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16 years ago
Check out zbone.com. Look through the Reader Reviews sections for some idea about the individual LA/OC clubs. You can also get some basic info from the Club Reviews section there, but it is usually horribly out of date.
I live in LA and club near the airport area. I can give you some info on those clubs if you like, but the airport may be too long of a ride for you from BH.
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16 years ago
I used to DATY all the time, and often had the favor returned. But afterwards, any time my tongue would tingle or I got a cold sore I'd freak out and kick myself for having done it. Also the thought of possibly bringing home some uninvited STD to my SO was a sobering thought (not to mention the thought of other people probably "dining" ahead of me - UGH.)
Nowadays my tongue stays in my mouth. Mostly.
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16 years ago
Sorry to say it, but just as Dudester has done some grand stereotyping there (just sayin'), so do many white women when it comes to judging black men. It's wrong to generalize about any group of people, but it happens all the time. I'm not saying that it is the sole reason for no OTC offers from white girls, but it might be part of it.
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16 years ago
clubber,
True. These 5 clubs range from a divey, hole-in-the-wall tittie bar to upscale "gentlepeople's" clubs. They are all clean, fairly well run, and each has a good selection of women. There are some areas here in LA where there are 5 or more clubs in a 2 mile radius, especially near the airport & downtown (and in the SFV, of course). I guess that may be typical of most large urban cities.
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16 years ago
There are 5 pretty decent clubs within a 10 minute drive for me, so I don't have to venture far. Besides......my "fav" is any hot girl that showed up that day!
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16 years ago
It's happened to me more than a few times if the girl does tribidism ("scissors") on me. She's gotta get good continuous contact going for it to be effective - sometimes to the point of bruising (ouch).
More likely to happen in the privacy of VIP vs. out on the open floor, where the floaters will be sure to stop it.
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16 years ago
I once had a favorite dancer surprise me with a "hello kitty" one. Surprised the hell outta me when she whipped it out in VIP! It was awesome, but the fact that the vibrator had the familiar "hello kitty" face on it was a bit disturbing.
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16 years ago
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motorheadFat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life
I am SOOO turned off by the whole pregnancy thing. I even pushed a girl off of me in VIP once when she told me she was preggers. She wasn't showing at all, so it was obviously very early in her pregnancy. Ew. Totally NOT for me.
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16 years ago
The highest I ever paid for a nude LD here in L.A. was $40, and only because I was really drunk and she was really hot. At least she seemed really hot when I was looking at her with my beer goggles on.
Most "high end" clubs here average $20 -$40 per nude dance. Topless dances run $20 - $30 typically.
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16 years ago
I equate going to clubs like going to the movies - I go see a movie for the pure entertainment value. I want to feel the emotions that the film intends to give me (laughter, horror, etc). I don't care how the film was made, or what the actors needed to do to "get into character". I want to sit back, shut the brain off (sort of), and have FUN.
Entertain me..... 3 minutes at a time.
That's all I ask.
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16 years ago
LD's are an absolute,complete, TOTAL waste of money, for sure.
God love 'em & keep 'em coming!!
Now if only I could figure out a way to claim them at taxtime, I'd be a happy girl.
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16 years ago
There is a 60+ dancer at one of my fave divey clubs. She's a very sweet gal who's held up remarkably well so far. She still has her share of regulars, so I guess she does OK money wise.
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16 years ago
Dirty talk is a risk for dancers, since they often have no idea if their customer is into that type of thing or not. To many people, it is a complete turn-off. I guess a few choice filthy words to start with will help the dancer determine if her prey is eating it up or not.
I enjoy dirty talk with most dancers, at least with the ones that know just what to say and how to say it.There is one notable exception - the ones that start talking about what they would like to do with a large strap-on are the ones that have me stopping the dance in midstream. Especially the ones giving me "crazy eyes" while they are telling me just how they intend to violate my person, and how much I will LOVE it. Apparently some dancers are really into toys.
Me....not so much.
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16 years ago
Ripple.
When that runs out I'm hittin' the MD 20/20.
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16 years ago
mmmmmm.....sailor moon!
I love any japanese anime girls in pigtails & little schoolgirl outfits. Thank goodness there are many anime characters to choose from.
Dang - I'm a dirty old broad!!!
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16 years ago
Roscoe's House of Chicken' n Waffles!!
nuff said.
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16 years ago
I used to smile when I saw another female customer in a SC. But way too many times they turned out to the type that wondergrl described - either jealous, snotty bitches or stupid drunk sorority girls looking for attention. Both types made the dancers miserable and the crowd uncomfortable.
Nowadays if I see another girl customer in a club I make it a point to sit on the other side of the room.
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16 years ago
It's unimaginable that this could be true.
Leave it to the fucked up republicans to try and turn back time to the 14th century. Whatta bunch of tools. Can't wait to wave "buh bye" to the whole ridiculous lot of them come November.
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16 years ago
Jessica Alba
Padma Lakshmi (from "Top Chef")
Lucy Lui
Gong Li (Hong Kong actress)
Selma Hayek
Eva Mendez
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16 years ago
Here in cali everything is falling down the crapper too. Housing foreclosures here are some of the worst in the nation. No jobs, tourism is suffering, and the damn film industry (big source of revenue)is always on some sort of strike or other. And add an earthquake to the mix! At least construction repairs will keep that industry busy for awhile.
I'm also watching my budget much more closely these days. I decided that if things got really bad, I would rather stay home from the clubs than go & sit there and not tip or get any dances. What would be the point? I'd be miserable & the girls would hate it. Let's hope it doesn't happen (knock wood).
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16 years ago
It's just small talk - a kind of greeting. I don't take stuff like that too seriously.
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16 years ago
Please don't abandon us just yet wondergrl. You are quite fun to have around. :)
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16 years ago
I have yet to have a dancer ASK me first before she stuck her hand in my pants & woman-handled my coochie.
And I ain't complaining.
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15 years ago
What kind of neighborhood is the club in? Is it catering to the local clientele? Many clubs are in seedy areas that can attract seedy characters.
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15 years ago
jablake-
The only "forcible rape" any woman might enjoy would be if it was part of rough sex play that was consensual between her & her partner.
Any other rape is an act of violence, not sex, and is not going to be enjoyable. That is a FACT that has nothing to do with feminism or government coverups.
As far as boobie fondling goes...if a woman is not already starting to be sexually aroused, any boobie touching is probably going to be just tolerated, at best. Excessive boobie fondling while not sexually aroused can get downright annoying. It's not surprising to think that most dancers start to shut down their sexual arousal during working hours due to the constant demand on them to act sexy for countless number of customers.