Digging up some information on my ATF
Clackport
Washington
I'm going to ask what kind of mileage dances does she give/let, who in the club should I ask that question to get the true answer?
I'm not gonna ask her because of course she will say I'm getting the most mileage. I'm not going to ask her stripper friends that work in the same club as her because no doubt they will tell her that I asked the question. I'm not going to ask the bouncer (for obvious reasons). I'm not going to ask the bartender or the waitresses because she is good friends with them.
This leaves me with dancers that hate/are jealous of her, or the dancers that are objective because they don't hate her but they're not friends with her, or one of her actual regulars.
I have a feeling that the dancers who hate her will just try to run a smear campaign against her, so I think they might say she's sucking dick of all her customers (when that's not actually the case). On the other hand the objective ones might not want to say anything bad of a fellow dancer. I only can remember one of her regulars, and he might not be there the next time I go to this club. Who would be best to ask?
Also, how should I ask the question? I don't want them to think I'm a cop or something lol. They will be probably be very curious why I want to know. However, I am a regular at this club so the dancers know me.
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You're getting all the beneifts. Why screw it up by asking unnecessary questions? Strip club is not the best place to have a big ego. Big wallet will get you MUCH further than a big ego.
But if this were a poll, my experience would lead me to the conclusion that if she's doing with you, she's almost certainly doing it with others.
Of course no one can say what her true intentions/feelings are; but if she lets a guy she just knows from the club finger her; suck her titties; make out with her; etc., it tells me or I would assume she does it or would do it with other guys; you just haven’t seen it.
She may not do it will all guys, but I think you may be in dangerous territory to think that you are special and nothing more than a good customer IMO. You are just another guy IMO; perhaps she may like you better than others, but you are still just another PL/custie – IMO.
I don’t think she thinks of you as being as special as you think she thinks of you – but this is just my *personal* opinion based on my personal experience.
Personally, I would assume that me being “special†to her is just SS until proven otherwise.
One more thing that I forgot to add: I asked her if she did OTC with other customers, she said no, and she was so offended that I would think she would do OTC. So I also want to confirm that she's not doing OTC.
P.S. I'm not trying to make her my girlfriend lol. Sometimes I'm just curious about things.
If you're sticking your finger up her pussy, some other customer is sticking his dick down her throat.
Man, that's what I thought a couple times. But they were just the same. Let me give you a little serious advice. If you think she's different, you're setting yourself up to get played or get hurt.
Anyway, at the end of the day, why does this really matter unless you're just looking for an ego boost. A strip club is a dangerous place to go for an ego boost, as it's only likely to be shot down as soon as reality sets in. Just enjoy what you're getting and don't try to kid yourself that it's necessarily anything special. Sure, it might be more than the average guy gets, but you should never assume you are the only guy who is getting this mileage from her.
LOL - that one actually made me laugh out loud
But seriously, why do you care? I would assume she is doing to other dudes what she is doing to you. If she does a good job, just enjoy it!
Asking a friend to try her out is ok, but I would obviously have to pay for the dances, and the 20 buck couch dances are all air dances, the VIP is where any kind of contact happens, and the VIP starts out at 3 songs for 100 bucks, so I would be paying 100 bucks at a minimum.
So far the best idea I've heard is asking one of the older customers in the club.
I think I've heard enough comments asking why do I care.
There is no way for you to find out the truth, so why do you keep asking this forum on how to find out?
Here is my attitude for whatever its worth:
"My fav/atf is a dancer who is a nasty girl, but she's my nasty girl."
Your odds of being the only one she gives high mileage to is about the same odds that Kim Kardashian has only fucked Kanye.
Although if you do disguise yourself as a white man, the size of your dick might give you away :)
Papi- You're right, I think my big dick would give it away LMAO.
Esta- good stuff man
I have to add that I don't care if I found out that she does OTC or that she's fucking customers in the VIP, that would just fall in line with the hundreds of strippers over the past 4 years. She's the most normal girl stripper out of all the hundreds I've met. She doesn't do drugs, she doesn't have a kid etc... I just want to see if she's lying to me. I also have to reiterate that I'm not trying to make her my girlfriend.
What ever she does with you, she has done with others.
There, I just saved you hundreds in investigation fees.
What part of this don't you understand?
I always wondered if she gave me better dances than the next guy..but kinda didn't think so. One night I was at the stage and sitting in a chair right next to the dividing wall. I saw my girl take a dude into the ld area. A few minutes later I heard her yell at the dude then give him a lecture. She angrily said several times "You do not bite the pussy, you lick the pussy, you suck the pussy, you do not bite the pussy"
lol, curiosity satisfied.
I strongly suspect OP situation is probably the same. They don't just do stuff for that one special non-whale customer.
On a brighter note, one fav I dug into a little bit surprised me. I was one of the select few she was meeting with OTC, but not because I was special. It was because she was typically too drunk or hungover during daylight hours to actually move let alone fuck. But hey, at least -I- was special!
Like jack, and perhaps other TUSCLers, I too have come across/met the elusive “this girl is different†type of dancer. I’ve come to learn that if she is a stripper, then she is a stripper – don’t means to say that she is a bad person necessarily, but she *is* a stripper and that *is* what you are dealing with, and all that comes with it, at the end of the day, IMO.
Anyways I have a update. Two of my friends did VIP with her (I wasn't in the club), and they both said there was minimal contact. She didn't even take off her bra. Maybe I'm just experiencing the perks of being a regular, who knows. I learned from another stripper that she's in a 2 year relationship with her boyfriend, and that her boyfriend looks exactly like me. LOL, we're both black and light skinned, that's the only similarities I see. She must think all black people look alike LOL.
Thanks to all the TUSCLers that gave me helpful information in cracking the code.
Anyways I have a update. Two of my friends did VIP with her (I wasn't in the club), and they both said there was minimal contact. She didn't even take off her bra. Maybe I'm just experiencing the perks of being a regular, who knows. I learned from another stripper that she's in a 2 year relationship with her boyfriend, and that her boyfriend looks exactly like me. LOL, we're both black and light skinned, that's the only similarities I see. She must think all black people look alike LOL.
Thanks to all the TUSCLers that gave me helpful information in cracking the code.