I don't get too many dirty talking dancers; thankfully. Probably the "worst" that I hear is that I've got a huge cock. So, I don't know if the dancers are just good at reading me or that for the most part dancers are communicatively prim and proper.
Or, may be the noise is too much, however, even in quiet clubs I didn't get much "dirty" talk-----probably the same as in loud clubs.
"Dirty" Talk by Dancers------Positive or Negative?
Lopaw, one thing you said hit it right on the head for me. It's in the how they say it. With some dancers it's the same old line of bull that gets spit out by most dancers and it sounds that way. Others have a way of saying, basically the same things but in a way that almost sounds sincere, these are the ones that have the ability to make the fantasy come alive.
As you, the ones, and I've only met a few over the years, that make the fantasy about violating me that are an instant turnoff.
"the ones that start talking about what they would like to do with a large strap-on are the ones that have me stopping the dance in midstream."
There was an adorable one (former or current dancer) on craigslist---who was offering intimate service FOR WOMEN ONLY. One of the negatives about the ad from my perspective was that she was into toys big time. It didn't seem like the other ads for women even mentioned them, but then the other service providers didn't catch my eyes the way she did so I probably wouldn't have paid much attention. I love the adorable girl next door look.
The sex talk for me is just too hardcore regardless of how the dancer says it. Now, there are super sexy voices . . . they seem so natural. :)
I believe it is more what they mean, than the words they use. I do not mind, and if done properly, it can be a real turn on.
What about the heavy breathers and moaners? Real? Some are too good at it. Others are obvious fakes.
I guess I just don't like noise unless it is conversation. And, the conversation preferably is clearly spoken. :)
' š½_ - - - - - ' š I love classic discussions! ' Yep, it is grey area of certain lines strippers will use. You just have to look at the degree, how she is talking, atmosphere, hustle factor, & client club conditions, if she is leading you for good pvt stuff, being hasty at you or just being wishy washy. If you have wonders, try for ice breaker swing lines and probe, i.e. ask her if she would be up for extras, try some simple stuff like seeing if she'll hug ya' or sit with ya' with arms around her, or like some flirting, check for phone number, negotiating discounts, talk about music & strip club stuff, or act like ya' wanna be left alone. A strippers reactions from customer probing closes wonders & goes a long way! Pick dancer's that's good for compatibility, lust, and sinn! ' š š š ' Strip Club Cheers '
Negative beyond belief and so fake its disgusting.
Positive. Btw, how big is your cock?
Dirty talk is a risk for dancers, since they often have no idea if their customer is into that type of thing or not. To many people, it is a complete turn-off. I guess a few choice filthy words to start with will help the dancer determine if her prey is eating it up or not.
I enjoy dirty talk with most dancers, at least with the ones that know just what to say and how to say it.There is one notable exception - the ones that start talking about what they would like to do with a large strap-on are the ones that have me stopping the dance in midstream. Especially the ones giving me "crazy eyes" while they are telling me just how they intend to violate my person, and how much I will LOVE it. Apparently some dancers are really into toys. Me....not so much.