How would you have handled this?
JC2003
A dancer I used to lust over comes over, grabs my crotch, starts rubbing all over me and wants me to get dances from her. I say no thanks.
She tells me that I should be her new boyfriend. I look at her and ask her what does that mean?
She tells me that she has broken up with her old boyfriend -- news to me that she had one but no huge surprise, she's hot -- and she's free to do whatever she wants with whoever she wants now. Like she's implying that we're going to be having sex nonstop all the time. I'm not buying it, and I don't really want to be paying for it either.
She asks for my phone number. I think about this for a split second (no) and then spend some time pretending to think about this as if I might be mulling it over. Then I tell her no anyways.
She asks me, "Don't you want to be my boyfriend?" I tell her no, she asks me why, and I tell her, "I don't know you." All the while I'm looking her straight in the eye the entire conversation. She has a good poker face so I spend that time studying her makeup instead of trying to figure out what her facial expressions mean.
That apparently satisfies her curiosity on the subject. She then tells me about her new dog and makes cute barking noises. I laugh -- she's actually usually more fun to be around than the average "wanna dance?" dancer.
Maybe some of you are wondering why I am thinking turning down this hot stripper chick. Well, she's telling me about her new house. I tell her congratulations, noting in my head that in the recent past she has (a) told me that she owns a big house and two golf courses, (b) been kicked out of the club manager's apartment for being late on the rent, and (c) made thousands of dollars in the NYC Scores $1500 VIP rooms. Also, the gender of her dog goes from a "she" to a "he" in the span of the single breath it takes to describe it.
In other words, it's just stripper shit. I used to enjoy her dances but lost interest in her fast when she started lying to me about this, that, and the other thing. Besides, I'm not interested in OTC for pay or becoming someone's sugar daddy.
Question: would you have gone ahead and engaged in OTC or even a relationship with someone like this? Keep in mind that she's actually a really hot, very sexually aggressive stripper that you've really enjoyed dances from in the past.
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Some dancers tell me that some of the other dancers are doing drugs, getting drunk, etc. in the back. Not being experienced with drugs, it's difficult for me to recognize any subtle behavior patterns of people who partake. The obvious ones are easy to detect as otherwise unexplainable behavior. I have only recently become aware of some of the less obvious behavior patterns of drug use.
I suppose that's a decent topic for discussion: if you were aware that a stripper whose services you favor did drugs, how did that affect your opinion of them? Did it affect your decision to get dances from them?
I know that it definitely negatively affects my attitude towards a woman who isn't a dancer. Examples: I wouldn't want a woman (or any person, for that matter) that did drugs being a doctor or nurse, handling my money at a bank, or driving kids to school on a bus.
I wonder if a woman being a dancer diminishes my negativity towards her about her drug use, as if being a dancer somehow made it more plausible or more excusable for them to do drugs. A few dancers claim that using drugs or getting drunk helps them to loosen up and do their job better even.