Greed
big_d_2011
South Carolina
So I broke one of my rules last night but it has got me thinking. Never just go to the vip without confirming dance prices ahead. It is a rule that the majority of us have and it is smart. My mistake was that this was someone I recently met and I assumed that her prices would be the same as the previous visit. We head to the back and relax a little and then dances start. I received three and then we took a break for a few songs and relaxed some more. We were sitting in the back still so I did not pay her since I knew I was getting more dances. We then did three more dances and agreed we both needed to use the restroom. I told her I wanted to go ahead and pay for the dances we had already done and gave her money for 6 songs plus a $20 tip. She counts the money and says it is actually $$$. I said, is it not the same price as last time? And she said "9 songs at so and so is....." I said we only did 6 songs and she came back with "oh, well 6 songs at so and so is...". It just happened to come out to the same amount. So I mentioned once again about what she charged me last time and I assumed it was the same price for dances. She countered back with "Last time we did a 2 for 1". Knowing that we did two different sets of dances last time (all must have been at 2 for 1 prices) I just dropped it and gave her the money she requested. Her damage had already been done though. She said she was sorry and that the price she charged me tonight was her regular dance prices. We both had to go use the restroom but she suggested we go back and sit near the Bar. I contemplated just leaving right then but I waited for her to get out of the restroom and told her I had to go unfortunately. And then she said "I was hoping you could stay a little longer and do a two for one since I waited for you". I told her I had to go but maybe another time. Knowing full well that there will not be another time after she went from 9 songs to 6 songs and changed the price of dances so it would equal a certain amount.
I know we talk about dancers but how is it so difficult to see the larger picture? She was going to have a full time regular and a steady income stream coming in from my visits. I am no whale by any means but if I like someone they are going to get a good $300 from me each visit and I go in once a week. If I feel like you are trying to get one over on me though I will just drop you from my list of dancers I see. If she would have just told me that she needed a certain amount of money then I would have given it to her. But to change prices and the number of songs to get to that amount left me puzzled as to her game. I guess it all comes back to Greed. Oh well, that is the Hobby sometimes. Live and learn. 99 other dancers that I can test out next visit.
I know we talk about dancers but how is it so difficult to see the larger picture? She was going to have a full time regular and a steady income stream coming in from my visits. I am no whale by any means but if I like someone they are going to get a good $300 from me each visit and I go in once a week. If I feel like you are trying to get one over on me though I will just drop you from my list of dancers I see. If she would have just told me that she needed a certain amount of money then I would have given it to her. But to change prices and the number of songs to get to that amount left me puzzled as to her game. I guess it all comes back to Greed. Oh well, that is the Hobby sometimes. Live and learn. 99 other dancers that I can test out next visit.
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I saw her again last Wednesday and when she asked if I wanted a dancer, I just said "No thanks".
You got 99 problems but a dancer ain't one!
Lol
I've never encountered this problem because unfortunately you have to pre pay for your dances in my area. And even when I've been clubbing out of town, I just payed the girl after each song and if I want more than one song, I just have her stick around.
I will chalk it up to a learning experience and give myself some of the blame.
Of course when I was new and forgot to ask, sometimes I was very disappointed. Now I always confirm the dance count to make sure I'm in agreement with the dancer after it gets past one or two dances if I let things continue. Some of the music and blabbering DJ's makes it hard to count some songs. It is like trying to count a commercial with someone talking for anywhere from a minute to 5 minutes.
One has to negotiate the price, make sure what cost will be before enjoying the activity. Just bc they give u a deal does not mean they will honor it next time.
I had done M a few times at Centerfolds and club A for FS at $200. She was really good at CG. One day I walked into Club A just to chill (only had $120 on me) as I thought M was dancing at Centerfolds. I had not gone 15 feet when M (20 yo blonde from Miami) grabbed me and hugged me saying hi. She wanted to go to the upstairs vip to fuck. I told her I only had $100 and even offered to spend it on her on dances as I did not have the 200 for FS. She said "I want you and we can fuck for that ($100)." I took her up to ViP and fucked her for $100 and she told me "wait until I cum then you can get off." No problem for me as I go awhile anyhow. We had a good fuck and I though well maybe pop will be down to 100. Well not gonna happen as next time she was back up to 200.
Did you know that you were doing '2 for 1' the first time? If so, then it's your bad for not confirm the same discount applied. If you were unaware of the '2 for 1' during your first visit, she a ROB and she can F-off and never spend $ on here ever again. Sounds like you're familiar with the club in question. So shouldn't you already have known if '2 for 1' deals exist sometimes but not others?
It was my fault for not confirming the dance prices during our second meeting, but I have been at this club for over a year and I know when and how they do the 2 for 1 dances. 99% of dancers at this club (and customers will tell you) offer discounts on multiple dances. It's a learning experience for me and will make sure in the future I don't let my guard down and stick to my rules. Lesson learned for big D.