Comments by membernumber1 (page 3)

Ive done the 2 dancer lap dance once or twice...terrible and a waste of money. Ive still never had a real threesome. Had a couple offers, but I'm old fashioned...I want my first time to be....special! LOL Im sure you know what I mean, if I have a threesome, I dont want it to be a waste of time & money. i just met a girl last week that was awesome in bed and is bi, so I just need a 3rd....

The only purpose of a lap dance is an audition...for both of you as to whether there is any next step.

The pussy eating is my tip to her dammit!!

I usually joke pretty early on about her sitting with another guy, "What? I thought we were exclusive!? What the hell?!" Then I usually follow up with, "well, I guess I get to hang out with other girls if that's how you want it...just call me when you're done with those boys, K?"

My ATF had an on again/off again bf (arent they all). He found out about me and proceeded to create a series of fake facebook accounts and google numbers. He had them communicate with each other, my ATF and me and some convoluted conspiracy to turn us against each other. I guess it worked because I told the whole lot of them that I did not need the stress in my life and to F off.

I'll just pile on to the rest of the comments. At least 3 times I've thought I was the "only one" only to find out that it wasn't even close. Turns out one of my favs had pretty much given up the club to turn tricks in her hotel room. On a brighter note, one fav I dug into a little bit surprised me. I was one of the select few she was meeting with OTC, but not because I was special. It was because she was typically too drunk or hungover during daylight hours to actually move let alone fuck. But hey, at least -I- was special!

Happy Birthday!

I've done the POV angle twice before, that worked much better, although I confess, it's MUCH harder to do right than they make it seem in the movies!! I was pleasantly surprised in those shots, as the camera adds weight and size to everything!! :)

LOL Doc. Like others, I use priceline often. I typically find a hotel for less than half the going rate of a 3 star, which ends up about $5-10 cheaper than the shitty places. But...this requires a little planning and the nicer hotels dont really like to take you at 11am for a few hours. Ive contemplated the apartment route, but I prefer the idea of double dipping. Like dalex said, if you might be into flipping houses, you could set up a little room in one while you have it. Ive also considered getting some office/warehouse space and i could use a section of it for fun. I guess it just depends on how often you need a place. Dont forget the added expenses of utilities, furniture, etc. I also worry that Im too nice of a guy and I'd end up letting a girl squat there for a night or 2 or 50. Fine, but then it would be hard to bring others over! :)

I find myself much more irritated when people flame others, just to be an ass than when I get attacked myself. Usually because I know what I did to deserve it!

My original ATF and I got together sporadically every 2-3 month for almost 2 years before psycho drama ensued. My more recent fav has been hanging around for about 18 months, but I've been getting tired of her BS and have been phasing her out. There have been a few others the have shown promise of being in the favorite category, but inconsistency and unreliability has proven their downfall. My next ATF absolutely HAS to be at least 50% reliable.

I used to wait and develop rapport. I'm actually with dougster on this one for once. I don't bother waiting anymore. I'll usually get a dance and hint at it during, then press afterwards as I'm negotiating the next time well see each other.

Sometimes juice my man, ya gotta think with the other head!!

Sometimes it's about the exact lingo. I've learned at my favorite clubs the key is to ask for a private show. The girls know what that means there.

I've taped once with my current fav but only with her consent.

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Shill

My OTC cherry was much much much less dramatic, but fun in its own way. I had set up OTC maybe a dozen times before, always having them fall through at the last minute. I met this cute 20 yo spinner and immediately hit it off. I brought up OTC early and she was game...but had to take care of some thing first. She spent the next ~2 hours running around the club like an idiot doing God knows what. I know she was trying to make as much money as she could, as fast as she could, before she left. She was also obviously nervous and kept talking to her friends and running back to me, etc. Finally we left. In my room, she tried to get away with just a BJ, but I declined. Not surprisingly, once FS begin, my stamina was about what could be expected for a guy who hasnt had sex with anyone but his ex-wife in over 15 years. Short, sweet and out the door. I tried to stay in touch, but a week later I got a text saying to stop texting, that she had "past away". I got the hint and began my hunting with renewed vigor!

Congrats! Unfortunately, now that the bar is set so high, you're going to spend the rest of your life trying to match the thrill and pleasure of that one time. It wasn't my first OTC, but I think it was my 3rd. I had been talking to my ATF for over 6 months before I convinced her to come to my room, where we fucked like rabbits for over 5 hours. That was almost 3 years ago and I haven't been able to replicate anything even close to that night since...even with her.