first few times with a new stripper (new to you) sometimes it's hard to tell if they've orgamsed or not. Some are blantant yelling "I'm gonna cum" but others may just give a little shiver and you may miss the sign.
I'm gentle with them, learned how to do that. But what tires them out are their own muscle contractions.
SJG
SJG
If I get a sexworker for an extended date (OTC, escorts etc.) I would much rather try to work on her pleasure as well. For me, its like renting a sports car or borrowing a guitar: You want to see what things are like when you kick it up a notch and test the limits. Sure, I'm paying, but why not get that little extra ounce of passion and loving by making it a two way affair? I *don't* expect her to orgasm because I realize she might look at it as being on the clock and quite probably isn't turned on by me, but sometimes bringing a positive attitude to the encounter can make for pleasant surprises for both parties. If I take time to pleasure her, that also helps me improve my game- so in my view I'm only cheating myself if I don't. Every experience in the saddle is just that- a chance to improve your riding skills and up your game. That just makes me feel more confident when the 'ride' is a Civie, and more ready to be up to the moment.
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My escort g/f is never getting sexual pleasure from her customers, which is why I wanted to meet her as a civvie and not as a customer. I've written on how that all came together for me, and I'm glad I didn't think that if I started as a customer I could transform her into a g/f. It would have NEVER happened.
The only time its absence bothers me is with the wife, the ATF, and the MILF.
The first she nutted on my face, she got the strangest look on her face when she looked at me. I asked her if she didn't expect an old, fat, ugly guy to be able to make her cum. She had the grace to be embarrassed a little and said, "Well, I wouldn't have put it *exactly* like that, but yeah." Apparently none of the guys her age bother to do it long enough to get her off more than once, or at all, whereas I kept going after the first one.