Who Knows You're a PL or Stripper IRL?

I often SC with my best buddy and a number of other friends and acquaintances (currently the size of the group is 4 guys, but sometimes there's more or less), so they obviously know. I don't mention it to anyone who doesn't participate

A couple months ago I ran into a co-worker at a club. So he knows. We've discussed our lifestyle a few times since.

I think my CF knows, but that's about it.

My wife and a friend from my previous job.

My wife, my ATF, every stripper from whom I’ve gotten more than a lap dance, one of my daughters, everybody who reads this forum, a couple of guys from another forum.

Nobody except my TUSCL friends. And everybody in my favorite Detroit strip clubs.

It's like no one knows but everyone likely expects it.

No one.

All my buddies know! No shame!

My personal friends do.

my priest knows

I wife knows I have been but not at all how frequently. I told my best friend everything and he was very surprised at first and I think a little disappointed. But I wanted to talk to someone outside of TUSCL who would help keep me accountable.

Only my wife knows that I started going again in 2015 to present. Actually I tend to know a lot more about other guys' marriage infidelities -- mostly because they offer up the info voluntarily to me -- both with civvies and escorts and the occasional AMP or SC. Whereas they don't know that much about me.

Most people in my life know that I used to go to strip clubs back in my teens and early twenties -- my wife, my GFs, my siblings, my late mother, half-brother's half-brother's baby momma, nearly all of my personal friends, my fraternity brothers, the fraternity alumni from college, most of my old work colleagues, my old bosses. It's NBD. Most have been open minded but cautioned about wasting too much $$$. I used to club with many of them from time to time.

But any more, I tend to keep it to myself at this stage in life.

^^^ You’re an honorable Family Man, and well respected in your community. How could a man of your stature and clout dare out himself of such discord by entering any house of ill repute?

You keep telling yourself what you want to hear Family Man. Just like it’s ok to tag a girl for otc upon her backslide from addiction, because she would have done it with someone else if it wasn’t for you. You’re such a white knight!

A few friends who I sc with, and a few more that know that I've not gone with..... but most its not acknowledged as public info (although my social circles are all intertwined so I'm sure I have a reputation even though its not publicly discussed)......

i wear a lot of stripclub shirts.
maybe i shouldn’t?

i wear a lot of stripclub shirts.
maybe i shouldn’t?

@MisterWonderful

Half of the t-shirts in my t-shirt drawer are club shirts. I wear them all the time. Sometimes I'll wear one grocery shopping, underneath my jacket. Sometimes I pass a milf and she'll crack a wry smile at me.

I have a couple of friends that are PLs themselves that I talk about clubs to a little bit. But no one knows to the extent of how much of a monger I am. That is why I like this website. I can freely talk about things that I would not with any of my friends or family.

i consider myself a level two monger.
i have an idea what’s out there.

When I was seeing my ATF at least twice a week, with her BF, a very tough dude, and I was participating with her using drugs, I wrote down names, addresses, and other pertinent information , paid my best friend, who was a criminal defense attorney a $1.00 as a retainer, and told him everything. He first gave me legal advice - don’t do this. Then he gave me personal advice - don’t do it. You’re gunna get your ass kicked by the BF. After ignoring both pieces of advice he used ti invite me to his house for a drink once a week, so he could laugh and revel in my situations and occasionally get some esoteric pleasure from it all. Sadly he died and his daughter has taken over his practice and I don’t know if she knows.
When my ATF moved into my house my daughters learned and had very disapproving attitudes. When she lived here ( it’s a high end condo for residents over 55) I took her to the community pool with her bathing suit about the size of two band-aides and a cork and I got some frowns ( my wife had died 3 months earlier) and I was the chairman of the condo’s Trusteees so people knew. I’ve always enjoyed tweaking the noses which are sticking up in the air.

gawker... i love it!

3 of my friends know and we routinely go to clubs when we have the chance to be together. Another old friend knows, but we don't automatically go to a club when we get together, although it has happened, especially since his divorce. There were a couple people from my job before I transferred to my current work location who I would see in clubs once in a while. One of my old friends knows, but we never go to clubs at all, mostly because the one time we actually went, he pouted like he wanted to leave the whole time.

Gawker likes to make menace with other people.

My ex-therapist and ex-psychiatrist know quite a bit about my mongering. They heard many stories about my drinking, drug use and whore mongering. They knew about my trolling strip clubs for whores dressed as dancers too.

I tried to keep most of my shit away from my ex-wife - but she caught wind of some of my strip club experiences. However, most of the rough shit was kept hidden.