Tipping after lapdances
Is this required or as customary as tipping a server? One dancer refused to perform the dance unless I first gave her an extra $40.Another performed the dance but afterwards kept coming after me for the tip saying 20% is required, that I have to tip for dances etc.
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That said, if the dancer gives you a good dance, and/or does the things you want, not tipping is a douche move.
With a lapdance you’re directly paying for the service upfront. Same with a massage or haircut. I dont know if barbers are paid small wages and reliant on tips like servers are.
Of course paying extra for extra services is a different scenario.
I was actually able to get management to refund me with that first scenario. Dancer straight up spent 7 minutes arguing over why I don’t want to pay extra money, for a dance I already paid for. M
Tipping is said to be optional even when dining out but IMO tipping for a dance is more optional than tipping a server. If you had to pay a server $1 or $2 per minute of time spent with you, you wouldn’t really need to tip. It would be more like a bonus than a tip.
I usually only do a room with a known dancer but the house cut in VIP rooms can be substantial I know so I always covered the fee - and the dancers showed their appreciation
Maybe it's just me, somehow I think not.
BigThirdEye is just cacaplop trying to swamp these forums with repetitive, stupid questions, either via his own threads or crashing other threads.
But, as always, take a look at his posting history and judge for yourself.
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The only time I'd consider tipping is I ldk'ed during the trial dances without having first negotiated.
Based on the OP’s history of posting - it is idiotic to think this person has set foot in a strip club.
If a good dance was provided, then I always give a tip. It’s common sense.
Cash, lapdances aren’t like tipping a waiter. You’re free to tip, you can even give money out to struggling dancers for free, no need to wait for a tip.
Dancers and escorts are already paid for the service. You can tip, but it’s really a gift not a tip. And if you’re paying extra for some additional services beyond a dance that’s not a tip.
I used to stealth ldks as a broke college student, but I don't see the need to do so nowadays.