How long until you ask for a stripper's contact info?

As soon as I figure out I want to contact her. Usually, that's less than an hour or so.

I don't discuss anything explicit over text.

My philosophy is they either do OTC or they don't so no point in waiting to ask. I'll often ask the first time I meet them, but, OTOH, if I don't think I can follow up right away will wait until the second or third time.

I think if you wait until after the third time you could reduce your chances (probably not by much though) since some might think you are the kind I guy who is happy w/o OTC so the chance they'll play games with you increases.

Usually the right answer seems to be first time you meet then and a trial lap dance or three shows they would be worth it.

One thing I should note is that, as many probably guessed from reading my posts on here, i am naturally a very charming and witty guy in person, and I think I have a "harmless" demeanor. I have my doubts that "building trust" plays any role when doing OTC with whores, but many here insist it does. In my case I just I naturally fail to trigger any "alarms", so it's possible some other may like to wait a bit - I doubt it really worlds that way but something to consider if you believe that school if thinking.

just be respectful and don't be weird or threatening - your odds will go up.

5 mins before I ask to contact her mouth with my dick

I've lost interest in going out with dancers. A dancer would have to twist my arm or be super sexy to convince me otherwise. As is I don't believe many dancers are going to try to talk me into something unless they have a money angle to it.

I have found that more and more lately, they offer the information. I've only asked once and that was my ATF.

I used to wait and develop rapport. I'm actually with dougster on this one for once. I don't bother waiting anymore. I'll usually get a dance and hint at it during, then press afterwards as I'm negotiating the next time well see each other.

When I meet an attractive new dancer, I ask for phone number and OTC that night. Why wait?

If you make a connection the first time, you and the dancer will exchange numbers right before you are going to leave.

I don't think anybody would agree to OTC in a text message. Most of the texts you send and receive will be for the purpose of making "dates" to meet at the club.

My current ATF offered up her number and made the offer to meet OTC.

I agree with Clubber...... i never have to ask. If they are interested in OTC they usually give me their number voluntarily ......i have never asked...... PS i have numbers of about 10 different ones in my phone right now over 5 different states. I just deleted about 5 because i havent heard from them for a while.

I would agree that most give info freely. I rarely ask for it. They see me with my phone out and either grab it and out their info in it or they insist i put them into my phone.

I never ask for numbers.Of the ones that are given to me, I throw 90% of them away as soon as I leave the club. If have found that trying to arrange OTC is becoming more trouble than it is worth. So as long as I can get what I want ITC, why bother.

Hhhhmm well you guys must be way better than me at this:) because I think I may have been offered a dancers number once without asking. I don't usually expect that sort of thing to happen

I agree with the rest that if the dancer does OTC you don’t need to wait ; she may want it as much as you do (except she wants the $$$ and you want the cuchie).

Also, dancers “are” women LOL and most women tend to be wary about meeting up w/ a guy they don’t know at all. Some dancers may take the plunge if they have gotten to know the guy after a couple of visits at the SC.

i like to know the guy pretty well.

Carolynne that is always what I thought too nut from listening to some of these guys maybe I'm moving a little too slow:)

maybe a girl with a crack habit who is short on $ would be more eager.