The Shoe on the Other Foot
booty_lover92
Somewhere in the Carolinas
Am I the only one who gets a little bit of satisfaction when you reject or tell a girl no in the Club? Most of us average guys have been experiencing rejection since we had sippy cups and were riding tricycles lol so we are used to it even though it sucks. Most women in the real world never approach Men which leads to less rejection plus no matter how ugly or fat she is in the real world she will still have desperate guys lined up for her.
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And sometimes it’s not always a simple “no, I good, thanks” and they move on.
I’ve gotten some comments like “why are you here if you not getting dances” “who you waiting on” “you probably don’t have any money anyway”, etc.
In those cases, I do feel like I dodged a bullet, but I still wouldn’t say I get any satisfaction from it.
With the preferable women, with a little experience, you can generally tell if they are interested in you or not. So, not that much rejection. The exception is with shy women. But, in that case, hard to know when it's straight up rejection, or when they are too shy to follow through on their interest in you.
If she's nice but just not my type I try to cut it short before she even sits down and gets the wrong idea.
A lot of guys do though and for the reasons op states. I think it's sick
But related to your point, I do enjoy being valued and sought-after in the club by hot chicks. Yes, it's a fantasy, but it works.
Yes.
At least on here. But I'm sure there are others like you visiting clubs and, tbh, it's kind of sad. Guys like this evoke a weird combination of both disdain and pity from me.
Of course I didn't "experience rejection since I had sippy cups and was riding a tricycle" so maybe I just struggle to relate. Maybe I'd be a bitter little person too if I had, happy to make girls in their underwear feel bad with just the tiniest bit of power that I had. Who knows?
to answer the question the answer is no. getting a bit of satisfaction by taking it out on a girl at a stripclub for all the accumulated rejections is pretty fucked up.
I only feel good about it if she gets bitchy after a polite rejection.
What I really hate is girls who make you be really aggressive to get iris of them but sometimes you don’t have a choice.
I choose to focus on the fun times in strip clubs, not any rejections.
I try to be polite, but it's her problem if her feelings are hurt or she gets upset. She needs to talk to the house mother for help dealing with rejection.
It's not about making anyone else feel bad. OP said nothing to indicate he rejects girls in a disrespectful or malicious way. A few posters are looking pretty silly in their negative judgements of him.
I don't get any satisfaction from that sort of thing. I do not particularly mind the typical interactions where she offers her company and I decline. I rather dislike the interactions where she persists to the point of annoyance and I have to be less than polite or even rude to get my point across. Luckily, those aren't very common. I don't let any of it ruin my visit, but I'd certainly prefer not to have to reject any of them. It would be perfect if every single girl who approached me was exactly my type and I could say yes every time.
And don't think girls, even hot girls, don't know what its like to be rejected. Don't forget that tastes vary, one mans hot is another mans ugly. Even the hottest of the hot have been rejected for something, even if it was more perceived than actual. They've still felt it.
But she loves him
And he loves somebody else
You just can't win
Dancers lose money by default if many customers dont come in. The idea of them being upset not over the rejection but over losing money is laughable.