Comments by WiseToo (page 2)

Her face is downright scary, Halloween anyone?

#3 is the best and then part ways. #2 wants to tidy things up, but all she's really doing is making herself ready for the next VIP and then using me for another drink while she waits for her next customer.

^Good point. Dancers can be flaky and be a no show. Tell her you'll meet her at the bar in the restaurant. Also, tell the bar tender that you are waiting for some friends, are the "designated driver" and may possibly get a drink later. If she's a no show, you leave and have lost nothing but some time.

I'll try not to over complicate this. Here's what I suggest, 1. Try to setup the "sushi" date. But you, not her, suggest the location of the "sushi" restaurant. Pick a restaurant where it's cheaper and not too expensive. Get her reaction. Is she interested in only the expensive restaurants or is she satisfied with your choice? Her reaction will provide insight on her intentions. 2. Remember the "law of diminishing returns" applies here. Don't think that the more you spend either ITC or OTC will mean you'll have proportionally more fun. You'll have to find that sweet spot where the amount you spend is in balance with the amount of your fun. 3. You'll have to make your intentions known, but start off slowly with something easy and simple, such as a hj, so she feels secure and comfortable. Don't waste money on a hotel, at this time. It's not needed. And when talking about a hj, don't mention money. Wait for her reaction, so you can gauge whether she may be a good for more fun. 4. If there was good vibe on the "sushi" date, follow-up with another date and reveal more of your intentions, following the above paradigm.

The plastic surgeon who did the fake tits should be sued for malpractice by making her look less attractive. Probably a doctor who hates women.

I found that tipping them a $1 may not be enough to get them to move along. They may want a tip in their garter, then a tip on their left hip, then they turn and want another tip on their right hip. I'll tip, but she has to do more than offer to sell me a dance.

I don't consider it as rejecting the girl, but rather rejecting her attempt to get money from me. I'm kind of indifferent about it because it comes with the territory of being a stripper. It's unrealistic for a stripper to expect every guy she asks will buy a dance or a VIP or even buy her a drink. If she thinks otherwise, she'll be disappointed. I try to be polite, but it's her problem if her feelings are hurt or she gets upset. She needs to talk to the house mother for help dealing with rejection.

At a minimum, female condoms should be mandatory. Better yet, I agree with drewcareypnw that a condom should be available that covers your balls.

She has no need for a life jacket while in the water. She has two of her own built in flotation devices available. Pass, just way too much to get a grip on.

Just today, I ordered a breakfast item and coffee at a fast food restaurant. The total came to $6.04 and I gave the clerk $10.04. She accidentally entered $20.04 and the register calculated the change to be $14.00. She realized her mistake and apologized for the error, but she couldn't determine the correct change and had to ask for help. The other day I got a coffee at a different take out restaurant and asked for two creamers and two splendas on the side. I got the coffee and the clerk gave me three creamers and two sugar packets. Apparently, the help today can't concentrate for more than a few seconds.

It seems that shootings at clubs occur during the wee hours of the morning and rarely, if ever, during the afternoon or evening hours. I try to schedule my club times to avoid the higher risk hours.

Pass, she looks underage.

Pass, she would have to pay me.

Pass, looks like a plastic woman.

The only time I got free food was at Burger King when they were switching over from the breakfast menu to the lunch menu at 10:30 AM. After I paid for my order, the clerk said the cash registers switched over to the lunch menu making it impossible to sell any more breakfast items. She told me what they had for free, otherwise they were going into the trash.

I found roll calls to be of little value because of the reasons already mentioned. I also found calling a club is of little value because they often either outright lie, speak in half truths or just don't want to be bothered giving an answer. Is Lavender working today? "Yes" can mean she is scheduled to work and not that she is working right now. When asked if she is working right now the response can be "she's on her way, she just called in." The reality is Lavender never sets foot in the club and expectations for a great dance / VIP turns the club visit into frustration and a big disappointment. I found the best is when you have no expectations and the club showcases the dancers at the beginning of a shift by introducing them as they walk around on the stage. What you see is what you get.

Reviews that are written as one long rambling paragraph should be automatically rejected by the system. The review can be resubmitted after it's reworked into paragraphs.

Back in the old days, Horn and Hardart operated food service automats. The automat provided customers with a preview of all possible dining options, but unlike a vending machine, the food was freshly made and visible. The customer self-served; put money in the machine, opened a small glass window and removed the selection. No counter service and no waitress to tip. Better than today's kiosks.

Icey is right about pretending not to speak English. I've even experienced that at a car rental place in San Diego. The clerk at the counter spoke very broken English. I was then given a car which was in a less expensive category than the car I had reserved on line, but they would still bill me for the more expensive car I had reserved. When I tried to get the clerk to correct the billing error, they acted all confused and pretended they didn't understand what I was saying. Eventually, they spoke to someone in Spanish on the phone. Then a miracle happened. They began to speak in perfect English and corrected the problem. It seemed they made a slip and inadvertently admitted they were trying to scam me with their broken English bullshit.

I recall seeing some dancers at an extras club sitting at a table scrolling through their phones and ignoring customers. I was pissed so I just went up to one, made some humorous but sarcastic comment about her phone. She got up and showed me she was scrolling through dick pictures. She found her favorite (involved a hot dog roll and mustard) giggled and walked away. Looking at dick pictures when she could see the real deal made absolutely no sense.

"A stripper has anonymity as long as she changes cities and name." That's not necessarily true. Many states, localities require adult entertainers "strippers" to obtain some type of government license. Any type of government license will compromise anonymity. The following link has the state by state regulations. On a positive note, RI has no licensing requirement and dancers need to be only 18+ That may explain why a club such as RI Dolls can have such a huge turnover in dancers. There is no barrier to entry caused by licensing which can discourage new girls from testing the waters as a stripper. https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/stripping-laws-by-state

Don't assume that a farewell gift means money. She might have something else in mind. I would question her and ask her for some ideas for a farewell gift and take it from there.

Take a look at Haband pants. They have every day use pants with a full elastic waist. The company is located in New Jersey.

I had some lap dances a few times from a dancer who's from MA. I thought we got along well so I mentioned ITC. She said that she doesn't do ITC but occasionally does OTC and mentioned that in Providence there are a few "lifestyle" clubs for swingers. She showed me a club on her phone, assured me that she knows the swinger couples who go to that club and implied we could meet there as singles. She also said that she is not married. I thought the conversation was kind of bizarre. I don't know what's in it for her dollar wise, nor what to expect. It seems that such an OTC meeting can be some type of scam or perhaps it is legit. I'm not anxious to find out so i didn't follow up. I think ITC might be the better option.

Great review! Seriously, winning the Miss Nude New England Contest was a recognized accomplishment in the United States, at the better strip clubs. I don't know if that's true today. Back in 2010, the contest was won by Tara Dega. She told me that soon after she won, she had the opportunity to go on tour and be booked at upscale clubs such as in Louisiana and Arizona before a paid admission crowd. She did quite well financially while on tour. I settled for having an early dinner with her and a few lap dances. It was money well spent.