How Slutty Is Too Slutty?
chandler
Blue Ridge Foothills
I'm usually suspicious of a stripper who comes on too strong too soon, grabbing my dick and talking dirty into my ear. Can a girl act so slutty it's a turn-off for you? Or is there no such thing as too much slut in your book?
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Well your mother had you. Look at her and you will have your answer.
I guess this is what chemistry is all about. Put a slut with a guy who wants one and it will work out. Same goes for with a guy who would rather be with a lady.........
My last time out I had a guy tell me that he treats a lady like a whore and a whore like a lady......and then he asked what I am....i said a lady..........then he said kneel down and suck my cock.
needless to say that was his last dance.
I treat ladies as ladies, but I don't mind interacting with the occasional tramp. To me, "slut" is an inherently negative term, and I associate it with "skanky" women who look like they don't take good care of themselves. As an example, one dancer who introduced herself at our first-ever meeting by grabbing my crotch and asking "Wanna fuck?" was such a lovely and well-groomed gal that I never even thought of her as a "slut."
Your customer explained his view. Why were you offended by his response
to your saying you were a lady? You got the response he indicated he would give.
We're at a strip club, not church so it's difficult to define what each of us would think is slutty.
I dont find saying "Wanna fuck?", "I want feel your hard cock", or other similiar phrases as slutty, these are just turn-ons/opening lines, some of the best strippers use those phrases for the good girl gone bad routine, words are always just words but physical appearance is how strippers define themselves.
One of the better clubs in my area, "St James", is nicknamed "The Church".
I agree, the question itself is not slutty, it is marketing. The girls attitude/appearance lends itself to being slutty. If you want to get technical, you could say any girl giving extras could be considered slutty by some definations.
My wife occasionally comments on someone (not a dancer because I go to clubs on the DL) as being skanky -- I always want to reply "But I like 'em like that!"
I don't like the girl next door look -- I like my strippers to look like strippers. But this is purely my thing, to each their own.
Several years ago I turned the tables on 4 dancers sitting with me. I asked each of them, loud enough for all to hear. "Wanna Fuck?" I got 2 yes's, 1 no and 1 maybe. I didn't get laid!But had fun.
to your saying you were a lady? You got the response he indicated he would give.
I was not offended at all, I simply had no interest in doing what he wanted.........Furthermore I must say that i was not sitting there in a slutty outfit...if you look at my posted pic that is what I was wearing.....so i was not dressed slutty or acting slutty, i didnt expect to hear that.I can see in some cases if you are dressed or behaving the role that you have to play it, but this was not the case. It's not like he asked......he sort of barked out the command....didn't work for me.I guess I just didn't like the way it was delivered.He would have been much better off whispering in my ear that he wanted his cock down my throat than barking it out the way he did.........
While we're on the topic of sluts...I'm sitting with two day girls around shift change and some of the night girls start to drift in. One day girl looks at the other and says, "Here come the sluts."
I think this topic might be a little too subject to interpretation, I have seen girls who would might be considered sluts who weren't loud, obnoxious or drunk.
Oh, I agree. And the frisky, fun-loving, playful, teasing sluts are great.
(The old thesaurus is going a work out today)
I guess I am just posing the subjectiveness of the entire topic, slut or slutty is really only a derogatory descriptive term (like idiot) and can be different to each one of us.
jj,
You said, "needless to say that was his last dance.", but did you then kneel down and suck his cock? :)
BTW, nice outfit!
I'm also pretty receptive to the one who guides my hand under her thong at the start of the dance!
I will agree that bad hygiene/skanky, or drunk/drugged out or "semen dripping off her chin", that would be gross... (unless it was mine)
If I'm getting the sense that "slutty dancer" is merely looking to "clean me out" in 5-10 minutes, and move on to the next guy, that's a turnoff for me.
St James is ranked #47, but you may have already seen that. They offer private "confessional" rooms, and dancers of all denominations. Scan the recent reviews and you will get a good idea.
What prompted the question, however, was a girl the other day doing exactly that, who I couldn't wait to get over with me. What normally turns me off had the opposite effect. It didn't hurt that she looked pretty sexy, although she wasn't quite a knockout. Like so many things, it ain't what you do, it's the way that you do it. She was so blatant and shameless about it, she looked like she'd be a lot of fun. And she was.
As for the word "slutty", I didn't expect it to be taken as such a pejorative here. To me, it's just a fairly non-judgmental shorthand for a more overt and aggressive approach to what other strippers do. After all, by most people's standards, even the "classiest" of strippers is pretty slutty, since she takes her clothes off for strangers and gets intimate with any man who gives her $20. To a male slut, it's nothing to get offended over.
Seems like you like to pretend whores are something other than whores (i.e. in reality what they do to you they are doing quite indiscriminately to everyone else, but you want to kid yourself that you are special). Your failed writer imagination may be a little overactive.
No , I did not kneel down for him. His approach was off for me and my situation...............
Good for you! I dislike crude individuals.
So correct! A dancer that enjoys were "work" with me is so much more enjoyable.
Because he's a troll Bones, plain & simple.
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"then he said kneel down and suck my cock."
What if he had said "please" after that jj?? :)
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"One day girl looks at the other and says, 'Here come the sluts.'"
LOL!
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In terms of "too slutty", I would offer up the "ladies" at Cheaters in RI. Crotch grabbing & excessive dirty talk are pretty much the norm for a "greeting" here, and the dancers are usually very, very aggressive about marketing for LDs & "more". One girl (who I had never met before & who didn't even bother to sit down next to me) came up to me and we had this very quick conversation:
Dancer: "Hey baby, you here to have fun?"
Me: "Sure, I always like to have fun."
Dancer: "Wanna dance?"
Me: "No thanks."
Dancer: "Wanna a blowjob?"
Me: "I don't think so?"
Dancer: "Wanna have sex?"
Me: "Nope." (She didn't seem to be my type.)
Dancer: "You're not here to have any fun..." (and she walked away...lol...)
It turns out that she was probably the "nicest looking" girl in the entire club, but I didn't know that at the time. The dancers at Cheaters are mostly one step away from street walking IMO.
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"No, Dougster, we know they hate it with you."
LOL!
Your observation is on-target, MG. In RI, street walking prostitution is banned, but indoor prostitution is not. Cheaters girls are mostly prostitutes, and they don't have to hide it.
There is very much such a thing as false advertising. This would be, too FAKE-slutty too soon.
If she IS going to fuck me, then good! She can come on as strong as necessary. If she's not, but is ACTING like she is, by coming on slutty soon, then bad! She should fuck off an die.