Married and clubbing
mreef
How do you married guys find the time for clubs?
Money is a non-issue for me now, I always seem to have $300 to $500 in a stripper stash because I'm finding it harder to go as often as I did (young family, lots of kids, etc).
I try to figure out special work functions, etc. that I can blow off, and spend a few hours at an hour-away SC. I've gone to the movies (a real long one) and spent time at SC (hint: read moviespoiler.com so you know what happens). I'm thinking this holiday season will result in some birthday and Christmas shopping for the spouse (run into the mall grab a few things so it "looks good" and hit the SC).
But the worst is when you've got a planned visit lined up and something changes that prevents it. This has happened to me twice in the past week, very frustrating.
I can't be too blatant, so no 4 hour visits for me. My max is usually 2 hours with as many LDs as I can afford.
Money is a non-issue for me now, I always seem to have $300 to $500 in a stripper stash because I'm finding it harder to go as often as I did (young family, lots of kids, etc).
I try to figure out special work functions, etc. that I can blow off, and spend a few hours at an hour-away SC. I've gone to the movies (a real long one) and spent time at SC (hint: read moviespoiler.com so you know what happens). I'm thinking this holiday season will result in some birthday and Christmas shopping for the spouse (run into the mall grab a few things so it "looks good" and hit the SC).
But the worst is when you've got a planned visit lined up and something changes that prevents it. This has happened to me twice in the past week, very frustrating.
I can't be too blatant, so no 4 hour visits for me. My max is usually 2 hours with as many LDs as I can afford.
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Once you are seeing a girl otc, she will hookup when you can meet. The smart ones know how to get around this issue.
On the other hand, maybe I shouldn't bother. My wife apparently knew more about my little adventures then she let on, as she recently surprised me by allowing a "sanctioned" visit.
Where there's a will, there's a way (wink wink).
I'm happily married, have 3 young kids and no interest in extras or cheating on my wife. Going to a strip club is not cheating and neither is a good 2-way contact LD. I think when you start talking stick shifting, HJs, you've stepped over a line.
Speaking of when there's a will there's a way, I got out tonight. It was only an hour, but love the smell, sight and touch of strippers!
There are some crazy women who think jerking off to porn and visiting strip clubs is cheating, my wife isn't one of them. I think she would be more bothered by IM'ing with an ex-girlfriend on Facebook because there is more of an emotional connection versus getting LDs from some random girls that I'll never see again.
I think it's great that some clubbers go with their spouses, but I can't imagine going with my wife, it would be more of a turn off, unless perhaps she was bi (and I know she's not -- she would be more into a MMF 3-some).
Business trips as some of you have mentioned do offer good opportunity for enjoying the hobby.
I'm in a way more than perfect marriage so it's not too hard to find time to go to a SC.
As for time, that's not easy. I use 1) business out of town travel, and 2) tag on to evening business functions. So if I have a business dinner at 6:30, I might spend 5 to 6 at the local club. Unfortunatly, my fav local club is not open for lunch, or else I'd eat there regularly.