I am new to the OTC thing but I have one that is going on 2 years and still going strong. That was my first.
One lasted only 9 months and dont know what happened. I thought everything was fine but she hasnt return,ed my calls or texts for 5 months now.
One new one I'm into has been only going a month.
Oh and there is one other where we're going on 4 yrs but I never see her much because she moved away and I dont get to her city very often.
I just ended one after 3 1/2 years. She started getting fussy, had been trying to get a ring from her bf and he knew about me and I'm 40 years older than her. Really gonna miss it.
The longest one I had lasted a little over a year. For me they typically last from 6mos to 1 year. There are also 2 or 3 dancers that I still see OTC on a regular basis, but it's strictly friendship (no sex), so it doesn't really count. I've been seeing them for 4 or 5 years now.
I started doing OTCs with dancers in late 2006. I have two that I've seen regularly since then. One more who started a year later. All three are still great fun to be with, in and out of their respective clubs. I've also had several other much shorter ones. Many that were multiyear relationships. Some "disappeared" as we all know dancers tend to do. Some others were a "one and done."
My original ATF and I got together sporadically every 2-3 month for almost 2 years before psycho drama ensued. My more recent fav has been hanging around for about 18 months, but I've been getting tired of her BS and have been phasing her out. There have been a few others the have shown promise of being in the favorite category, but inconsistency and unreliability has proven their downfall. My next ATF absolutely HAS to be at least 50% reliable.
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