How much do you want to know about a stripper?
larryfisherman
California
I use that example to say “how much do you want to know about a stripper?”
Do you want her to tell you all about her life, if she’s married, got a boyfriend, family/personal issues etc?
Or would you prefer not knowing about any of that?
There are customers where their boner gets instantly killed when a stripper mentions she has a boyfriend or she talks about sad shit in her life. These customers don’t want to hear any of that. On the other hand some customers are mad when they feel strippers have led them on by not telling them they have boyfriends.
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Past that I make it a rule not to get attached or care. I don’t trust anything. Confidence women try to spin even the truth.
If I just wanted one night of dances (or more) from a hot stripper, I’d probably prefer to be lied to about many things.
Also... "boyfriends".
I would be hard pressed to ever be emotionally or sexually jealous of strippers boyfriend past the discount he may receive on the sexual end...
the only thing i care about is a hot dancer who is friendly and shows me a good time
On the other hand like has already been mentioned you can get some quality time at a discounted rate if she is 3 months late on the light bill and her BF is in jail for making meth.
Having said that if they can talk intelligently about current events or activities they enjoy I’m fine with that. But no personal info. Ruins the fantasy.
But like most, if I'm just there for a few dances, nah just grind on me don't talk lol!
Her willingness to share and show that level of trust overrides almost anything that she would disclose.
Most of the time it is pretty easy to see through the SS, if not the first encounter then the second.
I'm married and I make no effort to hide it, so I really don't care. My "friends" soon figure this out, which often leads to them being honest about their own entanglements.
What I want to know about them is whatever I need to gauge their potential for OTC. Other than that, it's fine if they want to share more so long they don't create drama for me. Sometimes I even enjoy a little bit of a connection as long as they also continue to entertain me.
Her willingness to share has turned a casual relationship into something special.
On the other hand, sometimes, I'm not interested in any stories. Sometimes, I just want a girl that can suck a golf ball through a garden hose!
Sometimes a customer is appreciative of a down to earth girl, so I have to exaggerate how responsible of a person I am. Others want a trainwreck, so I have to exaggerate how much partying I do.
I think in either case, the customer would be disappointed with the truth.
What are you, some kind of stalker?
as to her birthday. she seems to be having a lot of birthdays.
SJG
san_jose_guy - commonly referred to as SJG this forum member is usually mocked or ignored, his comments should NOT be taken in any way as legitimate
In social media terms:
Facebook: I'm not all that interested in the facade she's putting up for her family and civilian friends
Instagram & Snapchat: By contrast, I'm very interested in seeing the sometimes-facade, sometimes-poor-judgement-real-life content of her instagram and snapchat
1) are her tits real? Fake aren't a deal breaker as long as they look and feel good but real is usually better.
2) what is she willing to do ITC? And what price?
3) does she do OTC? Always a plus, especially if ITC is limited.
4) does she do drugs? Anything more than marijuana is usually a deal breaker in most cases.
I'll want to know more if I have seen her a few times and think the business relationship has the potential to be a long term deal, but that rarely happens since I don't have any decent clubs within an hour of home anymore.
^Just her fake stage name. I don't really care about anything else, though building rapport has benefits.
larryfisherman posted: "where their boner gets instantly killed when ... she has a boyfriend ... [some] are mad when they feel strippers have led them on by not telling them they have boyfriends."
^Why? I met and dated some of my best girlfriends when they already had a boyfriend. ;) Look, in demand girls are often looking to trade up. And I consider myself one of the more moral guys around here when it comes to courtship, dating, marriage, SOs, relationships, cheating, being honest, women's rights, etc. ;)
larryfisherman posted: "or she talks about sad shit in her life. These customers don’t want to hear any of that. "
^You could just do the @rickdugan thing and just make the appropriate noises at the right time. Females like it when you listen to them, knowledge them, or reiterate a couple important points back to her at the end of the conversation. @skibum609 has championed this. It's part of the social conversion and it shows to women that you have non-creepy social skills. Most actually realize you don't really want to listen, and will *reward* you for it if you humor them.
^All learn-able at 15 y/o or later, unless you didn't successful date much. ;)