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6 years ago
And yet another reason I'm with her...Due to time constraints...It is not easy for me to go out and meet sb's or other dancers....I have access to her nearly any time I want...I can call her, text her, go and pick her up nearly any time i want...She may have other guys, but I don't get the usual stripper delays or absences....Which means either I'm top dog or she's pretty exclusive...Yes it was an experiment in wasting cash for sure...But it was exciting and fun too.
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6 years ago
thanks I needed a reality check, that's why I posted this here...$7,000 for the month included dinner, dates, sex (plenty of it), seeing her in the club. What is funny to note is...Seeing her in the club, which I did about once a week, was the most expensive activity. Fuck that....Typical club spend was $400-600 when you consider $10 drinks, dances, sometimes double dances, drinks for other CF lol....
Typical OTC date is 250-350 incl dinner, drinks, her, etc
A few times I just hung out with her and gave her money
...but all of it damn expensive....I have the money it was all discretionary, but that isn't sustainable or reasonable in my book...Yes I have contemplated getting her a place, but she's actually staying with another SB who's daddy is footing the bill for the place...though the girls are supposed to pay "rent" that makes no sense because the other girls SD gives her the rent money and me likewise...
Anyway....I'm glad I kept good records in excel or I wouldn't have even believed I spent that much....and I'm sure I might have missed a time or two...So the thing is she says she feels ashamed she spent that much and she has cut way back.....Yet we still talk and do dates, etc...The main problem is she's an addict...so really it will be whether she can get a grip on that or not....I think after 7-8k that 1K a week is a good next step, and maybe less after that...Because if I can't achieve that, then I'll have to move on.
The problem is there are feelings and emotions involved so I have to be a hardass when it comes to the money I'm learning...
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6 years ago
I'm lucky my fav place has no vip rooms...OTC is my VIP....:)
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6 years ago
lakeside ave....men's homeless shelter...plenty of guys smoking crack in the alleyways there...
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6 years ago
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goodguyGood Guy Looking for a Good Time: Detroit - So Florida
There is no VIP at my fav club....and the most dances I've had is probably 60 or so in one night....from my atf....though I prefer to spend my money OTC with her.
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6 years ago
@subraman your comment was hilarious...."When juice is pretending to be an SD and scamming women on SA, he doesn't like other people pretending to be SBs and scamming him"
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6 years ago
I'm going to start posting what I spend on here so I can get reality checked by you all...only gawker knew before what I spent...
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6 years ago
I spent a record amount last month on my atf/sb........just north of $7K........
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6 years ago
probably better they don't read my stuff....
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6 years ago
oh and the last time I sat outside the club by the back entrance....It was pointed out to me by a couple dancers 2 pimps waiting for their girls.
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6 years ago
Most of the dancers I know around Cleveland live in houses with housemates....other stippers, hoes, sometimes a leech bf, and I even know of a few strippers who live in a house owned by their dealer.
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6 years ago
Listen to cashman! and the others...No I am getting anything for free...I'm a de facto sugar daddy to my atf....and sometimes extra money for one of her housemates or a co-worker...
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6 years ago
It all started one day when my atf introduced me at the club as "her girlfriend" to a few other strippers...then she went and grabbed the hottest one for a dual dance....and later a threesome...so I said, boyfriend??? that means free right? lol
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6 years ago
so I started doing that to a few of them....they know they're getting paid....
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6 years ago
it's just me fucking with them a little because my atf told me I didn't have to pay her....then she says later, but it would be really really nice if you did....lol...of course I'm going to pay you baby.
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6 years ago
I know these girls very well and they love me...I take them to lunch, shopping sometimes for clothes, food...and I usually give them 300....so I could in theory spend 600 in a day....I haven't had any complaints.
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6 years ago
TUSCL t-shirts for all
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6 years ago
My own playbook.....After high mileage and dfk....I simply ask them do you want to have sex with me? Or when i've been really daring "are you down to fuck?" I never mention anything about payment, that's a given.....My fav little game has been to just wait until after sex and never even offer to pay...I always get "what are you going to give me?" LOL and then we haggle...
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6 years ago
I've never met anyone...I may meet up with someone from TER in aug and hit a club...I'd love to meet people from here. I could set up a bitcoin meetup as a cover event :)
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6 years ago
locking down a dancer is probably one of the easiest and first skill you'll master here....
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6 years ago
Well, I took her and her roommate out for lunch and to the beach, leaving the ex at home...my friend offered to blow me on the beach...now this was some funny shit....I had her roommate watching for cops while the other is giving me head in broad daylight...It has been sunny and warm here..i guess this is the season for outdoor play. She said she likes nature, so we'll have to go on some trails and have sex though I can't forget to bring the mosquito repellent...later that night just her and I go out to eat, have drinks, and fuck....totally satisfying....Ex says he has no problem with me...I hope she doesn't run home and tell him all the details..I still don't trust him.
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6 years ago
I feel it....renting a dancer for the night to be all yours to hug and hold and kiss and grope and snuggle with is just fabulous....
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6 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
I would like to be able to see replies to discussions I'm in....I used to get emails but the links didn't deep link I don't think....
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6 years ago
I don't even go up to the stage unless the girl is attractive and I'm looking for some action...and then I usually tip them a 5 at least...I don't like singles....depending on my budget I might giver her 5, 10 or 20.....sorry guys I spoil them...haha
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6 years ago
I've posed the question to a few...Some want to finish school up...Others will look for jobs in sales, management, business, etc. And there are some who tell me they must dance at a club or else go to rehab. There is nowhere else that would take them.