When you sleep with a stripper do you actually sleep with her?
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
Recently one of my ITC favorites was complaining about her breasts aching and asked me to massage them because she likes my gentle hands. I know...it's a dirty job but some body has to do it. She said that she wished she had somebody at home to do that for her. I jumped on my white horse and told her that I do house calls. Then she says if you did that, then you would have to sleep with me.
I'm pretty sure that she is kidding because she has a teen age daughter living with her. But it dawned on me that I have never spent the entire night with a stripper in any of my OTC experiences. Could I even sleep. My ex wife said I snore. Would that bother her? Is it safe to do so? I mean I wouldn't want to wake up dead or robbed.
I'm pretty sure that she is kidding because she has a teen age daughter living with her. But it dawned on me that I have never spent the entire night with a stripper in any of my OTC experiences. Could I even sleep. My ex wife said I snore. Would that bother her? Is it safe to do so? I mean I wouldn't want to wake up dead or robbed.
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Now would I consider it if she ever divorces me? Idk, anything is possible, but it would take more trust than I've ever had in any stripper thus far.
1. My retired ATF and I lived in different time zones, so we would usually meet in Vegas, she would work, and at the end of her shift she'd come to "our" hotel room. When I visited her in her town she would stay with me in my hotel. She offered for me to stay with her but she had two teenage boys and that was too akward for me.
2. A stripper in Detroit who has since retired used to spend the night with me. I felt safe with her but for extra precaution I'd put everything of value in the hotel safe. The one time the hotel I chose didn't have a safe I hid everything in my car and hid the keys in my room. Probably just being too paranoid on my part. Probably had 3 or 4 others similar to this situation over the years.
Many strippers are happy to stay in a nice hotel over their own crib for the night.
Agree caution is needed. I've been with a few strippers overnight where I didn't sleep a wink and kept careful watch over valuables.
More often a stripper and I have fallen asleep after drinking and sex. A nap, not a full night's sleep.
On the issue of safety, as is so often the case, Subraman nailed it: "I'm not going to be interested in sleeping with her unless I know her super well, and if I know her super well, then I won't be worried about safety either."
I just did a 6-hour afternooner with my new CF on Tuesday that went exceedingly well: great lunch and fun times in my hotel room for $300 for 6+ hours. We are talking about a sleepover, possibly at her place, on our 3rd or 4th date in a few weeks, at a price of about $500.
Yes, I've become a big fan of actually sleeping with *some* strippers that I sleep with, but I have to know her really well from many visits and VIPs in the club.
A different chick I met on SA spent a couple of nights at my place and I at hers. Not a good experience though. She was a raging alcoholic and had violence black out issues. Life is to short for that shit.
A couple of the escort sleepovers were at their incall locations (decent apartments, but not their main residence), the rest at hotels.
Like Subraman said, I wouldn't do it with someone I didn't already trust enough to not be worried.
Hell, in my single days I had civvie girl friends and one night stands spend the night all the time, and I'm sure some of them went home with souvenirs. And some of them were as bat shit crazy, if not more, than most strippers I've met.
She frequently would leave the bed during the night due to my snoring. I once found her on the couch with cotton balls in her ears.
I've never stayed at her place, and I don't see myself doing that any time soon, but I guess I also said the same thing about letting one stay over at one point.
No, a true and complete girlfriend experience does not include the overt exchange of cash for services rendered.
You are correct. For a true GFE we go through the pretense of converting that cash into presents, dinners, movies and catering to their whims in the hope that tonight we will get laid.