discussion comment
2 years ago
Strip clubs as a business model will never fail so long as there are (1) PLs and (2) lack of pussy available to said PLs. A few years back the hot topic was whether digital sex work would over take strip clubs. We've since come to witness that the market is defined by PLs with the disposable income as well as women who come into the industry for a few years out of happenstance.
Unless something is done to address these two factors, this business model will last in perpetuity.
I lived in the bible belt for a few years in the past decade and even there (in a community that espouses traditional conservative Christian values) itc extras were all available to outsiders like me.
I think things like liquor laws, change in LLC owners and local economies failing are more likely to lead to strip clubs closing in podunk cities.
discussion comment
2 years ago
If you ldk'ed without having first discussed or negotiated prices, then tip her (~$50 is normal where I'm at). Of course it's going to be seen as rude if you're not going to tip after she makes you cum
discussion comment
2 years ago
It's not in my area, since soliciting prostitutes carries potential for multiple year incarceration. You can try to reverse image search the posted photos and see how many times it's been used and posted for similar escort ads. That should clue you in as to whether the poster is a scam. You can also do the same with the posted phone numbers.
The legit ones should be advertising their only fans or other means of social media. Never went thru with escort dates due to (1) the fear of it's consequences and (2) the ease of access to itc ldks and extras in my locations.
discussion comment
2 years ago
I'm currently in the midst of such a "fast".
Last year I was splurging somewhere between 2k-4k a month for 8 months during a manic phase. Thus far this year I'm down to one visit a month to the club of choice, limiting myself to just 800 or less each time.
It was difficult to find pleasure in just normal masturbation after having become addicted to assjobs/ldks. My motivation to cut back clubbing was both fiscal and psychological.
Plus it's just nice to find the new hot bodies working the clubs when you visit infrequently. I've found that negotiating cost of ldks is a far better value with new dancers as well.
Can't comment on OTC, have yet to find the courage to do it.
discussion comment
2 years ago
Luck IME. All the clubs I frequent now have ethnically Hispanic women from various south American cultures. If I'm getting high mileage dances without prior negotiations it's because I'm her first customer of the shift that wasn't (1) creepy (2) unhygienic (3) black listed.
discussion comment
2 years ago
^ fair. Good to know my shitty experience wasn't unique to me.
discussion comment
2 years ago
I'm ways happy to travel to a club I've previously been to or one that's featuring a pornstar. Otherwise not losing time, cost of flight and hotels for word of mouth reports.
discussion comment
2 years ago
Was in Nashville for a few years this past decade. Seem to recall the grand majority of dancers being white there.
Being a non white in the city pretty much excluded me from OTC but ymmv.
discussion comment
2 years ago
I can answer this.
You'll want to wear one of those "pouch" underwears; it will look like a boxer brief but with extra space for the penis and balls to have its own compartment.
You'll also NEED to wear comfortable sweat pants, that can be slipped down to (and up from) the hips swiftly. It'd be best if the sweats have pockets that zip up.
You'll want to leave home by wearing a ribbed condom, that's been inverted and filled with a little bit of a thick lube of your choice. After pouring the desired amount of lube into the condom, pinch the tip and press the lube towards the opening. Insert.
Lastly and most importantly, to keep the lubed condom from slipping off, you'll want to wrap a grocery store quality hair tie in the following manner; (1) around the base of the shaft, over the opening of the condom and (2) secure the remaining extra length of the hair tie around your balls. Wrapping it up like this will prevent the condom from slipping off after assjobs.
You'll probably want to have a spare condom in the wallet so you can do a second assjob before leaving the club.
Once you arrive:
Find the dancers of choice. I've been doing this for 2 decades now, and have found BBL enhanced dancers and "slim thick" dancers to be the most apt for assjobs/ ldks.
Negotiate the dances and tips. Give clear instructions that your expectation is that they'll grind their ass against your cock once you've slid your waistband down to your hips. IME, seasoned dancers appreciate the forthcoming honesty and the ones who are willing to perform always appreciate the consideration for cleanliness.
Go to the most secluded vip or private area afterwards, pull the sweats down to your hips (not so far down that you can't discreetly pull them back up after your dancer stands up from your lap without making too much noise or effort) and hold them there.
The pouch underwear is the only thing saving you from an embarrassing stain so be sure to tuck yourself away into the pouch before you go to the bathroom.
Ask whatever questions you have, I'll check in a few hours and reply to as many as I can.
review comment
2 years ago
Sounds like divas with $5 dances. Chicas has always been $10 outside of VIP.
discussion comment
2 years ago
Try red rose Friday day shift, look for poison ivy or jenny.
discussion comment
2 years ago
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ConundrumHeaven! (Why is it so hot in here? And why does the bouncer have a trident?)
If you are looking for a wife, look to your churches and find a woman who's already married.
discussion comment
2 years ago
One solid color whatever that color maybe. Multicolored hair is a sure sign of some kind of mental illness.
discussion comment
2 years ago
Nothing PLy about getting what you want how you want it. It'd be PL if there werent any hot bodies there and you stuck around waiting for one to show up.
On the other hand, test driving one or two for future ldk potential, then finishing with a ldk from a trusted provider sounds like an excellent way to start the day 👌
discussion comment
2 years ago
Been to dejavu at Nashville a few times back in the day. Place was lame for anything other than air dances.
If it were zebras in Nashville, I'd definitely go.
discussion comment
2 years ago
The last time I was in SA was back around 2012, so this info is likely outdated.
You'll want to make a stop at Tiffany's cabaret, day shift would be preferable so you can avoid the night crowd local to wurzbach. Hard to argue with 5 dollar dances when you're looking to ldk.
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2 years ago
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TiburonEvery woman's local ATM while in da club? How else they paying for their Boob jobs?
Moneyman1234.
Had been working my ass off for a decade, then in 2022 I got a torn Achilles, reinjured it in the midst of recovery, got fired, and had a small manic episode. Did therapy for a bit and found indulging in hounding to be more therapeutic and so kept it going.
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2 years ago
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MaxMaximaSeeking spinners without inhibitions
Tiffany's cabaret (San Antonio) in 2011. Spent all of $100 getting 5$ dances from a newbie, single-mom, Hispanic, with a fat non-bbl ass. Had multiple ldks with her.
Stealthed single ldks at other locations during their 5$ dances but never got the chance for repeat ldks with the same dancer since.
discussion comment
2 years ago
Lmao, obvs no.
Is it cheaper to spend a few years in jail with no income, or to lose a few $ during the course of doing your own research whilst using anecdotal reports from a certain site?
discussion comment
2 years ago
25 is too young.
Not sure about an upper limit on age; would be more off put by poor hygiene, poor health, obvious mental health issues.
Don't know how universal these values may be, but I'd bet it's more common amongst the older mongers/ mongers with larger free incomes.
discussion comment
2 years ago
I prefer to get an assjob with my cock out of my pants until I nut. It's not something most dancers are okay performing without negotiating on pricing. I don't mind spending up to $ on assjobs ldks.
I used to stealth ldks as a broke college student, but I don't see the need to do so nowadays.
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2 years ago
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TiburonEvery woman's local ATM while in da club? How else they paying for their Boob jobs?
Yes and I spent something to the effect of 20-30k in 2022 doing dayshift clubbing twice a week for 8 months or so.
It was definitely therapeutic to say the least.
And I won't be doing that again for another decade.
review comment
2 years ago
There was a bomb pawg working here as a waitress for a few months that was apparently offering otc. Never got my foot in the door with that one though.
Had a few dayshift waitresses provide lap dances, well worth it imo.
review comment
2 years ago
Normal vip is a fenced off section of the main club, anyone can look into it. The celebrity vip is a walled off room with multiple couches, that only club staff and other celebrity vip can enter. There are cabinas available within the main club for 180$ for the length of stay; these are raised private areas, covered in see thru cloth that obfuscates visibility from a distance, that can accommodate 3-4 dancers and the same number of patrons. Never been in one of these.
Private dances are usually high mileage. Most dancers are willing to do at least a little over the clothes action to test the waters.
Dances are 10$ per song M-Th days and night as well as day shift of the weekend, 20$ per song for nightshift of the weekend, and $5 all day on wednesdays. Many dancers will try to negotiate a 20$ per song rate.
Extras are negotiable from most dancers, night shift more so than days, ymmv. Itc covered services shouldn't run more than $ to $$, and as always the dancers will try to upcharge on everything.
Stage shows maybe useful to find a new dancer you fancy but otherwise is a waste of time. Stage dances start in underwear on song 1 and are nude from song 2 onwards.
discussion comment
2 years ago
Haven't had to in ages. If I'm getting dances it's either to test the dancers willingness to perform ldk, or it's after having negotiated her fee for performing a ldk.
The only time I'd consider tipping is I ldk'ed during the trial dances without having first negotiated.