How long until you ask for a stripper's contact info?

19 comments

• georgmicrodong

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  12 years ago

  As soon as I figure out I want to contact her. Usually, that's less than an hour or so.
  
  I don't discuss anything explicit over text.
• Dougster

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  12 years ago

  My philosophy is they either do OTC or they don't so no point in waiting to ask. I'll often ask the first time I meet them, but, OTOH, if I don't think I can follow up right away will wait until the second or third time.
  
  I think if you wait until after the third time you could reduce your chances (probably not by much though) since some might think you are the kind I guy who is happy w/o OTC so the chance they'll play games with you increases.
  
  Usually the right answer seems to be first time you meet then and a trial lap dance or three shows they would be worth it.
• Dougster

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  12 years ago

  One thing I should note is that, as many probably guessed from reading my posts on here, i am naturally a very charming and witty guy in person, and I think I have a "harmless" demeanor. I have my doubts that "building trust" plays any role when doing OTC with whores, but many here insist it does. In my case I just I naturally fail to trigger any "alarms", so it's possible some other may like to wait a bit - I doubt it really worlds that way but something to consider if you believe that school if thinking.
• carolynne

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  12 years ago

  just be respectful and don't be weird or threatening - your odds will go up.
• gatorfan

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  12 years ago

  5 mins before I ask to contact her mouth with my dick
• sharkhunter

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  12 years ago

  I've lost interest in going out with dancers. A dancer would have to twist my arm or be super sexy to convince me otherwise. As is I don't believe many dancers are going to try to talk me into something unless they have a money angle to it.
• Clubber

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  12 years ago

  I have found that more and more lately, they offer the information. I've only asked once and that was my ATF.
• membernumber1

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  12 years ago

  I used to wait and develop rapport. I'm actually with dougster on this one for once. I don't bother waiting anymore. I'll usually get a dance and hint at it during, then press afterwards as I'm negotiating the next time well see each other.
  
• jackslash

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  12 years ago

  When I meet an attractive new dancer, I ask for phone number and OTC that night. Why wait?
• pabloantonio

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  12 years ago

  If you make a connection the first time, you and the dancer will exchange numbers right before you are going to leave.
  
  I don't think anybody would agree to OTC in a text message. Most of the texts you send and receive will be for the purpose of making "dates" to meet at the club.
• rh48hr

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  12 years ago

  My current ATF offered up her number and made the offer to meet OTC.
• jestrite50

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  12 years ago

  I agree with Clubber...... i never have to ask. If they are interested in OTC they usually give me their number voluntarily ......i have never asked......
  PS i have numbers of about 10 different ones in my phone right now over 5 different states. I just deleted about 5 because i havent heard from them for a while.
• crazyjoe

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  12 years ago

  I would agree that most give info freely. I rarely ask for it. They see me with my phone out and either grab it and out their info in it or they insist i put them into my phone.
• shadowcat

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  12 years ago

  I never ask for numbers.Of the ones that are given to me, I throw 90% of them away as soon as I leave the club. If have found that trying to arrange OTC is becoming more trouble than it is worth. So as long as I can get what I want ITC, why bother.
• ButterMan

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  12 years ago

  Hhhhmm well you guys must be way better than me at this:) because I think I may have been offered a dancers number once without asking. I don't usually expect that sort of thing to happen
  
• Papi_Chulo

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  12 years ago

  I agree with the rest that if the dancer does OTC you don’t need to wait ; she may want it as much as you do (except she wants the $$$ and you want the cuchie).
  
  Also, dancers “are” women LOL and most women tend to be wary about meeting up w/ a guy they don’t know at all. Some dancers may take the plunge if they have gotten to know the guy after a couple of visits at the SC.
• carolynne

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  12 years ago

  i like to know the guy pretty well.
• ButterMan

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  12 years ago

  Carolynne that is always what I thought too nut from listening to some of these guys maybe I'm moving a little too slow:)
• carolynne

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  12 years ago

  maybe a girl with a crack habit who is short on $ would be more eager.