Comments by playfulsteve (page 3)

A few friends who I sc with, and a few more that know that I've not gone with..... but most its not acknowledged as public info (although my social circles are all intertwined so I'm sure I have a reputation even though its not publicly discussed)......

I keep reading about Follies on here, to the point where I want to check it out as well! See how it compares to the coi clubs! or the good ole days of HT/TL.......

I grew up a few freeway exits away from the COI spots, and have enjoyed TL equally. Over the years have checked out most of the Vegas and Phoenix clubs as well. So far I feel spoiled with COI in my backyard......

similar to 2: 8: random dancer tells you she'll go get your fav for you as she's in the back right now... 9: fav halts conversation with whomever she's talking with at the time, and damn near tackles you in a hug/kiss.....

I'm not enough of a monger to leave out phyical attraction, If she doesn't do it for me (in looks), I'm not at all interested. None of the above for sure...... In my area of choice, you have 3 competing clubs, all of them offer vip by time instead of per dance, and while the one with the hottest ones are a bit more expensive (sometime delusionally, and unfortunately those ones are spreading like a disease to the other 2), whatever you want is available between the 3. Just all depends on your negotiating skills... (just like in job interviews and car purchases, until they so no, they mean yes, its just a matter of how long are you willing to make them suffer until they actually say yes.....)

ummmmmmm so what is the category for cumming out of their pants? asking for a friend.....

Yes please. I love going to clubs on Halloween night just to get the sexy costume aspect, especially if she is a cosplayer!

Handled it perfectly. I’ve given the nod in passing when she/I was alone, but other than that, don’t acknowledge.

What I remember most was the drive back to the hotel. The local LEO's were like sharks circling intersections waiting for drunk drivers...... that was a scary drive! (to get a dui out of state on the company dime would have been a pretty bad experience.......)

I've been to one strip club in the Madison area.... (was in town for a training class), I think it was Club Bristol..... I just remember looking up the closest spot to where I was staying (I was in a Super 8 in sun prairie...... and the spot was a few freeway exits down, on a corner on the other end of a long straight drive through farmland......I remember having very low expectations....... but ended up having a good time for what was basically a bar with some couch dance areas on the side, but it seemed the majority of the fun took place in the smoking patio....... lol

*throws the popcorn bag in the microwave*

I would definitely always be thinking in the back of my mind of that exact scenario, watched too many episodes of Law and Order.....lol

I've had that same experience Mnaz. I feel your pain...... I couldn't imagine the douchebaggery you have to deal with on a regular basis blah...... I don't hold it against you one bit for being the way you are! Even as a customer I see the way some guys are with the ladies.and it can be mind boggling. I understand we are all trying to get what we want and its the eternal struggle (we want as much as we can get with as little money possible, and you want to get as much money with as little work as possible), but I try to at least be approachable and engaging.... If I detect that you are not interested I'm not gonna be an ass about it. I'll just move onto the next.......

That reminds me of the opposite predicament when the dancer you DON'T want to have any company with is the one who sits down next to you and won't leave........ Brings me back to my younger inexperienced days of "what do I do?" hahahah Now its just "Nope waiting on "so and so"" and she still doesn't take a hint..."I have to go have a smoke".........

I do know people who frequent clubs, but aren't the type to need extra's etc, and sometimes they just like being there. and they play it right, always buying drinks, or tipping to have them stay at the table etc. Everyone is different at what they want. And yes, I would agree with Dom's original statement that this does open the door to OTC/friendship opportunities. The friend I'm referring to almost always has dancer GF's/buddies, and that comes in handy at parties, as she always invites her friends to come along.......and we all reap the benefits :)

That is either 2 things..... You found the unicorn who is breaking all the rules as a dancer, and enjoy the shit out of it. OR......as you suspect, there is some motive behind it........ I wish you well in it being the former and not the latter...........

Interesting read. I've been on this site for a good long time, but haven't been very active on it until as of late...... (looking to branch out of the scene I've been stuck in for quite some time now COI), but yes these kinds of things are very interesting...

never mind found the search function :)

what city/state is this place located in?

congrats steel! Enjoy the ride(s)!

TO the original question: I guess it depends on what you are looking for...... If extras is your thing, then of course you are going to go visit a spot that is well known for it (or at least a dancer at a spot who does)..... Gotta love the internet for all the intel regarding such things..... (Tuscl was how I first found out about such things.......other resources are also available that focus on the dancers themselves as well as the locations.......at least in my area.....)

Paradise's Sky is very well known and definitely not a rob........ as to her HPV status, I would care to guess that many of the women who we enjoy the extra's from aren't clean, so don't be a fool, and wrap that shit! (and get tested regularly!).......

For me this was the early 90's during the 'hey day' of the strip club scene (near) where I live now, but grew up very nearby (COI), where there were a few straight out orgy palaces going on that I mostly missed out on, and caught the tail end of..... "Fuck buying all that porn, and video games and movies and music, go visit Hawaii Theater! NOW!" You think COI is the extra haven it is now, especially with all the internet intel....... Back then you didn't need it, all you had to do was show up!

I was at a club with a VERY drunk friend of mine (it was a group of us....) and he tried this move once, and almost got KTFO because of it...... While it was rude of him to do so, the lull is what gave him the opportunity.... If you want her to stay cash is king...... either take her for a dance, or specifically pay her for her time to stay.....(Or take the other route and tell the other guy to stfu!)

Back in the 90’s out here in SoCal there were a number of porn stars who danced as well....... those were the days........