Tipping after lapdances

24 comments

• georgmicrodong

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  2 years ago

  Tipping is optional, always. Of course, if it's actually a fee for services rendered in VIP or other private dance *disguised* as a tip, that's different, but for a lapdance, it's optional. That said, if the dancer gives you a good dance, and/or does the things you want, not tipping is a douche move.
• Call.Me.Ishmael

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  2 years ago

  Oh, look who found his login credentials...
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  With a server, they get paid a small hourly fee, sometimes as low as $2 an hour. You pay for the food upfront, then tip the server depending on level of service. With a lapdance you’re directly paying for the service upfront. Same with a massage or haircut. I dont know if barbers are paid small wages and reliant on tips like servers are. Of course paying extra for extra services is a different scenario. I was actually able to get management to refund me with that first scenario. Dancer straight up spent 7 minutes arguing over why I don’t want to pay extra money, for a dance I already paid for. M Tipping is said to be optional even when dining out but IMO tipping for a dance is more optional than tipping a server. If you had to pay a server $1 or $2 per minute of time spent with you, you wouldn’t really need to tip. It would be more like a bonus than a tip.
• Icee Loco (asshole)

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  2 years ago

  Why don't you disappear again? Do you know how much better it was without your posts?
• conan_mac_morna

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  2 years ago

  *shrug* I tip my regulars because 1) I don't like the bar taking a cut on top of the house fee and b) I feel sorry for anyone who has to deal with my revolting self, especially when they go to the trouble of pretending I'm not.
• Sukki

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  2 years ago

  It's usually just a polite thing to do, but some clubs take as much as 50% out of each room so tipping is sometimes all we get which is dumb imo but ya know
• BubbleYum

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  2 years ago

  Seconding what Daddy Pimp Icee said. Disrespectfully, fuck back off into your mother's vagina, BTE. K, bai.
• londonguy

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  2 years ago

  I only tip if there is something exceptional about the dance and/or I receive hands-on service.
• motorhead

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  2 years ago

  I agree with Sukki I usually only do a room with a known dancer but the house cut in VIP rooms can be substantial I know so I always covered the fee - and the dancers showed their appreciation
• elmer

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  2 years ago

  What the FUCK are you people that desperate to post that you will engage with this dipshit? Of his 600 questions not one has a point or realistic. He's just throwing chum in the water to see who bites
• twentyfive

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  2 years ago

  ^ You mean that doesn't apply to numerous posters here, that's the only one ?
• elmer

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  2 years ago

  ^ most annoying one anyway
• twentyfive

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  2 years ago

  ^ There are others that are much more annoying ! Maybe it's just me, somehow I think not.
• conan_mac_morna

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  2 years ago

  Yeah, BTE's questions and threads come off a lot like r/ExplainLikeImFive, but he's basically harmless.
• CJKent_band

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  2 years ago

  Public Service Announcement (PSA) BigThirdEye is just cacaplop trying to swamp these forums with repetitive, stupid questions, either via his own threads or crashing other threads. But, as always, take a look at his posting history and judge for yourself. If engaging with his inane posts is fun for you, then go for it. Otherwise, don't think you're answering sincere questions. ~ [view link].Ishmael ~ April 29, 2022 “In this world, shipmates, sin that pays its way can travel freely, and without a passport; whereas Virtue, if a pauper, is stopped at all frontiers." ~Father Mapple via Herman Melville's "Moby Dick".
• Champphilly

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  2 years ago

  Normally for a $300 VIP, i pay 60 to 150 depends on how well the dance and definitely no extras though. But I pay min of 20%.
• rickmacrodong

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  2 years ago

  Champ why 50% tip and why definitely no extras? Not even touching their pussy? Or them giving you safe extras like LDK or outside the pants touch play?
• Champphilly

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  2 years ago

  Sorry I don’t want to cross the rules. Nowada
• Champphilly

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  2 years ago

  Sorry, I don’t want to cross the rules. As I go to these clubs regularly, the girls easily hang out with me atleast 2to 3 hours. When the dance is good, just make them happy by rewarding big. It is more of relationship building.
• Vicfl

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  a year ago

  do you think it is retail store?
• Jdo11

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  a year ago

  Haven't had to in ages. If I'm getting dances it's either to test the dancers willingness to perform ldk, or it's after having negotiated her fee for performing a ldk. The only time I'd consider tipping is I ldk'ed during the trial dances without having first negotiated.
• Cashman1234

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  a year ago

  My suggestion is to ignore the OP. This is another troll post. Based on the OP’s history of posting - it is idiotic to think this person has set foot in a strip club. If a good dance was provided, then I always give a tip. It’s common sense.
• rickmacrodong

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  a year ago

  Jdo you offer extra for ldk? Whys that? It takes a certain amount of dances to get an ldk, so you’re usually paying a good amount. Cash, lapdances aren’t like tipping a waiter. You’re free to tip, you can even give money out to struggling dancers for free, no need to wait for a tip. Dancers and escorts are already paid for the service. You can tip, but it’s really a gift not a tip. And if you’re paying extra for some additional services beyond a dance that’s not a tip.
• Jdo11

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  a year ago

  I prefer to get an assjob with my cock out of my pants until I nut. It's not something most dancers are okay performing without negotiating on pricing. I don't mind spending up to $ on assjobs ldks. I used to stealth ldks as a broke college student, but I don't see the need to do so nowadays.