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7 years ago
Gee, you'd think strippers from the hood would fight better than that. They fight as badly as pro baseball players!
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7 years ago
My prized piece of jewelry is my Oyster Rolex I bought in Bangkok for a few bhat. It even has Chinese writing on it! Must be a rare piece, made from the secret factory in Beijing. It's so secret in fact even Rolex never heard of it!
It's a brilliant copy though. Came with the box, wax tag etc. The second hand ticks 4 times a second even. It ran well over a year before it died. Probably not worth fixing but dancers were impressed!
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7 years ago
My first trip was to a relative's bachelor party that moved to a club. I had NO idea what was going on but I quickly became a regular visitor.
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7 years ago
When I started clubbing I was in my late 20's. I got lots of attention but also spent way too much for what little I got. I was an easy mark for sure!!
Now that I'm older and wiser, I spend a lot less and get a lot more action. I see all ages in the club, but at least in my case, I'm much better at it now.
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7 years ago
All things being equal I like Asian girls, but it's really a personality thing and not race so I buy dances and date all races. I love fucking black girls, white girls, Asians, Latina....just as long as we have chemistry. Race is unimportant.
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7 years ago
In clubs that have ITC FS, every dancer has a price unless she just isn't going to do it. I think anything over $200 (not counting dances) is kind of stupid, but I'm sure some girls have a much higher firm price. That way they're not fucking 10 guys a night, but are still banking coin.
Some of are more wealthy members here pay a LOT for ITC sex in some form and it's their money so I'm not throwing stones. For OTC I'd spend a LOT more money on a girl. I don't go to the club specifically for orgasms because the few times I came ITC I felt pretty weird about it afterwards.
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7 years ago
I slept with my ex-ATF. I'm big on cuddling and sleep after sex.
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7 years ago
She still has a mouth John...but then that's a poor substitute IMHO.
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7 years ago
Women are 100 times worse than men as far as making a spectacle of themselves in clubs. I would hope the female PL's here are not part of this stereotype. I've had club trips become way less fun due to obnoxious female customers. As was JB69's experience, none of the management seems to care. But if a guy acted that way, w\he'd be tossed out.
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7 years ago
I don't tip dancers I'm buying dances from as a rule; in fact it seems slightly frowned upon which is confusing to me. I've had dancers give tips back, so I don't tip anymore.
I do tip at the stage, and if a hottie is chatting me up at my table but I'm not buying dances, I'll tip $20 for her time. This is always acceptable.
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7 years ago
Ha. I grew up in Nyack. No strip clubs there when I left in 1977.
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7 years ago
I don't know about "systems" since I'm just myself in the club. If I want OTC I'll ask after an appropriate number of visits; like dating I usually ask the 3rd time. If a girl invited me for OTC the first time, I'd say no. She'd be a high volume prostitute.
I had a regular recently that was very enthusiastic about OTC but she never followed through. After she broke the 2nd date I dumped her. It's important to not let a dancer string you along.
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7 years ago
I think this article is a sad commentary on the state of sex education in the US.
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7 years ago
Ha! I have a potential regular dancer that I've engaged twice now, so she knows me and knows I'm worth money to her. Last night wasn't busy but she had a few regulars there. We do some CR complete with her doing some stick shifting (rare in my club) and I'm ready for more, and told her so, but she then vanishes for 2 hours.
I got tired of waiting so when the Cubs game ended I spotted a new (to me) spinner that was just my type. I spent the rest of the evening in the CR with her. In fact we really hit it off so I'll see her again Friday. She's OTC quality too but we didn't talk about it yet as I just met her.
I'm not angry at the first girl even though the stick shifting was really well done. If she had bigger fist to fry, which seemed to be the case, that's her decision. By the same token, if I find a dancer I like and want to spend time with, that's cool too. No one owes anyone anything in a club.
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7 years ago
I use a free site to run phone #'s. I'm shocked when I get a name that leads me to a FB page of the dancer, but it DOES happen. .
http://www.okcaller.com
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7 years ago
Some dancers waitress to have a paper trail of reportable income.
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7 years ago
My ex ATF probably dated one other customer; I met him a few times at the bar and he'd try to pump me for info about her so he wasn't fucking her. It's possible we were the only 2, based on the fact a simple cell search revealed her real name, so she wasn't in the OTC business. Maybe there were 1 or 2 others, but she told me we were the only 2 and she wasn't fucking him. I give her the benefit of the doubt.
Ever other dancer either didn't do OTC at all, or whatever I got she also gives to her other regulars despite the SS.
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7 years ago
I found this article to be one of the best and most realistic I've seen. Lots of good thoughts for girls who don't really know how to go about it.
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7 years ago
No, I actually found my current G/F on C/L! LOL But she's not a sex worker, she's a nurse.
The BP thing was a long story...I wanted to get to know her as a friend to and not a customer, and I managed to do that by not calling her # but friending her on FB instead. I've never given her $ for sex. Now I wish I had just fucked her for money and forget the whole "friend" thing. She's the typical sex worker flake. I had way better luck getting to know a few dancers over the years and even dated a few. Still a minefield, but navigable at least.
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7 years ago
I don't find stupid laws to "save the children from the sex trade" a partisan issue. Both the liberals and conservatives draft anti-sex and anti 1st amendment bills as political show, not because they're either effective, moral, reasonable or constitutional.
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7 years ago
I found my g/f escort on BP...but we're friend zoned now because she's vaguely annoying. Plus I hate her stupid untrained dog.
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7 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
There's two types of dancers I tend to have as regulars: The ones I find physically attractive, give me reasonable access, and don't talk much at all because she's pleasing me. These are the girls that do talk tell the most lies.
The other type may be far less attractive, but we get along so well on a personal level that I don't care. Conversations aren't about how good looking I am or anything like that; we talk about ideas and philosophies. Sometimes sexual, sometimes not. This type is usually pretty hones because it's not about flattery, OTC or upselling what I know isn't on the menu.
I tend to avoid the worst of the bullshitters no matter how beautiful they are. Sometimes I'm fooled though...like my last CF who promised lots of OTC but never managed to step up to the plate. This is actually pretty common, so the newbies need to be aware of it and not get strung along. Even as a veteran I was fooled by this dancer, albeit for only a very short time, so the rookies really need to be aware or they'll spend $$$$ on a dancer who is only soaking them for money.
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7 years ago
100% commission. I'm not an independent contractor but I enjoy the same freedoms, without any of the hassle.
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7 years ago
I have a lot of band practices, so it's easy for me to have a practice whenever I want to go clubbing. Learn to play guitar or something!
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7 years ago
If I chose where to live for weather I would be in a Chicago burb...but when we think of dangerous weather in general we seem to forget that heat kills more people than all other weather events combined. The only surprise to me in the top 10 was Kentucky.