I’ve been debating on getting an escort via a web search, is this safe or worth it? Are their confirmed secure websites people can recommend? Can you share experiences?
Go to the Erotic Review (theeroticreview.com) It's a great site, they have escort reviews where you can specify just what type of girl you want and the services you're looking for. A girl there will typically have dozens of reviews, so you can get a good idea of what the girl is like before you commit. It's a much better way to go than just doing a web search, no real way to know what you're getting into with that. Although the basic site is free, you need to join the pay site to get the real info. Is it perfect? No, there will be times that a highly recommended girl will be a dud, but your odds are a lot better than any other method I can think of. I've met some great girls through there.
I'll caveat this by stating that I haven't gotten an escort in years. The good ones very often want a lot of personal information to make sure you're not a cop. That always bugged me and it still does.
TER (linked above) is a good place to start. If someone interests you, then enter her "work" phone number into Google. If the same number links to escort profiles that have varying images that aren't the same woman, then it's usually wise to look elsewhere. Honestly, it's easier (at least around here) to just ask a dancer for OTC. No shared personal info, not as mechanical usually, and no threat of a bait and switch.
I will play along with comment on your discussion.
Q: Looking up escorts worth it?
A: Like anything in life, it could and couldn’t be worth it.
If it is worth it to you to star participating on the pay-for-sex adult business as a “hobby”, because you can benefit from the experience, it might be worth it for you, however it has to be within your budget for entertainment/hobby, and it is important to have realistic expectations.
Q: is this safe or worth it?
A: Again like anything in life it can be safe and worth it.
if it is an agency they will send whoever is available/working, because typically horny men will not send them back the majority of the time. You can reject the girl and they might try send you another or the girl will try to convince you of accepting her.
If it is an independent, with no pimp, she might have older pics of pics of girls she think look like her. Same deal you can reject her for false advertisement, and she will try to convince/coerce you into taking her.
The best thing to do is to specifically tell the person doing the booking, agency/assistant/pimp on the phone/text that you don’t want to waste anyone’s time and if the girl is not the girl in the picture you will not go through with the deal.
Remember the hobby is like a poker game in the gambler’s song
“If you're gonna play the game, boy You gotta learn to play it right
You've got to know when to hold 'em Know when to fold 'em Know when to walk away And know when to run”
Q: Are their confirmed secure websites people can recommend?
A: Nothing in the Internet is “secure” or “private”, everything you are searching, typing, posting, emailing, texting can and will be used against you.
I tell my kids and my students, is like someone is looking over your shoulder and is recording you all the time you are there “surfing” the web.
Some of the reasonable, “reliable” websites that have some good independent escort are Tryst and Slixa, and Preferred411 is a screening and verification service used by providers and hobbyists.
Q: Can you share experiences?
A: Yes, My ATF woman, a real 10, Russian blonde, blue eyed absolutely beautiful, nice, sweet and sexy, was an ultra high end independent escort in Beverly Hills
There should be no regrets about living a good life.
Remember that you usually get what you pay for.
“Good service is not cheap and Cheap service is not good.”
“In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.”
~ Cuban refugee Tony Montana (Al Pacino) in the movie Scarface.
“There should be no regrets about living a good life.”
It really depends on what you're looking for in your sex worker. If you just want a no fuss nut or two, a reliable, well reviewed escort will certainly fill the bill. A good massage providers will give you a more "pampered" experience, even though it might be less common to get a full sex experience. A dancer who will do ITC or OTC is my own personal choice for reasons I and others have stated repeatedly over the years. The Seeking Arrangement site might provide yet another type of experience, more of a girlfriend thing.
Note that depending on your region, TER might or might not be the best option. For instance, in my area, USA Sex Guide is far more reliable than TER, simply because the escorts seem to have the ability to remove reviews they don't like, and far outstrips the reviews on escortbabylon, which are few and also disappear on occasion. On the other hand, I've searched some other areas on USASG where reviews in *any* category are *years* old.
You just have to look around and see what's going on with each service.
To continue the theme: Especially as you appear to be new to this, stick STRICTLY to well reviewed escorts. Don't get tempted by the hot pics of an unreviewed or barely-reviewed escort. Multiple good reviews. On the some of the review sites, you can click on the reviewer name to see if they've reviewed others, also something worth doing to 1. make sure it's not a lot of one-and-done reviews, 2. see if there are any reviewers whose taste you share
It's not in my area, since soliciting prostitutes carries potential for multiple year incarceration. You can try to reverse image search the posted photos and see how many times it's been used and posted for similar escort ads. That should clue you in as to whether the poster is a scam. You can also do the same with the posted phone numbers.
The legit ones should be advertising their only fans or other means of social media. Never went thru with escort dates due to (1) the fear of it's consequences and (2) the ease of access to itc ldks and extras in my locations.
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Is it perfect? No, there will be times that a highly recommended girl will be a dud, but your odds are a lot better than any other method I can think of. I've met some great girls through there.
TER (linked above) is a good place to start. If someone interests you, then enter her "work" phone number into Google. If the same number links to escort profiles that have varying images that aren't the same woman, then it's usually wise to look elsewhere. Honestly, it's easier (at least around here) to just ask a dancer for OTC. No shared personal info, not as mechanical usually, and no threat of a bait and switch.
I will play along with comment on your discussion.
Q: Looking up escorts worth it?
A: Like anything in life, it could and couldn’t be worth it.
If it is worth it to you to star participating on the pay-for-sex adult business as a “hobby”, because you can benefit from the experience, it might be worth it for you, however it has to be within your budget for entertainment/hobby, and it is important to have realistic expectations.
Q: is this safe or worth it?
A: Again like anything in life it can be safe and worth it.
if it is an agency they will send whoever is available/working, because typically horny men will not send them back the majority of the time. You can reject the girl and they might try send you another or the girl will try to convince you of accepting her.
If it is an independent, with no pimp, she might have older pics of pics of girls she think look like her. Same deal you can reject her for false advertisement, and she will try to convince/coerce you into taking her.
The best thing to do is to specifically tell the person doing the booking, agency/assistant/pimp on the phone/text that you don’t want to waste anyone’s time and if the girl is not the girl in the picture you will not go through with the deal.
Remember the hobby is like a poker game in the gambler’s song
“If you're gonna play the game, boy
You gotta learn to play it right
You've got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
And know when to run”
Q: Are their confirmed secure websites people can recommend?
A: Nothing in the Internet is “secure” or “private”, everything you are searching, typing, posting, emailing, texting can and will be used against you.
I tell my kids and my students, is like someone is looking over your shoulder and is recording you all the time you are there “surfing” the web.
Some of the reasonable, “reliable” websites that have some good independent escort are Tryst and Slixa, and Preferred411 is a screening and verification service used by providers and hobbyists.
Q: Can you share experiences?
A: Yes, My ATF woman, a real 10, Russian blonde, blue eyed absolutely beautiful, nice, sweet and sexy, was an ultra high end independent escort in Beverly Hills
I wrote an article about that experience:
“How I found my All Time Favorite woman.”
https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=50809
There should be no regrets about living a good life.
Remember that you usually get what you pay for.
“Good service is not cheap and
Cheap service is not good.”
“In this country, you gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the power. Then when you get the power, then you get the women.”
~ Cuban refugee Tony Montana (Al Pacino) in the movie Scarface.
“There should be no regrets about living a good life.”
Note that depending on your region, TER might or might not be the best option. For instance, in my area, USA Sex Guide is far more reliable than TER, simply because the escorts seem to have the ability to remove reviews they don't like, and far outstrips the reviews on escortbabylon, which are few and also disappear on occasion. On the other hand, I've searched some other areas on USASG where reviews in *any* category are *years* old.
You just have to look around and see what's going on with each service.
The legit ones should be advertising their only fans or other means of social media. Never went thru with escort dates due to (1) the fear of it's consequences and (2) the ease of access to itc ldks and extras in my locations.