Comments by big_d_2011 (page 2)

Yes and I am about to get back in. I have not been since late July when I got tired of the lies and SS so I decided I was going to stay away. I used to go about once a month but from April-July I was going once or twice a week and it started to catch up to me. I am not a whale and when I actually considered spending $700 on a CR visit one night I told myself I need to give it a break.

10 inches, I have not been but if you were quoted that as the house fee then prices have gone down. Two months ago I was told $300 minimum to house and the girl said $500 an hour. No way I was doing that. I've had multiple dancers tell me it's not worth it but I guess if you find the right dancer you may go home happy. Last month on an early Sunday AM I was told by a dancer the house will negotiate bottle prices and charge half off if you request. Between her price and the house fee it was going to be $500. Still too much for me to not know what I am getting.

It has been about 7 months since I have been to either. If PP has gone downhill then chances are Heartbreakers is right along side it. Overall I have found better talent at PP but Heartbreakers has been more relaxing and every once in a while you will find that diamond in the rough and have a good time.

25 miles from Home but about 5 miles from Work.

I am familiar with the club. Visit at least once a week and I do know when and how they do the two for ones. Each dancer is free to negotiate her prices. I have paid as low as $15 for a dance and as high as $30. Her sell to me the first time when I asked how much her dances were she said "They are $30 if you get just one but if you get multiple dances I can do 2 for $40, 3 for $60 etc"... I told her okay we can try a couple of dances and go from there. We did 2 dances and I paid her $50 since I tipped her $10. She said "Thank you for the tip. Let's go have a drink and chat some more". So we did. Then we came back to the couch area before the club closed and I got three more dances but with a tip I paid her for 4 (Actually gave her $90 since she needed money to buy a pack of cigarettes) and she gave me her number so we could schedule to meet up again. So on the second set of dances it was still $20 a dance. She again thanked me for tipping her and said "Hey do you happen to have a $10, I have been bumming cigarettes from my friends and I need to buy a pack from the house mom". So I gave her the $10 and that equaled $90 total. Had her dances been $30 for the second go round she would not have thanked me for tipping her nor would she have accepted what I originally gave her. It was my fault for not confirming the dance prices during our second meeting, but I have been at this club for over a year and I know when and how they do the 2 for 1 dances. 99% of dancers at this club (and customers will tell you) offer discounts on multiple dances. It's a learning experience for me and will make sure in the future I don't let my guard down and stick to my rules. Lesson learned for big D.

Very good points player. I guess my biggest gripe was that she changed the number of songs and the price to get the amount she wanted. I gave her $140 for the 6 songs thinking $20 a song like last week plus a $20 tip and we will finish up with more dances later. She counted it and said "9 songs at $20 is 180". I told her we only did 6 songs and she goes "Oh, well 6 songs at $30 is still $180". That is when I brought up the previous week and her prices and she tried to say it was a 2 for 1 deal and it was not. Her quote was if you get more than one song they are $20 each. My mistake was assuming the prices would be the same.

Shark, I believe we are talking about the same club (PP). 99% of the time I do the same thing to confirm the price even if it is a regular. Last night I did not and she burned me. Such is life in the Hobby when you let your guard down.

I feel ya candy man. And I didn't break the rule of spending more than you have. I actually walked out with over $100 I initially planned on spending.

I also understand the game. We are both easily replaced. Hell, it's not like I don't see other dancers. She was just one of several just like I was for her. She is just the first to change prices on me like that. Next time I will just make sure one of the other dancers is working.

Mike I can understand your point. My mistake is that each Dancer is different. I have sat on those couches with lots of Dancers and talked since this club happens to be extremely loud and hard to carry on a conversation. Never have I technically paid to just sit back there. She suggested we go back so we could discuss a possible champagne room visit and OTC plans. There were also no seats in the main seating area either, so back we went. That took a little over one song and she wanted to smoke the second song. So she said we would start next song and I agreed. Last week we sat back there for two songs before the dances started as well. I will chalk it up to a learning experience and give myself some of the blame.

Oh no, not even close to owning me. If you saw her face, she got the message without me having to say "F you".

I sit near the couch room and where the dancers come to the floor. I get a good view of dancers as they come and go and have a chance to get their attention before they really hit the floor.

I've never say near the stage and just tipped. I usually sit further away and tip to get the attention of someone or to make a statement and show dancers I am there to spend. I never tip based on what they do on stage. It is all about the look for me.

I honestly started the hobby one day to kill some time. I was hooked though! Only recently have I even asked or offered my number. I've decided to step up my game and if we both get what we want then great. Personally, I just like the variety compared to my personal life. I'm not looking for any relationship from a dancer, just a release from some pent up frustration that I sometimes encounter. It's not that I am heartless but I'll be damned if I let a dancer get me down in any way. It's my money and either they want to earn it or they don't. I don't believe the "I'm coming just to see you" lines. I tell them I have no problem if they want to work the floor and earn more business. I am very jealous in my personal life but in this hobby I learned very quick that the next one is just a stage away. If they treat me right, they have a loyal regular who will provide a regular income stream.

It depends. I got one during my first visit to my favorite club. It was a slow day and she went for it as soon as they song started. All I was looking for was a good dance but she was the aggressor and who am I to stop her. I did pay her $100 for 4 songs so I guess it wasn't technically free but 4 dances at $25 a pop and a HJ is not bad.

Just got in about two hours ago. My favorite was not there so I still have about half of my budgeted money left. I may go back tonight or just wait until next week. I did have some success last night, so I may have a new favorite!

It was actually my very first visit and what got me hooked on the hobby. As soon as I sat down I was joined by a dancer and her hands roamed freely. We went to the back a little later and she unbuckled my belt, unzipped me and have a HJ during the dances. I was offered more but turned it down.

Some escorts who charge $300+ will advertise on Backpage when they travel. You may just have to get lucky and once they see you they can give you a reference to get a trial membership without having to verify job info etc... After they verify they have met with you, you can see other women in your area. Date check is the site I used.

It really depends on who is at the club at the time. I've gone some afternoons just on a whim with $60. I like to relax for a few minutes and scout the room but if a favorite is there then I will make it about $30 minutes. Then I kick myself for not having more. Once again for me it just depends on who is working. I have gone in with $100 and lasted over 2 hours and I have gone in with over $300 and spent it in 45 minutes.

Concerts and Football games! Sundresses and cowboy boots...oh yes!

After getting to know a few dancers about the only thing they complain about is guys who grope to much. These dancers have the kitty off limits to most and guys go for it the first few seconds of a dance. To me it is just common sense to be respectful and soon enough you will get that extra mileage you seek. They love bitching about management most of all and about other dancers.

After looks, it is her personality and the ability to connect with me. Yes, I know I am in a club with half naked women but it is nice when a dancer actually attempts to get to know you and can carry on a good conversation. If she has the look, personality and gives me my money's worth... She is a keeper for me.

Do people who actually go clubbing complain about this? I can understand someone from backpage that may be doing this near your house, but who complains about ITC? Seems like an excuse.

South Carolina

Never seen one that I would take home even if they paid me! Other waitresses... Yes, but not the ones that work at the Waffle House!