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3 months ago
Back when I used to show up on a town and go to all the clubs (did that once this year but there were only three clubs) I'd carry a collared shirt and dressier pants in case I ran into a dress code. I haven't ever been turned away from a club for what I was wearing after I switched things up back at the car.
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3 months ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
"...but the reality is there are less girls and that fact alone equates to less quality."
+1 on this. Fewer girls to choose from does make it less likely the particular combination of looks, style, and vibe you're into will be in the club when you arrive. Some days I think I'd rather just pick up and try another town than go back to the same old clubs where I live.
discussion comment
3 months ago
I haven't gone to the Block in a long time, so maybe it really has fallen off a cliff. There was a place called Red Room that was the club I went to the most. My 2nd ATF worked at Lust for a while after getting fired from just about everywhere else for being an insane nympho so I had her there, too. Norma Jeans I went to sometimes because my friends liked it there (and the old El Dorado's).
Now I only went to Circus a couple of times, mostly because I wanted to try a legendary brunette who all the reviewers kept raving about. That's one of the first times I thought to myself that some locals don't know how good they have it because she was much better looking than what people said. But just as sweet. I very eagerly laid into her for every bit of the half hour in that horror movie basement lol.
discussion comment
3 months ago
What is Night Shift called now? A few months ago it was still going by that name (or so I was told by a dancer who worked there).
For the OP, unless you really just want to go to Baltimore, have you thought about dancing in NJ or Philly clubs? They're on the way to the Block from NYC if you're driving.
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3 months ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
"I wouldn't want dances from most of them even if they were free."
Let's not get crazy here. Is there any dude here who hasn't had a moment where they've thought "I don't really want to fuck her but I'd let her suck my dick"...?
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3 months ago
If I'm marooned I'd take the bigger one so she could fight off a tropical island bear...
Lol. I guess I'd take Lynda. It's just a coincidence that Wonder Woman can square up with a bear.
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3 months ago
"She was just sitting at the bar by herself not doing anything. Some dancers simply dislike you for some reason."
So do you remember how long she was sitting there? For the sake of conversation, here's things I've seen for "stripper at a bar doing nothing" but won't sit with you...
1. She's waiting to go on stage
2. She has a regular coming
3. She's only there because management is making her work an alt shift so she gets the shift she wants...and isn't happy about it
4. She's working an alt shift because "reasons" and isn't happy about it
5. She made her money and is mentally done for the shift
6. She has a customer is in the bathroom, vip, etc
7. She doesn't want to talk with you
It's a random list, but I put she doesn't want you at the bottom because that's what I tell myself if the girl I'm looking at gives me the Heisman. Couldn't possibly be rejecting me lol...
discussion comment
3 months ago
"I believe you, but those sound like some ghetto, criminal dancers."
A reasonable person might think that...which most TUSCLers are even if it can get a little prickly on the boards. There's a lot stories I don't put on here, but as we all know some dancers be cra cra...because the world is...and their life issues are stuff you read about in the news because somebody has to be those people. Strippers in many cities disproportionately are. But they're still people, and even when I have a little fun with their situations I try to keep that in mind. Now if only the crazies weren't so good in bed "mongering" would be a much simpler hobby.
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3 months ago
TL;DR - Lol. It's a titty bar message board. Stop taking your awkward online persona so seriously.
"If you find the post "silly and cringe" then why did you respond [...?]"
I replied because it takes almost no thought and energy to post on the Internet. You aren't the first person to take exception to something I wrote, but you are among the few to take things so personally. I decided to add a question mark there for you because you forgot it while furiously typing your reply.
"@Wallanon, sounds like since you are a coward you think everyone here on TUSCL is a coward...Are you sure you are a man, the more you talk the more of a simp you come off as."
I am an adult. wallanon is an account that I created so I could talk about strip clubs and a variety of other things when I get bored. It was also a way to ask others about clubs when I thought it would be helpful. These days I answer many more questions than I ask. I think most everyone would find it comical that someone who swiped money from a dancer's purse while she was out of the room then bravely got the hell out of the club (and never went back) would then turn around and call someone else a coward for highlighting their folly.
There've been plenty of people in the 20 years I've been reading and posting here that people decided they wanted to fight each other and talked about it round-and-round. Why would I want to fight you? I barely want to engage with you, but it's worth having people understand who brings value here and who doesn't. I'm not an Internet tough guy, but I'll spend the time occasionally to talk with one.
The toughest part of my day will be deciding which of the girls I've inadvertently double booked to see...this is just noise.
"do you thnk I have been mongering all these damn years because I dont know the risks of trouble, havent dealt with trouble making bastards who thought they were tough or because I am scared?"
What happens if the person causing trouble is you? But in either case, I don't think about you at all really. When I read your posts I simply think "that guy is still here"...The other day when you posted a question (that almost everyone ignored) and "Mr. Monger" responded it was like a meme because I couldn't remember which of you was which. But obviously you've cleared that up. I thought about helping you, but why would l help someone who acts like this? You may not be scared but you are easily triggered.
"That is typical talk of someone who was called out and has nothing else to say to the truth so you try and take the "moral high ground" crap n order to save face."
The truth is your posts do sound a little silly. Have you read them before you press "Add Comment"? But they are tedious and I'll remember this awkward exchange the next time I lol at something you've written.
It's one or the other. You're either some elite "monger" who mysteriously just showed up in 2024 and is off to a rough start on the boards, or you're someone playing a character who sometimes posts really basic questions while attempting to be accepted. I feel somewhat sorry for you because it's clear who you want to be perceived as, but words matter when they're all that you have available. Maybe you're just a really committed troll, or maybe you really are this way IRL.
It only matters because a lot of TUSCLers on the boards are getting up in age and now you sound a little unhinged. Up until now I thought you were just a little sad and socially challenged. Perhaps someone will be bothered to meet you in Tampa while you're there (since you jumped in the middle of someone else's thread to invite yourself to a meetup) and come on here and tell us all you're not that bad IRL. I would be somewhat surprised by that, but have been wrong before. Maybe that would be enough for you to stop trying so hard.
discussion comment
3 months ago
"You sound like a 100% SIMP siding with the thief dancer."
I didn't side with the dancer, but you kinda seem clueless in a lot of your posts so I didn't spare your feelings like Book Guy did. The next time shadowcat posts about a strip club drive by shooting around 2AM we'll be on the lookout to see if you post anymore. Even though I find your posts silly and cringe, it'd still be a shame for you to get hurt in an unfair fight.
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3 months ago
But in all seriousness to the OP, if you're around Tampa you've got TUSCLers active on the boards near you. funontheside already mentioned reading the reviews and reaching out. Your account is still a little new, but at least you've written reviews and seem like a decent enough dude.
discussion comment
3 months ago
"We all meet with a few like minded people in the clubs but I had never asked if they are in TUSCL or not."
Do yourself a favor and don't lol. At best they will be and cringe on the inside as they lie to you. At worst they'll think "tussle" is some gay dating site and try to fight you for hitting on them.
Dancers used to be a lot more aware of online reviews, but now there's so much garbage online and they can easily counter program via IG and OF that bad reviews just kinda roll of their back. If they're hot at least.
review comment
3 months ago
This review does read like hot garbage lol. The diehard review raters must've taken the day off.
discussion comment
3 months ago
"I never went back into that club, not because her or the incident it was because the club wasnt that good. I couldnt give less of a shit if I ran into her again or not."
It takes a while to figure out what exactly this was about because it's buried in the middle of a bunch of posts by this guy on the thread. He stole a bunch of money (hundreds of dollars) out of a dancer's purse because we was upset about picking the wrong girl to take to VIP. Then he ran out of the club before the dancer realized what happened. There are dancers I can think of who would literally try to have a guy killed over something like that. Guy's who would just take the "L" aren't simps, they're guys who can afford the hobby and don't lose their minds over risking a few bucks.
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3 months ago
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mogul1985I have 3 lives: Work, Dog Shows and Strip Clubs
"^ Political Discourse wasn't made available when I posted even as a Dropdown - I would have gladly used it."
You can browse to the "Political Discourse" forum then click on the "Start a Discussion" link.
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3 months ago
"I'm single with no kids and not Jewish "
No offense to you, but your posting volume is pretty high these days but you're still just a bundle of words. Most of us aren't tracking your personal details and 30 seconds from now I'll maybe remember you don't have kids. Once I couldn't sort out what was background and what was quote in the OP on a second glance I'm not going to take the time to sort it out. This is a titty bar message board not an amateur debate club.
discussion comment
3 months ago
The other day I went to a couple of smaller clubs in a smaller town, and it wasn't that bad. But I've definitely been in clubs where I needed to get past the "stranger danger" vibe.
discussion comment
3 months ago
"The boyfriend turned around and threatened me, so I threw a haymaker and we started scrapping. Lights come on, security drags us out, and it's this little fucker. I laughed my ass off. Whenever I went back to that club, he would look away and avoid me. I wasn't going to take his job by outing his secret as a powerless dwarf."
So did he become a powerless dwarf before or after he took your best cheap shot and was still able to fight you? Or did you swing and miss? If you were behind him, doesn't that give the high ground and better odds at striking your midgety foe? I'm not doubting your combat prowess...just trying to sort out the retelling.
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3 months ago
This would've been more effective if you'd made it clear when the quotes were starting and who saying what. The PMs were a little more clear but quotation marks are a thing.
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3 months ago
"I wonder how many people are at some of these sc's just on account of there just ain't jack shit else to do"
That probably includes a lot of the out of towners who aren't looking for local landmarks when they can see hot chicks instead.
discussion comment
3 months ago
Try here: https://www.reddit.com/r/stripclubs/
The Desire@TUSCL crew will be along shortly to ridicule you...
article comment
3 months ago
Would you message yourself is #10 because you're trying to drive an artificial market? I almost never talk with a dancer about what I spend on other girls, so other than showing comps I'm not seeing why you'd do that.
discussion comment
3 months ago
I've never seen uniformed police at Showcase before and people I know who go there haven't mentioned it. Maybe something happened over there.
discussion comment
3 months ago
"Some of the things may be distasteful to the girls, in which case, their failure to do it may be a considered trade-off. She may actually have thought, "I do want the money but I'm not going to do THAT particular thing for it."..."
Just to speed things along a bit, then you have the girls who will do THAT particular thing for money but not with the guy in front of her asking. There's countless combinations of factors a girl can use to decide not to do xyz. If we're going to draw a circle then might as well connect the ends lol.
Now for the OP list, this is an interesting thing. I don't have a problem with the list but don't care if dancers walk all over it in their heels. Being on time helps. My 4th ATF was terrible at that but I could tell she was trying. She's semi-fired again even if she's objectively better in action than ATF5. Once I accepted most of the responsibility for what happens and 100% for the outcome the hobby got a lot simpler.
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3 months ago
I don't think it's an age thing it's an interest thing. I'm going on the road soon to a place with decent clubs and I'm debating whether or not I'll pass through any. It'll be the first trip I've taken in years where clubs are around and I don't go.