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I've had this happen before and this is my experience and what i'd predict will happen with you: It is a civilian date. Just go, have fun, pay her way as you would on a date. Have a location in mind for after date fun. (I wouldnt have a hotel already booked unless you are traveling already, just have it in your mind) Afterwards, she will humbly and awkwardly ask for just a little bit of cash because she's having a hard time. It might be $50. It might be $500. Who can say with these women, but unfortunately, they all see us as little more than ATMs. My response is always, "um...gosh..I really like you and I understand your dilemma but I dont really do the whole buying a date thing" If I dont give a shit about repeating, I leave it at that and send her on her way. If it's worth the $ she needs and I want to repeat, then I cough it up. i've got a regular that kind of started that way. Now I see her every couple weeks for a flat 100. Sometimes we go out to eat or hang out, sometimes we just go to the hotel. We always have sex. She always gets 100. My ATF is the other end. We hang out a lot. Sometimes we have sex, more often we don't. (BOO!) Sometimes she asks for cash, more often she doesn't (YAY!) It's basically, she doesn't see herself as an escort but just genuinely cant seem to be capable of funding her own life without help. Its confusing and stressful, but the sex is more than worth it!! haha!

Just check the reviews for the club in question and you can usually get a pretty good idea. You'll also notice the same people reviewing in a particular city, maybe message one of them.

Theyre fishing for regulars. Which does not mean that they will or will not go OTC, but to be honest the best money a girl can make is if she can land a half dozen or so guys each day that come into the club just to see her. If she can pull $50-100 out of each, she's making 300-600 for an afternoon with little work and almost no risk.

I didnt read all the comments, but basically that question depends on so much. What is your current arrangement, what do you usually pay her, do you ever have non paid dates, do you ever have paid non sex dates, etc. I've had a couple overnights but I've never paid extra. Basically they've just crashed at my place after a long evening. But, its never been with a girl that was completely 100% established as Pay-to-Play. It was always with a stripper i was "dating" but "helping out" occasionally.

I met a girl at the Speedway down the street after closing recently. While I was waiting, it came to my attention that 90% of the girls all stopped there on their way out for cigarettes and munchies. I even had a couple proposals as I sat there. It made me wonder how much success I'd have if I just made my way there at the end of the night without plans in place.