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15 years ago
Climate change is natural and ever-present. It is NO crisis.
Those trying to make the weather a crisis are actually seeking to gain more control over more fiscal resources.
Consider the Tokyo Protocols. Why do you suppose the worst polluters on the planet (by FAR) were explicitly exempted? It's certainly not because China and Japan are such buds. Rather, China was already socialist, and therefore not a target of the climate-crisis movement.
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15 years ago
Wendy Torres looks nice...
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15 years ago
Once, a dancer "squirted" on me when she achieved orgasm during an anything-goes "dance." I was wearing athletic shorts, and they were soaked after she let loose! That was my only experience that involved female ejaculation to the point of squirting, and it was unforgettable.
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15 years ago
Welcome, SirenOfTitan! Your opinion seems straightforward and accurate, BTW...
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15 years ago
Yes, gatorfan THAT would be WAY extra! Perhaps too much, in my estimation. Given my fondness for intimate kisses, I'd prefer dancers not rim me or anyone else. ;)
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15 years ago
If a dancer wears a wedding ring, I don't ask if she's married. Either she is, or she wants customers to think she is. She is saying she's not available, so don't incorporate such thoughts into your fantasy...
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15 years ago
Dougster, my logic may be as flawed as you noted. However, I also reject the analogy you present between making out and getting a BJ.
How about this: A penis penetrating any orifice on anyone else is a sexual act.
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15 years ago
Assuming she's attractive, and I actually would want to spend time with her:
Agree to go with her, but suggest a neutral site (e.g. hotel). I drive, agreeing to return her to her club later.
In this way, the possibility of the second-party setup is eliminated, and I can learn if her motive was sex, or something else.
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15 years ago
Is a BJ not also commonly called "Oral Sex?" Yes.
Here's how you can test whether those 63% of college girls actually believe a BJ is not sex: For any of them who has an exclusive boyfriend, ask her if it is acceptable for him to get a BJ from any other woman.
Sex includes many activities besides actual intercourse. And none of those activities would be tolerated by a significant-other or spouse, if done outside the relationship.
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15 years ago
My definition of extras is straightforward: any sexual activity beyond the lapdance grind itself. These include HJ, BJ, FS, and maybe some other freaky stuff I don't know about...
As for me, only one extra is of interest: FS.
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15 years ago
You sound satisfied, someyoung...Congrats to you.
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15 years ago
arbeeguy, I agree that a requirement for pantyhose would be a deal-breaker. That would prohibit the access I would desire...
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15 years ago
Judy, You seem to have a good thing going. Congratulations, and enjoy yourself. If I were in your area, I'd seek some time in your club...
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15 years ago
lopaw wins, for the funniest and most clever reply! That was a good one...
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15 years ago
A few encounters repeatedly re-enter my thoughts.
Here's one:
A lovely Latina I had known for over a year--and whom I had gotten closer to than any dancer I'd known to that time--invited me to her club's "VIP" area. We had never gone there before. She started dancing for me, and after a few minutes she took me out of my shorts, moved her thong to one side, and slipped me inside her. She rode me until I filled her up. After we both recovered for a few moments, she apologetically said she would need to charge me for the number of songs we'd been "dancing." That was a special and unusual encounter, and it was with a woman for whom I had genuine affection. (Yes, the "rest of the story" includes the establishment of a dating relationship OTC.)
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15 years ago
I prefer extras, but I don't like to plan them out. It is best when those things just happen. She enjoys herself, and I enjoy myself, and she is also rewarded monetarily as a matter of course, given the circumstances. But "intimacy" is the goal, and that can happen with either LD or extras, but not so much with too much pre-planning.
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15 years ago
I'm a techno-geek, but I'd prefer the SC experience to stay very low-tech. I want encounters to feel spontaneous and full of unknown possibilities.
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15 years ago
Book Guy, your last observation, "we pay for service but want to do the servicing" is a very good one, and not quite weird at all. I gain pleasure from knowing I am pleasing a woman.
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15 years ago
One song that came to mind reading this thread--and it ties in with current Michael Jackson mania--"Liberian Girl."
This song was playing during a visit to some club in a town I cannot recall. But I remember fondly the gorgeous dancer who made that song one to summon a pleasant reminiscence... Wow! She was smokin'-hawt!
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15 years ago
My experience is that there is not set time limit, things just happen. But songs = $ by definition in a lapdance area, so if I take awhile, I am naturally not opposed to rewarding accordingly.
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15 years ago
"You Know that I'm No Good," by Amy Winehouse. A dancer at a club near El Paso sang that for me once, when I was the only customer at the club. This lady sang the song better than the bee-hive-hairdo'd Brit herself. It was simply amazing!
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15 years ago
Clubber observed, "Many here think that strip club economics are not the same as the rest of the world."
Many here do not understand economics in "the rest of the world" to begin with...
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15 years ago
Don't care much about stockings. But they don't bother me, either.
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15 years ago
All the time. Most dancers tell me kissing is the one thing they won't typically do, so that's something we do. Kissing is very intimate, and I enjoy it.
I am selective, but not afraid of making out with the dancers I do it with.
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15 years ago
I suppose I've never been to an official "Champagne Room." I've certainly never been required to have a credit card for any VIP area I've been in.