There are Four Categories of Dancers
1. The ones who, after you’ve had all the fun in VIP, give you a hug and a peck and a “Buh Bye”, disappear in the dressing room, and you don’t see them again until the next time you’re in the club;
2. The ones who, after you’ve had all the fun in VIP, say they’d like to share a post-coital drink, but first disappear into the dressing room to tidy things up;
3. The ones who, after you’ve had all the fun in VIP, say they’d like to share a post-coital drink, but are right at your elbow as you stride up to the bar from VIP; and
4. All the rest.
All other things being equal, which do you prefer?
Since I’m usually pressed for time, Categories 1, 2 or 3 can usually serve the purpose adequately. But, my preference would be Category 3. That’s because all other things aren’t equal. A woman who is willing to defer taking care of business to keep the party going a little longer lacks some inhibitions. which should correlate to the intensity of her performance in VIP. Seems like it works out that way.
2. The ones who, after you’ve had all the fun in VIP, say they’d like to share a post-coital drink, but first disappear into the dressing room to tidy things up;
3. The ones who, after you’ve had all the fun in VIP, say they’d like to share a post-coital drink, but are right at your elbow as you stride up to the bar from VIP; and
4. All the rest.
All other things being equal, which do you prefer?
Since I’m usually pressed for time, Categories 1, 2 or 3 can usually serve the purpose adequately. But, my preference would be Category 3. That’s because all other things aren’t equal. A woman who is willing to defer taking care of business to keep the party going a little longer lacks some inhibitions. which should correlate to the intensity of her performance in VIP. Seems like it works out that way.
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There have been dancers that I took to VIP solely based on their looks and willingness to have a wide range of fun, but frankly trying to have a chat with them was a real chore.
In those instances, it was always better for both of us to part ways quickly after we both got what we wanted.
Also, I pretty much always hit the restroom after doing a room. I might swing by the bar to drop off my drink and re-establish my seat, but after a trip to a room I need to at the very least wash my hands. And I tend to prefer girls who aren't germaphobes but are compelled to wash up frequently. That usually puts me in #2. If it matters, the definition of a drink can vary considerably from literally having a single drink to not leaving my side till I leave the club.
But, like CMI said, sometimes I really have no interest in talking to her but she's still hot enough for me to want to fuck. In those cases, I prefer a perfunctory hug & kiss, followed by going our separate ways.
I often hit the exit after the VIP.
It's transactional for me. I know she's not into me. There's been exceptions but less than a handful in nearly 40 years of clubbing.
Just curious, you can obviously do whatever you want, but do you care to have any kind of rapport? Or do you want a woman to just get nasty right away? I prefer to chat a little bit, but that’s just me
I typically don't have a ton of time to sit around after a VIP. Manners, politeness, and attitude all matter, but beyond that I'm not looking for any sort of connection beyond what happens in the VIP, like, at all.