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6 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I have had nearly all positive results from my visits to strip clubs and hanging out OTC as well. I don't have any expectations either and I'm always pleasantly surprised....I expect SS, white lies, and to be hustled.....What I usually get is sincere concern, frank conversations, warm tingly happiness from the attention of an attractive woman. Sometimes I even get to go on crazy dates and get some thrills...Sometimes I get amazing sex like I'd never imagined....I've been in three ways and four ways....I've sat around in strippers homes while they carry on like I live there....It's all utterly fascinating and energizing to me....I can't say I regret any of it....So I hope you don't think I'm negative....
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6 years ago
I know a stripper who really was in the Army Reserve lol...They called her Amazon.
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6 years ago
I know plenty of non strippers that stay in school for 10 years
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6 years ago
that's why my gat sits under my seat.
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6 years ago
tuscl.net is blocked at my employer's corporate office as is switter.com and pornhub.com etc...I guess that's better than allowing the traffic and disciplining the employee.
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6 years ago
Yeah I have heard the same...She said she liked him because he was good looking...though she also said I was also good looking....she left him once before and went back to him when I "ditched her".
(I'm married and my wife had been telling me she wanted a divorce for years and never wanted to have sex....When I confronted and said lets do it, her she changed her mind and wanted to make the marriage work).
So to be honest, I ditched her first....But then after being back with him for a couple months, she ditched him again and came back to hanging out with me...after having him arrested for his warrants...He was "driving her and her housemates crazy"....
But of course then he came back from jail and has no where to stay so they let him stay with them again...and complain about him....She insists he was only staying there long enough to find a place. He even messaged me and said he had no problem with me and she was lucky to have me...of course I don't believe anything....He might have made an agreement to make peace with me....The net net of it is that he's been freeloading off the other two for the last couple months....Her housemate also insisted he was living separate from them...Though she told me they gave him drugs...Why would you give this freeloader drugs? really?
So I have been coming closer to separation now and consulting with attorney, making plans etc...and offered to possibly allow her to live with me though I really don't want to do that unless she's trying to live clean....
So either she will go back to the ex after jail.....or leave altogether.....or maybe talk to me...everyone seems to favor the ex, and my gut does as well...and honestly I'm probably better off on my own....this being an immense deep immersion learning experience....I might have to write a book after this..
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6 years ago
on the bright side she's introduced me to so many CF's, if we're done I'm going to be like a kid in a candy store....OTC pretty much guaranteed if I want it...
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6 years ago
hopefully a better one than the last.....
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6 years ago
LOL don't be sorry...This is amusing to me...I gave her an easy out...I told her I was afraid her story of endless love was simply SS and not to be worried if it is.....and that she shouldn't be ashamed of it....I respect a good hustle....and that really is true...It's just been killing me how long this has been going on....I'm dying to know the resolution...
The budget has already been cut too...so I'm making this really easy...
She always said if it wasn't for the drugs, she'd fuck me for free....be my bf, live with me etc...
and part of me would certainly like that...But I've always maintained that is a fool's dream...and its probably more trouble than its worth...And on the flip side, why would she want to hang out with a guy like me anyway...other than the money...I've heard it all...You're really good looking, not like the other guys....I actually enjoy fucking you unlike the others...lol
If she does get out, stays clean, and still professes undying love, I will do something special for her for sure....I just don't have a lot of faith based on past experiences prior to her.
I will give her the fact that she's been 100% honest though up to now....something that shocks the hell out of me.
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6 years ago
LOL how is he going to collect though?
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6 years ago
Funny I don't ask them about this....I just let it come out.....They are pretty honest with me because later I get to know a lot of them better...The other girls often tell me about her other job if any...I get the intel from the co-workers or management...They know I won't pass on the information...
Funniest things I have heard dancers say which was SS was...
"Management drug tests us, so I can't use drugs".....( I ended up with her OTC later doing lines of coke)
"I'm a clean girl..I don't give head or fuck my customers...ever...." (later that night she asked me if I wanted my dick sucked for $1,000)
One stripper I know Nicole is studying law and shared what she was studying with me....She's legit.
On of the funniest strippers I know actually recruits PL's and other dancers for OTC like a pimp....I've seen her arrange OTC dates between co-workers and customers...I've also seen her promise a PL sex and then pawn him off on another dancer...In fact, she's pretty exclusive to a couple guys...
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6 years ago
I know a prosecutor who is a sd
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6 years ago
Yes they do....Pretty women, rock stars, athletes, movies stars, business types, and on down to even white people.....Yes some people get away with more...One funny thing i found as an addict of many years....Is that while cops would stop and intervene with many people who looked "normal" found with drugs because they thought they needed "help"....As a repeat offender the cops would often just yell at me, take away my shit, or shrug their shoulders...And I'm not even a pretty woman....
Another interesting fact...I got stopped many many times by police when copping...Every time they'd ask me what I was doing, I'd tell them...tryin to cop some dope....They would be in shock I wasn't lying to them and normally yell at me again not to and let me go...
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6 years ago
Always some crazy shit going on here :)
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6 years ago
I get most of my news by reading...Very little from TV and radio...though I like NPR....
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6 years ago
ever since he got elected I quite pay attention...
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6 years ago
Find one that makes you happy. You high count me and I'm gonna low pay you.
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6 years ago
damn, don't talk to her or give her a dime...sounds like a ROB
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6 years ago
@BruGaleen -- " Visiting SCs has already started to have a positive impact on my life"....So did crack when i first started smoking it....
She calls it "fuck me juice". -- strippers call this, pay me more daddy.....get the PL to blush
"I feel like I'm starting a very enjoyable journey!" -- yes, you are....you'll feel alive and excitement...keep track of your finances...
If this OP isn't a troll....i do want to hear the progression of things....
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6 years ago
Yeah they do have it very well.....plus a job that is virtually impossible to be fired from what I see.... I do count seeing her in the SC because....she would complain it is a slow night...I'll come up....she'll come and dance for me, high mileage as fuck yes but no extras..she gets yelled at as it is with taking of pasties and clothes and other things she's not supposed to do...and get drinks...I tell her don't be afraid to go hit up some guys and make money...but for the most part she'll just sit with me...
So the spreadsheet for me represents my atf/sb expenditures.....I need an accurate figure to balance against incomes from a couple sources to ensure I'm not depleting my working capital for the one business, nor increasing my debt load either...I can see if you want to separate your club expenses from your sb expenses but to me they're one in the same for the time being.
Certainly they have their life.....hard to get away from....high pay, little work....guys willing to drive them around, buy them drugs....take them shopping , whatever...I've talked with her about other options...None of them greatly appealing to her.
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6 years ago
LOL......I knew I was paying a lot....and she wasn't originally supposed to be a SB it just turned out that way....I write back and forth with Gawker.....at least i can say I haven't bought her a house or a car! And I think that by keeping track and looking at my budget I know I've spent to much so I can adjust now...This is better than recklessly spending all my money and self destructing...I've talked to a lot of girls and heard stories of guys who owned businesses who were wealthy and got hooked up with strippers and spent it all....sometimes on drugs, other times on girl's lifestyles and drugs...
And yes I need the excel spreadsheet because its fucking shocking....and it even shocked her....she's been draining guys for a long time and says she feels bad...which she genuinely does, but she's an addict...So when she's trying not to get sick, feeling bad goes out the window...
I've gotten thicker skin now too....If she says she didn't make enough money and is sick, I just say sorry that sucks....better luck tonight at work.
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6 years ago
bj99 posted on june 1st last.
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6 years ago
I even know a lot about the sugar daddies...some are local politicians who house sb's and even take them on drug runs to get their stuff....so many stories.
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6 years ago
I do know any one of her co-workers would OTC with me now....maybe I do have some choices...They treat me differently than most of the customers....They'll sit and discuss the customers with me....One was telling me...yeah I don't give bachelor party guys good dances because they'll tip me anyway...and about how when a guy starts coming they try to maximize that in-club spending and avoid OTC....But with me, sure I'll come home and fuck you any time...They also tell me what guys names are, what they do...and some of its pretty interesting.....so be careful what you tell these girls....
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6 years ago
Thanks @RandomMember.....Reality.