masonseth69

The other way I look at it is that it would make no sense for her to screw me over on the 'advance' as it's a small amount compared to what she'll be making with me going forward if she doesn't screw me over. I'll post the results in a few weeks when we are scheduled to spend quite a bit of time together.

Yep, no problem. Exactly why I post here... looking for advice on stuff I'm still pretty new to.

A gesture of good will was exactly what I told my buddy. She had recently took the risk of skipping a Friday night at the SC (a good earning night) to meet up with me somewhere. If I didn't show, she would have been out a lot of money. I also appreciated a significant chunk of extra time when she didn't have to do that. If the risk pays off, she's happy and maybe I get what I like to think of as 'preferred status'.

Yeah, still very early with this girl, so it's a calculated risk and the money wasn't a lot to me. But so far, she has been very honest, responsive and reliable. Also puts up with my drunk-texting and sends me hot pics of herself in return. Hoping this works out well and turns out into a long term deal. Working out the details for a Vegas trip.

Update: She agreed to meet for coffee. We'll see if she shows and take it from there. It took a little persuading and unfortunately I'll need to pa for her time, but at least I won't need to submit any info and I'll get to see what she's all about first.