Is This What Happens When You Get Old?
BabyDoc
Feo, Fuerte y Formal
Sunday, August 25, 2024 5:58 PM
So I’ve been at this for well over forty years and I’d say I reached the professional level very early on. I’ve known hundreds and hundreds of girls over the years and while never have I gone out looking for sex I have to admit that it has found me an embarrassing number of times. Fortunately for me I learned the game early on and those times that I did get schooled were mostly painless and often amusing. I attribute much of this to having never (or almost never) lowered my standards or compromised.
I say all that, not to boast but to give context to my current situation.
She is everything that I know to avoid. Former dancer, now waitress in a club. Past her prime having entered her thirties or what some call a leftover. Single mom of a year-old baby boy, as well as two more all by different absentee fathers. One large tattoo on her leg which of course screams red flag. The sex isn’t even that great, just kind of fair to midland. And forever broke as a depression era hobo.
But WTF kind of spell has she cast over me? How did she become my GF? Every time I think I’m out, she drags me back in.
Somebody please throw me a lifeline. LOLOLOLOL
I say all that, not to boast but to give context to my current situation.
She is everything that I know to avoid. Former dancer, now waitress in a club. Past her prime having entered her thirties or what some call a leftover. Single mom of a year-old baby boy, as well as two more all by different absentee fathers. One large tattoo on her leg which of course screams red flag. The sex isn’t even that great, just kind of fair to midland. And forever broke as a depression era hobo.
But WTF kind of spell has she cast over me? How did she become my GF? Every time I think I’m out, she drags me back in.
Somebody please throw me a lifeline. LOLOLOLOL
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Hang on and enjoy the ride.
A vampiress who will drain your time, energy, and especially your wallet.
Come to think of that, a lot of civvies do that too.
Yes, yes they do. Women, you can't live with them, something, something, blah blah blah.
So I guess it doesn’t seem too surprising when these same murky operators in your brain compel you to love a woman that is obviously the wrong choice.
Live, laugh, love (whores) !
Now hold on there. That was totally uncalled for. lolololol
I'm telling the story out of context so it sounds even more ridiculous than it already is...but the hobby has a way of normalizing the utter ridiculousness of it all.
I will play along and comment on your discussion and answer your questions.
Q: Is This What Happens When You Get Old?
A: No, not necessarily age it just life.
Q: WTF kind of spell has she cast over me?
A: She provides you with something, a small part of your relationship, that gives you some “joy” in the middle of a relationship with a lot of behaviors that are mostly bad.
But because you are chasing that small part you get the whole package.
Q: How did she become my GF? Every time I think I’m out, she drags me back in.
A: I would say that she became your GF because something about her is ”familiar” to you in your life experience.
It’s because of that familiarity, m n and women tend to choose from the environment that which is familiar more than that which is good, but unfamiliar
If you really want to get out you have to find another GF that is not as “familiar” in your unconscious and conscious mind, but a better choice for your own body and mind.
Remember the proverb "one nail drives out another" means that a new idea, belief, or interest tends to replace an older one.
A new (hopefully better for you) GF will displace or supersede your current GF that now holds your attention or devotion.
The idea is that your mind and attention span is limited, and as new GF relationships come into play, they push aside or override the old GF
The proverb conveys the idea that, hopefully in your case, the new and novel tend to push out the old and familiar over time.
Let’s be careful out there.
And remember:
Pics and Vids or it didn’t happen.
:D
Being a smart-ass, I asked her “How did that happen?” Her straight up deadpan reply “I like to fuck.”
We fucked on two more occasions when I threw in the towel after she kept pushing for me to meet her children. To her and my credit the sex was some of the best I’ve had. Practice makes perfect.
Eventually it was just too much of a pain in the ass to keep meeting and we drifted apart.
All good things come to an end, and it’s probably up to you to end this one.
I myself enjoy a good milf stripper in her 30s/40s. One asked if I could take her and her kid to a water park. Another told me she wanted to go out on a date after giving me a bj in vip. I definitely just keep it to the extras though. Dating one sounds like a headache! Good luck...
How long has this relationship been going on? I’ll be interested to hear how this end up. You might be the one to beat the odds and actually have a decent, meaningful relationship, and I really hope you do. But more likely you’ll get sucked into a world of drama and bad choices that you’ll need to extract yourself from. Keep us all posted.